This is a diary in 2 parts. The first part deals with a party at a friend’s house, the second part with a few days I spent at their game-farm this week. (The second part is shorter as it was just a bit of fun.) Part 1 Some weeks ago Simon, my hubby, and I were invited to a party at the home of a couple we have known for quite a while. They are a bit older than I am - Mark is around 45 I think, and his wife, Sophie, is a f...

Test 3 I was on a charter over the last 10 days, doing a yacht delivery of a refurbished motor yacht, a 60 m catamaran, from Civitavecchia (the Port of Rome) where the shipyard is, to Saint Tropez where the new owner wants it based. I flew to Venice first to see my ex-GF Gabi. Quite a difficult meeting for me - she has a new girlfriend, a very beautiful, very young and sexy girl, a private secretary and part-time model in...

It will help if you read the diaries of 28 Oct 2014 and 4 Jan 2017 before reading this, as two of the couples are referred to in those diaries. But of course if you don’t want to, let me quickly tell you who is who. The hosts of this party in this diary were Vladimir and Margo. Vlad is Georgian, and has some business interests with my hubby, Simon. Vlad is married to Margot, a German woman. Both are in their early 60’s. (...

Probably the most common question I get here is "how do I get invited to a swinger party?". The question is not necessarily aimed at a party with me, just in general - "where do I start?" The answer I think is either with a couple you know, or at a club if you don’t know anyone else who swings. When I lived in Europe, I met a lot of people who I later went to parties with that way. Then each of them knows one person, and...

This is a work of fiction, written at the request of a member here who took up my challenge in my BBC story to identify what was not true in it. Having got that right, he "earned" a custom-made story, based on him and his wife as the characters . Enjoy! A DAY AT THE BEACH The morning mist was still low over the ocean when Don and Mandy left their house, a short walk from the beach at Llandudno, and headed for the cold whi...

I don’t often write about my experiences on the mega motor-yachts I crew on, simply because on most of the charters its only work work work, and very little happens regarding any "swinging" involving me (there are exceptions, and some of these are in my earlier diaries). The main reason for this "lack of activity" is that the crew are usually only 6-10 people, with around 8 guests (this on a 50m yacht). Only when one gets...

This is more a work of fiction than a normal diary. I have written it in the first person, as it is based on a real event some years ago. The event and the people are real, but certain details are not. (I leave it to you to work out which part is real and which is fiction! If you can work out which part is fiction and tell me, I will write a custom-made story for you if you wish!). This story is written at the request of...

Amber is a friend of Simons from years ago - they grew up together in Cape Town, and have remained close ever since. She is a few years younger than Simon (she is 55, I think) and is married to a very nice guy, Neil - a real gentle giant! He stands almost 1.9m and must weigh 130 kgs I guess, but he is not fat, just huge! As big as he is, Amber is small - she is shorter than I am, and quite petite - blonde short hair, a cu...

Part 1 In my Diary of 6 DECEMBER I wrote about a sort of dogging experience in Germany some years ago. There was an interesting sequel to this two months later. (You may want to read that diary first so that this makes sense. In fact you MUST or the people here really won’t make sense). This was also the first time I had come into contact with what I would call "real wealth". I had only done a few charters on the mega-mot...

Two weeks ago, Simon and I were invited to a party at Andre and Sandy’s house. (I have written about them in my diaries of 6 march 2015 and 17 march 2015 ). They are experienced swingers, and have a very open marriage. Sandy is an estate agent, and has had many affairs with her fellow agents- after all, they have the house on show to themselves before the open-day starts, and she uses the time before the prospective buyer...

A while ago I wrote about my experience with "dogging" when I was a student in the UK. I said that it was my one and only experience of dogging. My hubby, Simon, doesn’t read much of my diaries, but the other day he read that diary, and reminded me that it was not the one and only experience of dogging, as there was a similar evening in Germany a year or two later. I didn’t really think of that German evening as "dogging"...

Simon and I have friends, a South African couple, who have been to a few swinging parties with us. Two weeks ago (as I write this, 17 Nov 2016 - it may be longer by the time I finish it!) Brett, the husband, phoned Simon to ask if we wanted to join them that Saturday night for a fun party. They had two couples, friends from Germany, and both couples were into swinging. Merle (Brett’s wife) and Brett had been with these tw...

I get asked quite often about various sexual practices - often it is asked as "do you/would you do …." I think quite often it is not to find out about me; so much as it is to find out about some other woman, and whether what they will or won’t do is normal/typical etc. I am not sure that this has much validity, as I would not hold myself to be typical of a normal woman (if there is such a thing!), but I get asked anyway....

Test 2 As many of you know, I am an au pair when I am in South Africa, which is 90% of the time these days since I got married in Jan 2016. I look after 2 small children, who, until last year, went to a playschool most mornings. From sitting around at the playschool, I became friends with most of the teachers, and with one in particular, a young British girl, Sharon. She left school quite young in the UK, studied to be a...

Normally, these diaries are about some or other party I have been to or about some experience in the past. This one is a little different. First, some background. As many of you will know, I have been friends with Simon, a man I have known all my life, as he is a friend of my Dads originally. We have been seeing each other since I was about 19, and he is very important to me. However, because he is much older than I am, w...