Quote by Stout69gat

If you get no feedback ie noise , how do you know she is enjoying what you doing

Sounds are one way, but pause for a moment if you will . . . .if you can't "feel" it in her body language . .. well, sounds are just that then are they not

🤣🤣 case and point

I would think that the vast majority of people have very open eyes.

Even after saying the other profile was deleted, you are still here typing agreesive words towards them, seems like their initial statement about you was not far off.

Move on already.

The obvious first step would be to not respond to any messages. . . . Second step? Well . . . People like that should be helped understand they are overstepping

I'm sure there's a variety of reasons (dont need wives contacting them, says a lot about a persons character etc etc) , but "their personal choice" is probably right near the top

Dick pics (or other) taken in bathrooms are a clear sign of an individual not actually being what they claim to be . . . ie: single

Quote by BeeCeeCpt

Our experience is that most of the guys who say they are bi-curious are actually only interested in MMF, not a MM bi experience because they are "curious". The curiosity, it seems, is the clickbait for a threesome.

"CLICKBAIT" . . I think you might be onto something there 🤣

My take on it is that the vast majority of said profiles (but not necessarily all) are what are sometimes referred to as pic collectors

That and the profiles that don't show area / distance . . . .

It's not just you.

I myself remember a time when the forum was abuzz with activity, from general topic chit chat to playful banter. My recollection of the downfall was a certain group of forum perusers who took offense to people viewing their own opinion on certain subject matter.

The thing I don't get (well about said topic anyway) is why so many people are surprised!!! It's the way of the world at the moment, everyone thinks they are entitled to have it all the way they see it.

Not everyone thinks the same, or understands the same or more importantly has any form of manners.

Manners and or respect is unfortunately simply lacking in the majority of society today.

Now now people, it's not @kyledaniels10 fault that the . button on his keyboard doesn't work

That's a really easy one to answer. .

The simple answer is "YES" . . .🤣

I, myself could make more than one comment on this (for both sides of the coin) . . .. although, it would appear that it would not go down very well (by that I mean that seemingly the majority of people only want things to be in-line with their own views)

However. . . . .

Perhaps a useful starting point for some people would be to look at their method of communication.

There will always be a reason for someone to block your profile, and sometimes that reason has nothing whatsoever to do with you or your profile.

The use of the word "wife" in any excuse is to me a clear indication that either said wife knows nothing about post or doesn't actually exist.

But, that's just my own humble opinion.

And then of course the "couple" profile where the Wright up starts out with "I am " . .

Each to their own on this topic (and every other topic for that mattter) the fascinating part for me is how one never (I repeat never) reads where someone is 'complaining" about a profile (as in person/s of colour profile) that stipulates they themselves are only interested in a certain ummm boundary . . . . .

Pause for a moment if you will . . . .

But, if (and when) say your car breaks down . . .

This might not entirely fit into the "scammer" part of this post, and probably more into the "fake profile" genre, but generally when a message or two has been sent, no real information about the type of person the couple (or single member) is looking for and then suddenly "send pics" . . . .

Quote by daphil

"We can argue for days about what the lifestyle means to us individually"

And that sums it all up.

Those "couples" with opinions about single players are usually the first to create a single profile should their current relationship end.

It's not "just lately" . . .

But, take a second if you will, and think about life/the world in general. This kind of behavior is fairly common practice, not only in this kind of scenario.

Take a breath, it is what it is.

Watching for replies with much anticipation.

Just a thought . . .

Seeing as social media is a risky platform in general, surely one should think twice before sharing on a platform that has links to friends , family etc. . .

The "open minded" statement sure attracts a fair amount of backlash (for descriptive purposes. But maybe one should actually look up the meaning of rhe saying. The definition is actually "willing to consider" . . So my take is maybe the criticism is a little harsh

Sad thing is, what you have highlighted is lacking in everyday society, not just applicable here.

Your heading "double standards" has me smiling (refer to a recent post topic)

I do however doubt this post will receive a fraction of the attention (pronounced "backlash") the other post received.

🤣

Tell your friend that in SA, most (if not all) the laws are never "policed"...

And on the other side of the coin the amount of single women profiles.... Which start the bio off by saying "we are a couple"...

Just a thought...

Is it the site?

Or is it certain members?