True story,

There is also the argument that people who don't want "attention" from certain types of people should perhaps not be members on a site that allows the type of people they don't want said attention from. But, (yes, there is a but) 🤣 some people think they should have everything just the way they want it, and fail to realise that their ranting just provokes certain people into irritating them more.

Speaking of ranting, I'll stop now 🤣🤣

Yes, yes and yes, but pause for a moment if you will . . . The thing is, sometimes people make a mistake, check boxes without realisng etc etc.

If a profile weite up states "no this or that" then it is irrelevant what boxes are ticked.

As single guys (or couples, or or or) we need to understand that one profile viewing our profile (regardless of what their profile says) is not an invitation for us to make contact. Surely if a profile views another profile and wants contact, they would make said contact.

Case and point

I wonder how many other members have thoughts / opinions / experiences they would like to share with regards to this topic but choose not too based on the simple fact they are aware just how other members would react.

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Add fuel … notice in general some stunning women take pics of themselves either in gym locker rooms and also in public bathrooms . I wonder why they do that? This is something i observed and maybe this is a new trend. I have Seen it allot on removed and removed. Maybe I am just old fashion🤪

I would think that 90% of those "pics" are available in the gallery without the women even being aware they are on display.

While I appreciate that this topic is mainly meant for couples, as a male who has been both active as a single person and part of a couple, the other reality is that this also applies to couples (side note: I said also)

Thing is (and this is obviously my own opinion) people in general have to some or other extent a serious lack of manners (often pronounced "sense of entitlement") which largely stems from a misguided understanding of well . ... basic etiquette.

Another thing I don't understand, is that if people (singles or couples) have the self confidence to be part of said lifestyle, how is it they are so easily manipulated by some or other arsehole?

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no...no..no... you all got it wrong....soft swinging means lots and lots and lots of soft pillows. so you can swing softly without hurting yourself.......oh hell ....watse stront skryf ons hier

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Luv making if you can't engage in subject please feel free to keep quiet than accuse me of turning this site into racial issues. Please 🙏🏾with all due respect don't do that

I think you might have misinterpreted @Luvmaking's response, it would seem he was actually supporting what you have said and not disagreeing with you.

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Where is it too much for the lifestyle this racial barriers?

Have your say and feel free let's talk about it openly so

You say "have your say" .... thing is, this has been raised multiple times over the years in the forum, yet there are some members who simply refuse to accept the concept of choice. And if anybody posts "their say" they get hammered from all directions.

Granted, there are of course those members who . . . . Oh why bother, people will think as they will

The majority of those kind of profiles land up with the "wife" being unavailable for the arranged meet . . . . . .

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Bathroom pics tell a story

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ATTENTION : All Single Men! If you have been ignored or blocked, please feel free to come Hassle My Wife

But.....

Put some effort in.... Be Direct... Tell her what you would like to do with/to her [The Kinkier the better]

Tell her when you would like this to happen, make arrangements and BAM! [It could Happen]

That's how easy it "Could" be...

Oh dear, the sheer onslaught that is about to take place on your inbox 😂

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If you get no feedback ie noise , how do you know she is enjoying what you doing

Sounds are one way, but pause for a moment if you will . . . .if you can't "feel" it in her body language . .. well, sounds are just that then are they not

🤣🤣 case and point

I would think that the vast majority of people have very open eyes.

Even after saying the other profile was deleted, you are still here typing agreesive words towards them, seems like their initial statement about you was not far off.

Move on already.

The obvious first step would be to not respond to any messages. . . . Second step? Well . . . People like that should be helped understand they are overstepping

I'm sure there's a variety of reasons (dont need wives contacting them, says a lot about a persons character etc etc) , but "their personal choice" is probably right near the top

Dick pics (or other) taken in bathrooms are a clear sign of an individual not actually being what they claim to be . . . ie: single

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Our experience is that most of the guys who say they are bi-curious are actually only interested in MMF, not a MM bi experience because they are "curious". The curiosity, it seems, is the clickbait for a threesome.

"CLICKBAIT" . . I think you might be onto something there 🤣

My take on it is that the vast majority of said profiles (but not necessarily all) are what are sometimes referred to as pic collectors

That and the profiles that don't show area / distance . . . .

It's not just you.

I myself remember a time when the forum was abuzz with activity, from general topic chit chat to playful banter. My recollection of the downfall was a certain group of forum perusers who took offense to people viewing their own opinion on certain subject matter.

The thing I don't get (well about said topic anyway) is why so many people are surprised!!! It's the way of the world at the moment, everyone thinks they are entitled to have it all the way they see it.

Not everyone thinks the same, or understands the same or more importantly has any form of manners.

Manners and or respect is unfortunately simply lacking in the majority of society today.

Now now people, it's not @kyledaniels10 fault that the . button on his keyboard doesn't work

That's a really easy one to answer. .

The simple answer is "YES" . . .🤣

I, myself could make more than one comment on this (for both sides of the coin) . . .. although, it would appear that it would not go down very well (by that I mean that seemingly the majority of people only want things to be in-line with their own views)

However. . . . .

Perhaps a useful starting point for some people would be to look at their method of communication.

There will always be a reason for someone to block your profile, and sometimes that reason has nothing whatsoever to do with you or your profile.

The use of the word "wife" in any excuse is to me a clear indication that either said wife knows nothing about post or doesn't actually exist.

But, that's just my own humble opinion.

And then of course the "couple" profile where the Wright up starts out with "I am " . .