Look... Here's my issue with you saying someone who is bi has gay tendencies.
I have no problem whether you are black, white, Indian, straight, bi, or in fact, gay... However, you need to understand that there will always be differing levels to which we are attracted and how and who we play with.
Now my understanding of the word gay (homosexual) is someone who actively engages in sexual acts with a same sex partner, is attracted to those of the same sex, or who actively seeks a relationship with a same sex partner..
Now just because I don't mind doing certain things with guys as to me a bj/hj is just as much the same thing whether it is from a man or a woman, but does that mean I actively look to engage, am attracted to, or seek a relationship with a guy? Never...
I just like you am as straight as they come, except I am open to trying things in a comfortable situation, call me deluded again, it doesn't bother me as I know who I am, what I want and what I enjoy as well as how I enjoy it, and thus I am not afraid to admit to partaking in bisexual acts and putting it out there as something I can enjoy as I am comfortable within my own sexuality...
You always complain how people generalize us single men and I agree with you, it's BS that we all get blanketed with the same generalization due to stereotypes as well as negative experiences... I am as nice as can be, I'm intelligent, I know how to have fun, I never approach those who don't want to be approached and yet I get treated the same way you do and that's exactly why I won't go generalizing about others or labeling others based on your expectations and assumptions
Wanted to try the panorama one it's a shame it's been closed
Bleh, been having a bad week or so and busy, checked a few forum things but haven't been bothered or in the mood to go along with anything lol
Nope
Soulmates is just something we tell ourselves to justify anything in a relationship, but when it goes sour that quickly changes
Hang on a minute... I thought this was a forum where likeminded people come to talk about the joys of swinging, the wind in your hair, the world beneath you :swingingchair:
I think I may have made a mistake here :P:P:P was wondering why there was so many naked pictures here
Lol no I myself wouldn't put my goods through one nor do anything to one sticking through, but it's always been a fantasy of mine to have a lady I'm with do it to a guy while I watch (if that makes sense)
Then again I've always had that fantasy of having the woman I'm with blindfolded and having a friend have sex with her that she never knows which friend it was
Eina, don't say those things lol
With the forum being a little bit slow today I figure I might as well start a topic myself.
Who here has tried out doing the whole gloryhole thing and what is everyones' thoughts and opinions on it?
Personally I find the idea hot but the whole danger aspect sounds a bit too much to actually really do it, like dogging I suppose lol
At the end of the day, people will always have their preferences and tolerances... It's the same as talking about anal, and bisexuality, body type and such. Everyone will always be different depending on how we've grown up, what we've experienced in life, etc.
I don't think it's fair to question preferences as much as I understand your viewpoint since everyone will always be different and it should be respected
Hey sometimes you get lucky, sometimes you don't...
Some handy tips:
Personalize private messages, don't copy paste or use computer generated messages and winks
Upload a face pic or 2 to your public profile, it may help
If you are going to upload naked pics, add it to a pvt album and only invite those who ask to view it
Try to become friends, friendship is number one for most people here, don't try to seem desperate
Take some time to make your profile good and honest as possible, nothing worse than a quick draft profile
You might get lucky, you might not. I've made a few good friends on here already and I'm very happy so far, awesome people here
If you click the gallery tab at the top of the page, there will be "sub tabs" for males, females and couples... I also didn't know until I read this
To single out one person I'd like to get it on with here is impossible :eeek: so many lovely ladies and couples about...
who wouldn't?
I honestly think it's nearly impossible to actually get it wrong if you were actually trying lol
