Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR (joking)
Yep I will be sending all my male friends a note saying..You guys are NOT NEEDED anymore I have everything I need.
LMAO...nope I need them ....... let me keep them please!!!
:hunk: . . ( not my words, I'm quoting . . . .) 
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR sure there are women who chooses a vibrator over the *real thing* their men does not satisfy them most likely.
Or they do not have a male in their are lotsa things why a lady prefer a vibrator....but alas we loose our natural response to a great *natural*orgasm gallantly given by some worthy gent,if we women play with these little evil devices on our own.
@ Lee , Yep men can over do things as well, but lucky for us ladies they do not always have little evil devices on hand, their hand is the culprit.
I will check out the website of Dr OZ.
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Should vibrators then not come out with a *Warning Label* when purchased similar to cigarettes or other addictive drugs,warning buyers of the potential side effects.
Something like
*Vibrators* may be hazardous to your love life. Battery/electricity powered vibrations may make it difficult to achieve an orgasm in another way!
Quote by SDMR
'Ezekiel 25:17. "The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness. For he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know I am the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon you."
Quote by kawaicouple
Ok so now this is the last straw- I'm tired of us getting messages and winks from people that "don't cross race barrier line" so I changed our profile so now they can't say they missed it. Also the "no fat or overweight people" line I clearly mention large in profile wtf??? Then don't muthaf***ing message us!
Quote by Andre3000
'Ezekiel 25:17. "The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness. For he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know I am the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon you."
Quote by playcouple
We have been around various sites for about ten years, both the free and the paid sites. We have found the best sites to be free ones, this one specifically and another that is no longer going, the worst were also free sites. People dont change if they pay to join a site, if anything the rude and obnoxious ones get even more so as they now have a feeling of entitlement. So turning it into a paid site will not change anything, it will probably not even reduce the number of members, nor will it change the ratios (this is from experience of two well known paid sites.
:rotflmao::grin::grin::rotflmao::rotflmao: Quote by Mike_Pta
Seems its time we start a new thread to get to convo ball rolling again. So I figured we could start with an easy one.
So besides a swinging interest I'm curious as to what other hobbies you guys have to carve out your free time with.
I'll start with mine which is Scuba diving. Personally I love some time down under and exploring our oceans. One of my favourite dives was in Chuuk lagoon diving the San Francisco Maru wreck at 55m. Best part was standing behind the gun on stern and imaging the crew operating this massive gun in war and the sounds of orders being yelled across the deck in the heat of battle.
Quote by Andre3000
I hope you guys read when you entered this site..."Swinging Heaven South Africa is the number 1 free swingers and dogging site for South African Swingers and , chat, find friends and like minded couples or singles for partner/wife swapping fun.
Quote by LeeEC
Did you hear something? I thought I heard someone whining.... *sigh*
No volunteers. .. so sad. .. My hubby wants me to find a visitor for the wknd, but I can't find anyone with a decent arse and the brain cells to rob together. ... what do I do?
#QueenoftheThreads
:lol: Quote by Respect
Dude... I don't know if using the word "desperately" is going to do much for your cause....
Quote by PerfectFit
I think for a single guy looking for couples the "rules" are slightly different.
If a single guy contacts us and asks for a meet we generally do ask for a face pic so we can see if there is some attraction - yes that sounds shallow but we have to try sort the wheat from the chaff.
We do return the favour and open our face pics album though
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One of our pet hates is single guys using a couple profile, knowing that being a couple gets them further as most couples ignore single guys.
Examples of this-
- A couple who have recently split up and it says so in their profile
- A profile that states that the wife isn't keen but in the meantime he is browsing
IMO in these cases the profile should be deleted or changed to a single profile
Rant over
Quote by LeeEC
It's quite true. .. There are plenty of couples online who are definitely not BOTH into this idea. A bunch of us EC girls ( SH members, female partners) have decided that the key is to find couples whose female partner is the main active member on the site. But I can see how that might not work in your case SDMR.
I'm sure though that the statistically more likely scenario is one where the female is more reluctant. ...
We met a couple about 4 months back, and the first chance she got she told my husband that she had no interest whatsoever in swinging. Apparently he's been trying to get her into it for years and won't give up and so now her standard MO is to tell the guy in no uncertain terms about her complete lack of interest as soon as she can.
Wish she'd said something before and saved me the trip to meet them.
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So wait a minute... first looking at your junk does nothing to us compared to what looking at our naked necks does to you guys. And I'll be the first to say that women are, in general, oblivious to the effect they have on men. Mostly because, well you guys have trained us to believe that to be able to look at us is what you guys want and expect...
Ok second, you don't think that how you look matters as much to us? Ok, the thing is you men figured out about 100 years back how to get exactly as much eye candy readily available for yourself as you could possibly desire, come today, with a click of a button you can feast your eyes... now just coz we girls don't do visual like you guys do, doesn't mean we don't have our own kryptonite...
Besides, if you knew what it was, if you really knew how to tap I to what we want, well then we'd be dropping like flies at your feet... :twisted: but the sad truth, women seldom know what it is to feel really desired, because you've all got this silly free eye-candy getting in the friggin' way.
*sigh*
:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
Ok, but seriously, the suggestion of some or other identification is a good one.
lately it seems like the newest trend is:
Step 1 = Hi
Step 2 = request pics
Step 3 = (after ignoring anything that was written is previous message) request pics
Step 4 = (after ignoring question re: why they want to see pics before establishing any kind of compatibility) request pics
Step 5 = request pics
Step 6 = (after you send a let's rather not message) request pics
Yes, I know it will simply just be the "luck of the draw" I am having at the moment, but really people, make it clear in your profile that your requirements are pics before talking (will be way less frustrating for yourself too) 
