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26 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
Racism, racial division, ethnic preference, discrimination.... These things exist. They have always existed and will always exist. If the world realises this and accepts it, it would actually be a better place. People are hell-bent on combatting these issues instead of accepting that as long we are human we will have free choice... And in turn will always make up our own minds regardless of what others want us to believe. For the most part, I believe it is mostly preference on this site anyway. I don't like Volks Wagen, so I won't ever buy one - regardless of what anyone says to try and change my mind - it is a preference and my personal choice. A couple or person not wanting to engage with someone of a certain ethnic group is exercising there freedom of choice. This goes far beyond race... Religion, financial status, employment designation, etc, etc, etc... The world is devided and its going to stay that way - forever! Accept it and live your life as you choose... Live and let live.

ja ja ja ja, so what you are suggesting then is that because you don't like VDub, I can't park my Golf in your driveway?
No, that is not what you are saying, you are not even highlighting the fact (apart for this purpose) that you do not like VDub, so why then, I wonder, do people have to voice their race preference publicly? Unnecessary as far as I am concerned.
Yes, we all have preferences when it come to sexual contact, for example . . . . I know a few people who do not like uncut penis, but it is not on their profile as "cut penis only, sorry no offence, just our preference" . . . . .
I, just like most other people, have my own preferences, but I do not advertise publicly whatever they may be . . .. . . the chances of being contacted by someone outside of your race preference . . . oh fuck it, lets call a bucket a bucket, the chances of being contacted by a black person are very very low, so why the hell make a song and dance about it on your profile?

26 Feb 2014

So, let's create a hypothetical situation here . . . . . . A couple (regardless of race) finds themselves in a room with naked, well looked after, clean, hygienic, almost perfect bodied, well spoken beauties. one of them is Indian, another is Mixed Race, another is African, another is Caucasian and one is Oriental. All 5 of these beauties are similar in everything except skin colour . . . . . . . these beauties are presented to this said couple with the only condition being, if you play with one, you have to play with them all . . . . . . I somehow doubt that more than 15% of couples presented with this opportunity would walk away from it. This is a sex related site people, log onto if you want to voice your race issues. And SDMR calmly takes his place up against the wall . . . . . . .

26 Feb 2014

Copied and pasted from the "New & Nervous" Forum. This (or these) types of play are always border line with me. Tying someone up and teasing them beyond manageability is one thing, but (to me) hitting / slapping / hurting . . . . . nah I know some people enjoy being verbally humiliated, but for me, I have an issue (enter Stamina) saying derogatory things to someone I am expecting to have a lengthy sex session with. I agree with what Yoga said (in the original post) "each to their own", but for me the limits come early . . . I said limits dammit What are your thoughts on the subject at hand?

25 Feb 2014

Quote by Pussinboots1
Ermm SDMR you think *this kinda shit* is really the norm in any province??
Or you just protecting your back yard???

Maybe not, but I kinda know that there is way more chance of it in the Cape (the people are nicer there) lol

lol

25 Feb 2014

Quote by Smooth82
Any ladies or couples looking to have a few drinks or some play with a Cape Town lad tonight visiting PTA... Come to te Sheraton. Id love to sample some PTA beauty!

Dude, that shit don't fly in Gauteng . . . I really hope some luscious lady proves me wrong, but . . . . .

25 Feb 2014

Friends with benefits - more often than not a future boy/girl friend Fuck buddy = usually because one or the other (or even both) is actually involved. What the movies want you to think and believe is pretty much what the world would like, but reality . . . . that thing really does bite. Now remember everybody, this is MY own opinion, you are under no obligation to accept it, it does not currently have an expiry date, it does not play well with others, but like I said, IT IS MINE . . . . .

25 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
ok so all the bikers , what are you riding ?
1200 Suzuki Bandit

Big bad green monster here... ZX14R. (My favourite). Also have a ZX9R, and just sold my 999...
Susan, Christy, Cheryl . . . oh, you mean motorcycles . . . . oops :color: does a Lawson Replica from the early 90's count?

25 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
Would be so cool if this site could have a monthly pole for the community to vote on profiles. Couple of the month, female of the month, male of the month. Based on pics, profile details, etc. Would be a big job for Admin but it could be interesting and fun. Liven the site up a bit more. Maybe even hottie of the month based only on pics. Or most creative sex position in pics, etc. Could even turn out to be the opposite of name & shame. On a separate note, a page where people can list profiles of people they met to help separate the wannabes and fakers from the real deals.
Just my Tuesday morning random thoughts...

And now the rest of us who have things like financial year ends to contend with, know how the "other half" lives . . .

24 Feb 2014

Quote by Sofistikitty
I'd like to hear from you folks, what do you do to get over some one? Eat yourself into an oblivion? Or is oit true to get over a guy you should get under another lol?

Yes, getting under someone else is the quickest way to struggle for longer to get over someone else. :sad: Each break up is going to be different, some are going to be harder than others. My suggestion is let it take it's course, that way there is a much better chance of achieving a more complete closure.

24 Feb 2014

Quote by Pussinboots1
@ Stamina Yup I agree a 3 way smile when saying good bye for the evening.

hey, as long as there is some kind of 3 way, I would be smiling lol

lol

24 Feb 2014

Quote by Pussinboots1
OMW Stamina
To only want to play with a ladies body is fine...BUT when you put it the way you have...sounds to me as you want a SINGLE Lady as a TOY
Most ladies will tell you they like to know they are also appreciated for their minds and personality.
I personally could not play with anyone if I only *liked* their body but do not like their personality. Personality made a plays session to me.
@ SDMR .... Oh Boy , you wanted one of my pics back???? When am I going to get the rest of the pics to finish my puzzle HUH HUH?????

PIB, like in any good "play session" patience is key. . . . . .

24 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina

To not show pics is your prerogative but know that you decrease your chances of success here by around 70%. For me - no pic, no meet. Besides, it saves both parties a lot of possible wasted time. Would you buy a car without seeing what it looks like first? Bottom line, I firmly believe that this site should have rule - at least one public profile pic must be added to be a member. Remember, a pic can be of your legs, bra, bikini, anything!
My two cents worth.

Right, let's see your pictures of your bra and bikini . . .

rotflmao

:haha::rotflmao: and you reckon I have got issues . . . wink

wink

Sending the invite... Hope you are sitting down.. Bwaa haaa haa!!
ready and waiting . . . with my mouse cursor on the "publish to web" button . . . . :twisted:

24 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
To not show pics is your prerogative but know that you decrease your chances of success here by around 70%. For me - no pic, no meet. Besides, it saves both parties a lot of possible wasted time. Would you buy a car without seeing what it looks like first? Bottom line, I firmly believe that this site should have rule - at least one public profile pic must be added to be a member. Remember, a pic can be of your legs, bra, bikini, anything!
My two cents worth.

Right, let's see your pictures of your bra and bikini . . .

rotflmao

:haha::rotflmao: and you reckon I have got issues . . . wink

wink

24 Feb 2014

Quote by Pussinboots1
OMW Mike,
I know there are guys that wanna do the horizontal and some serious guy to guy thing....but did not know that guys also get these insulting mails....specially *the ones* when getting rejected.
Cyber Sympathy flying your way.

It's a funny thing PIB, people (couples & singles) all have the nicest things to say, then when it gets to the point of meeting, the topic of pics comes up, when someone sends you their pic and then asks for one of you, more often than not it is ok. BUT, 99% of the time when they ask for your pic "and we'll send you ours / mine" the moment you send yours, they disappear . . . gone. . . . nowhere to be seen, then one day, months later, they contact you again but have forgotten they have spoken to you before, and it all starts all over again . . . .

23 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
A super warm welcome to you!!! We are happy to expand our circle. Be warned though - once we get in your head, there's no turning back.. He he he..
PS... Watch out for SDMR, he has issues !! :lol: ...and I think he waxes!

he does not have issues . . . . . well, not more than handful anyway wink

wink

21 Feb 2014

Welcome on board, look forward to hearing your views.

21 Feb 2014

Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
By the way I object!!!
The 'hottest titties on site' competition implies that girls with big boobs cannot win!
Looks like the 80's are really over. :sad:

But, if the majority of voters prefer big boobs (such an 80's word) then why can't they win?
And I somehow doubt the 80's will ever fully die, modern day doesn't have enough imagination to come up with very many "better" things

21 Feb 2014

Quote by wolfman
I am rather impressed by the lengths that Stamina and some others are prepared to go to in the guise of pleasing the ladies . . . . oh, who the hell am I kidding, this is all about pleasing their own ideas . . . . guy's if you can't get it up, take pills, and if you are "not enough" for your partners, get help from a third person . . . . :rotflmao::rotflmao: Now, all of you take a breath and realise that this is just me having a laugh.

True, one gets up to all kinds of weird shit when one has too much time on one's hands! Some just spend their time on forums, others feel the need to exercise their imaginations in a more concrete form than mere words!
The central scrutinizer
and then there are those that are capable of achieving both
But, take nothing away, you had a good comeback :thumbup:

21 Feb 2014

I am rather impressed by the lengths that Stamina and some others are prepared to go to in the guise of pleasing the ladies . . . . oh, who the hell am I kidding, this is all about pleasing their own ideas . . . . guy's if you can't get it up, take pills, and if you are "not enough" for your partners, get help from a third person . . . .

rotflmao

:rotflmao::rotflmao: Now, all of you take a breath and realise that this is just me having a laugh.

21 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
. You piss on me I punch you - period!!!

Haha, how romantic .. . . lol

lol

Just make sure you don't punch some poor lady who was actually squirting . . . . .
Squirting not very "attractive" to me either dude. I know alot of guys are into it but I don't find a turn on in that. People say " wet pussy is hot".. Or ladies say I am getting wet just thinking of it", etc. I don't lime too much "moisture". Just need enough to get the job done. A little friction is good! My girl often leaves me drenched when she is on top and I have to sleep in that wet spot!! :lol: I do feel proud though coz that means my bent one hit the spot.. He he he..
well luckily not too many ladies do the squirt thing, but if you land up with one who does, it's more about how good the sex was, and then you go and punch her? hmmmmm, me thinks you should re-look at your proposed reaction to excessive moisture . . .

21 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
Admin or mods please help me with this one. If I upgrade (don't know if that is the correct word) my profile to a couple, will I keep my image and member verification? Or will I need to get verified again? Think it is time to bring my girl onboard as I am only now looking for a lady to join us or her alone...
Question 2... Will all my good friends here keep my secret that I was on here before alone? Or will you bust me so she removes my nads with a soup spoon? You will all get to see her amazing body - its a good deal.. He he he..

Ok, so I started to write this in a PM, but thought better of it.
I say go for it . . . NOT, what the hell is wrong with you? are you on a suicide mission? have you just developed a fetish for torture? why the hell would you even consider trusting people who you have never met?
Four five six Stamina, think about it . . . . . . how many people have attacked other members in the forum?

21 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
. You piss on me I punch you - period!!!

Haha, how romantic .. . . lol

lol

Just make sure you don't punch some poor lady who was actually squirting . . . . .

21 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
Ok fine... I admit defeat! I guess it's a bit of envy. Sorry to all the fat ugly dudes.. :lol:
Don't hate me cos I'm beautiful!! :lol:

What world do you live in, where you think it is ok for a male to use the word 'Beautiful' in a sentence, when he is not referring to someone of the female of the species?
Failure dude, failure
Let me rephrase then... Don't hate the player, hate the game... :lol:
No dude, it's shaving they hate rotflmao

rotflmao

21 Feb 2014

Quote by dun
We are a cpl looking for safe dogging spots in the krugersdorp area during the daytime.

I think maybe just clarify what exactly you are looking for. Is it to watch dogging, or to be the watched?
Prepare yourself for a bombardment of private messages from people looking to watch

21 Feb 2014

Quote by Stamina
Ok fine... I admit defeat! I guess it's a bit of envy. Sorry to all the fat ugly dudes.. :lol:
Don't hate me cos I'm beautiful!! :lol:

What world do you live in, where you think it is ok for a male to use the word 'Beautiful' in a sentence, when he is not referring to someone of the female of the species?
Failure dude, failure

21 Feb 2014

So, Stamina revived an old talking point, but with a slightly different spin. He (yes, you Stamina) brought the beard into question. So ladies, what is your take on men and facial hair?

21 Feb 2014

Quote by gumboots
@ Stamina
I know LOTS of bearded larger men with the most beautiful wives and boy are they HAPPY!!!!!!!
LOOKS ONCE again does not really count except to a few superficial people.
I myself can be classed as letting *herself go*and my sexy slim girlfriend still loves the shit out of me!!!!!!! I know this because she absolutely shows me every day by doing little things and carrying me on her need not say it.
As for making love to a really *model* kind of person.......NO thanks.....mostly they are so INTO themselves that they think they are doing YOU some honor by just letting you fuck them...THEY are lazy fucks, just lying there and receiving....Most certainly not great in the sack....HOW DO I KNOW THIS????? I had my moments !!!!!!!
As for checking out Gumboots profile...YOU my dear have not met the couple , I Gummies wife is super sexy!!!!!!!MAYBE not the same as a starved junked out superficial *model* type trying to stay on top of the game, but she is in a class of her own.
*Models* I have found, is mostly just skin pulled over bones with great legs and a nice face. AFTER make up sometimes really know there are before and after facts in everyone's live.
It however is great if you try and keep fit for your girl friend.

Mwah Mwah! PiB!
Yip, I agree with PIB

21 Feb 2014

Quote by georgeous
True Adonis, that is why I don't read forums that often.
Never mind commenting.

Your comments and input are missed in the forums.

21 Feb 2014

Quote by LeeEC

Now do I have to start a new thread for this or may I ask here, how important is it for a lady to have her boobs fondled during foreplay and how sensitive are their boobs to touch?

Ok, in my experience there is no straight answer to this question, just comparing my female playmates and I, I can give you 4 different answers.
@SDMR, I'm wondering why someone of your vast and varied experience is not aware of the fact that bra cup size is relative; Not all B cups are equal. The cup size is based on the difference between body circumference across the nipple and body circumference around the chest below the breast.
A 28B is a whole different size to a 38B.....
Actually a lot of women don't know this so you're off the hook :twisted:
So just to be clear then LeeEC, you are "accusing" me of having vast and varied experience? REALLY? say it again and let's see if it helps others "like" me . . . . . . please

rotflmao

:rotflmao:

21 Feb 2014

For most of my "adult" life, I have always had a negative view on public displays of affection. NO, I am not talking about walking hand in hand or a little kiss here or there with your partner, but more than this to me (note, I said "to me") is unnecessary. Met with people once where the lady sat right up close to me and was touching my back and arms and legs the whole time, shit like that freaks me out. Needless to say, I declined the second meet.