A few weeks ago, I returned from our holiday to Scandinavia, followed by a work-cruise for me in the Med for 2 weeks back to back, on two different vessels. The week after I got back, Simon’s (my hubby's) business partner (in some joint ventures), Lev, wanted to have a party to celebrate the purchase of his new house in Bedfordview. (you can, and should, read about Lev in my diaries of 19 July 2017 and 27 Oct 2017, as it...

This diary is a little different to the others. Mostly, I write them well after a party or whatever, although if it seems to be something which may interest my friends here I may make notes the next day to remind myself what happened, with whom etc. This diary was written as it happened, day by day, as Simon, my hubby of 2+ years, and I were on a rare holiday together, on a cruise to the Norwegian fjords for a week. I rea...

Three weeks ago, I was invited by friends of ours to join them for a swinger party at their game-lodge near Bela -Bela. Originally, Simon was going to come as well, but at the last moment he had to go to Cape Town because a client needed to sign a contract, so he was away that weekend. As it was going to be a fairly small party, we both felt that it would be rude for both of us not to turn up at the last moment. I knew on...

Before I got married in 2015 I had several relationships, some more serious than others. Having been sexually active from a (too-) young age, I was never short of guys to date, although I was not promiscuous. I would let a guy feel me, and I might play with him, but I didn’t have a lot of guys whom I allowed to have full sex. When I finished school in Cape Town, I went to the UK to go to college there, where I studied Hot...

Happy New Year to you all! Simon (my hubby) and I had a quiet New Year with some friends over for a late braai. One of the couples there was Andre and Sandy, who you may have read about in previous diaries (SEE 19 April 2016 and others prior). Andre told Simon that he had two friends from the UK staying, who had never done a swinger party, but had been with their wives to a club in Leeds. They were here alone, and Andre s...

A CHRISTMAS TALE This is a work of fiction, not to be confused with my diaries. Some of the characters and some of the incidents are based on real people or events, or composite people or events. Any direct resemblance to any real person is however pure coincidence. Having said that, ‘’Janet Nienaber’’ and ‘’Dave Robinson’’ will know who they are, if they read this though! And yes Dave, Janet was fucking your boss as well...

So, by now many of my friends here will have read about my friend Carol, and her husband Mark (see my diary of 15 Sept 2017). We gym together and often have some breakfast afterwards at a nearby café. 3 weeks ago, she was in great excitement, dying to tell me something. After we had ordered, she pulled out her phone and showed me a whatsapp pic of a stunning young guy, maybe 18 or 19, beautifully built, with longish blond...

I was asked at short notice to work on a charter yacht 2 weeks ago. It is a very big yacht, 85 m, based in Monte Carlo, and the regular ‘’hotel manager ‘’ had fallen and broken her leg, so she could not continue the charter. The charter company knows me, and wrote to ask if I was available at 2 days’ notice to fly to the yacht where it was moored in Bari, on the East Coast of Italy, and take over from her. The cruise was...

PART ONE I am often asked about my job as an au pair here in SA, and whether my boss has ever ‘’hit on me’’ (he has, read diary dated 8 JULY 2014.) or whether we have ever actually fucked (we haven’t) So, let me first explain what I do, and how I came to do it. Then we will get to the interesting bits! Patience! I work for a VERY wealthy foreign couple who have two small children. I look after them, take them to school an...

TAMMY’S DIARY 15 SEPTEMBER 2017 Many of you will have read about my friend Carol by now. (See diaries 25/7/17 and 11/5/2017) To summarise, Carol is a stunning (natural) red-head, in her early 50’s although she looks easily 10 years younger, and we gym together. Quite a while ago, after she found out that I was bi-sexual, she wanted to experiment, so we made love. She enjoyed it, and we often played around when we met. Her...

A few days ago, I had coffee with a couple I had met on SH some time back. They had been out of the country since 2014, and had not seen me since I got married, so we got together to catch up. The conversation turned to a young woman they had met in the UK, who they met as the ‘’girlfriend ‘’ of the guy they were playing with, but who turned out to be an escort he used when he wanted to go to clubs where they only allowed...

This is an unusual dairy, in that it really will help you to understand the people involved if you read other diaries first. To easily access these diaries do as follows: 1. Go to the stories tab. 2. Filter for ‘’fact’’ 3. Search for username ‘’Tammy’’ 4. Then enter the word I suggest below to find the specific diary. There may be diaries from other people with the same word highlighted, but it will narrow the search for...

Every year around May I do a charter for an owner who takes his family and guests to watch the F1 Grand Prix in Monte Carlo. I first did this charter 6 years ago, and I have been asked to do it ever since. Maybe I should explain how I work. Very briefly, I look after what, on a commercial cruise ship, would be called the ‘’hotel’’ functions- guest rooms, bars, on-board and on-shore entertainment, facilities including thin...

This is not a diary like my usual ones. I was chatting to a friend here a while ago, and mentioned to him that a girl friend of mine had confided in me about 2 or 3 months ago that she and her boyfriend had, after a few too many drinks, had a 3 some with his best friend. AND that she enjoyed it! My friend here was keen to find out whether they ever followed up on this and did it again, and asked me to tell him if they did...

I gym regularly, and apart from getting fit it is also a great place to perv at the guys on display, just for fun! (Guys are so sweet- they think that only they perv! Trust me, when a group of girls are speaking quietly, and suddenly burst out laughing, 90% of the time it’s about a guy-story!) Anyway, I have a personal trainer to force me to lose some weight, and a few months ago he got another client to share the same ti...