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Shame now we know why the forum is dieing a slow death :sad:
Joyrider
yip, have had that feeling on occasion myself.
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Quote by Pussinboots1
Doing a little browsing on a kinky site I am on last night.
I checked out a newbie`s profile after reading her introduction of herself,the same as it happens here on SH.
She is a lesbian and boy is she Build!!!!And when I say BUILD I am saying muscles, she is a body builder since an early age.
I of course also went and browsed and perved her photo`s,SHE does put a LOT of men to shame with her body!!!
Muscles to die for....
Then I had to sit down and think to myself do I really like seeing this lady the way she is?? NOT really.
To me she does not LOOK with her taking good care of her feet and hands which is nicely done with nail polish.
Maybe if she wore her hair longer and not short like a male, she will not look like a *bad male cross dresser*.I am NOT talking Trans-gender or Male cross dressers they are WAY more feminine than that lady.
She wears a sunny dress in one photo but oh boy...
I really felt ashamed at myself for NOT looking at the person behind the photo...
HOW RUDE and inconsiderate of me....I want people to accept me the way I am, old and wobbly fat!!!!
And I am not prepared to look at her the same way?
She has this open smile that just blooms and pulls you into her.I also saw the tenderness and openness she displays in her photos with her friends, male and female.
But It did make me wonder.....
Do men like ladies who has way more muscles than themselves??
Do ladies who is Bi-sexual or Gay like an overly muscled lady??
Do ladies like muscled men, I am talking overly muscled.
Needless to say Gay men like muscles!!!!!!
Do self proclaimed Bi-men like muscles???
I profess to being pan-sexual....but reality showed me ,I like feminine ladies. And all kind of males, Now how weird is that that I also like Trans_Genders and Cross-dressers???But not an overly muscled lady?????
Thus..... I do apologize to this unknown lady for being unjustly harsh.
And made me think about this quote...
If we are lucky enough to do or have something that makes us different from everybody else, don't change.
Uniqueness is priceless.
In this crazy world that's trying to make us like everyone else, we have to find the courage to keep being our awesome self.
And when they laugh at us for being different, laugh back at them for being the same.
It takes a lot of courage to stand alone, but its worth it !
Being YOU is worth it.
Probably the only tick mark I have not made on that "to do" list . . . . . .
Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
And my husband doesn't understand why I can't just "pick up" a guy.... Well no dear - I'm too old, and too wise now...
Gosh - I do sound like I have had WAY too much interaction with stupid little boys who think that this (SH) is where you get a free fuck and have licence to treat all women, who like sex, like cheap street corner hookers.
Some one give me an orgasm quick!!
So, how did the above statements work out for you so far?
Been bombarded by Quote: "Stupid Little Boys" Unquote promising to be different? . . . . .
I would like to suggest to all stupid little boys, read the forums, and pay some attention, a lot of what the ladies say here is gold, and can make your life so much more "easy" . . . .
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
I got a message last week from a guy. He told me was doing the same thing as I was, looking for a little something on the side. He read my post about me not going to "cheat". It inspired him. Woke him up he says. He thanked me and me that my honesty has made him see what is right in front of him. He will not look any further. I tried to reply and his profile was deleted.
Guess there are still some good honest men out there for you ladies... Sometimes we just need a slap on the face to bring us back to reality.
Dude, if all you wanted was a slap, all you had to do was ask . . . .
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
Here is a question.
Where do you ladies like the men to cum, inside you, over your belly, over your tits on your face. where?
And guys where do you like to cum?
Joyrider
I like inside
For most men on this site - on their own bellies.. Bwa haaaa!!
And now we all know that Stamina lies down when he Masturbates . . ..
Sex God
So, assuming that any person "playing" in this lifestyle (and specifically those on this site who are contributing or reading the forums) are aware of the various risks associated with the lifestyle, and that they take the obvious precautions one with knowledge would take when playing with spouse, girl/boy friend, regular play partner or even a random exciting hook-up, let me repeat what Joy Rider asked:
Where do ladies like men to cum ?
Where do men like to cum ?
This topic actually has a huge potential to give people a number of various ideas for use in the bedroom.
In general, cuming on a woman's (or man's) face, is something that happens in the movies, but some people would not really know that the majority of ladies do not even have an inkling of a desire to let their partners do this . . . . Let's not kill this topic because we want to talk about disease.
Sex God
So, assuming Joyrider was referring to the act of cuming in a situation where Condoms were not actually necessary,
I (being a male) don't find cuming inside a woman as pleasurable as pulling out and cuming on back / belly.
cuming in a mouth is (as far as I am concerned) so one sided, and mostly overrated . . ..
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
@ SDMR
I know it is just you 2 guys here bantering.
BUT as I am on leave lately....I know why I am here in the fora so much.....being far too HOT to do some fun things OUTSIDE the house!!! Cannot really go out in this sun (sadly), but do swim nearly 4-5 times a day just to cool off and rush back inside,wet and naked to see if something new is happening here in the fora`s.
BUT what are your excuse to be so here much...?????
I'm just trying to get laid!! Bwa haaaaa haa haaaa!!!
But seriously. I laaaaaaf you guys. Can't go a full day without ranting with all of you. I miss Lee though. She was the only one that put me on my place... Now there is no-one keeping the demon at bay...
And I am self employed. Which means I work about 1 hour a day.
My boss is also a member on this site, and he really likes giving Stamina grief, says it is just because Stamina makes it so easy,
Sometimes, working for yourself has benefits. That and the wonders of technology today, you can access anything from anywhere. I Cannot sit still for longer than 5 minutes, so I often find myself behind some or other electronic device. That, and people fascinate me.
Also, unlike Stamina, I refrain from visiting Rub & Tug venues . . .
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
To me, calling it a penis (verbally) just sounds wrong, but seems to work when writing. ???
I (that is me, myself & I) tend to say dick, saying cock verbally just doesn't have a nice ring to it. But again, I suppose it depends on the mood / vibe / person / crowd . . . . .
I wonder what stamina calls his? probably something like Meneer or Sir Lancelot . . . .
Agreed there.. The word cock sounds pretty lame I think. Prefer dick. Like word pussy has a "turn-on" ring to it and then the word "cunt" (please excuse) just makes it sound gross. When a girl says "my pussy", I automatically picture a perfect pink porn star slit... If she says "my cunt", I picture flies buzzing around it!
I refer to mine as "Steve".. No relation to Admin.
STEVE????
It would appear that you have no intention of oiling that squeaky hinge . . . . .:doh:
Pass me the WD40...
No amount of SpookPizz in the world is going to silence that hinge now buddy . . . . . closet door is opening .. . .
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Quote by Stamina
To me, calling it a penis (verbally) just sounds wrong, but seems to work when writing. ???
I (that is me, myself & I) tend to say dick, saying cock verbally just doesn't have a nice ring to it. But again, I suppose it depends on the mood / vibe / person / crowd . . . . .
I wonder what stamina calls his? probably something like Meneer or Sir Lancelot . . . .
Agreed there.. The word cock sounds pretty lame I think. Prefer dick. Like word pussy has a "turn-on" ring to it and then the word "cunt" (please excuse) just makes it sound gross. When a girl says "my pussy", I automatically picture a perfect pink porn star slit... If she says "my cunt", I picture flies buzzing around it!
I refer to mine as "Steve".. No relation to Admin.
STEVE????
It would appear that you have no intention of oiling that squeaky hinge . . . . .:doh:
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
I am sitting here laughing guys....just made me think about something..
Stamina if you know SMR is using s blackberry and what kind of car he is driving heck the 2 of you are most likely chatting....and flirting HUH HUH HUH???????? bi-curious are ya???? well I know SDMR says he is bi...But Stamina????
Just my weird sense of thought pattern.....just ignore me....
PIB, most of the forums are just Stamina and I . . .
But sorry to disappoint, No there is no flirting going on.
Stamina however seems to be on the road to discovering his curious side, but at this stage I am unsure if it's his Bi-Curious side or just his Curious George side, but once we get the report back about Prostate Play I am sure that part will be cleared up for us . . . .
I am still compiling that report. One more "experiment" and I will make my findings public... What I can say though - so far so GOOD.. He he he...
Is that the sound of a squeaking hinge I hear . . . . . :doh:
Sex God
To me, calling it a penis (verbally) just sounds wrong, but seems to work when writing. ???
I (that is me, myself & I) tend to say dick, saying cock verbally just doesn't have a nice ring to it. But again, I suppose it depends on the mood / vibe / person / crowd . . . . .
I wonder what stamina calls his? probably something like Meneer or Sir Lancelot . . . .
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
I am sitting here laughing guys....just made me think about something..
Stamina if you know SMR is using s blackberry and what kind of car he is driving heck the 2 of you are most likely chatting....and flirting HUH HUH HUH???????? bi-curious are ya???? well I know SDMR says he is bi...But Stamina????
Just my weird sense of thought pattern.....just ignore me....
PIB, most of the forums are just Stamina and I . . .
But sorry to disappoint, No there is no flirting going on.
Stamina however seems to be on the road to discovering his curious side, but at this stage I am unsure if it's his Bi-Curious side or just his Curious George side, but once we get the report back about Prostate Play I am sure that part will be cleared up for us . . . .
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
Makes sense. Wait for contacts and answer in a pm that you are not interested because of your race preferences. You can park your vw in my driveway anytime... My dogs need something to pee on.
Stamina, one day when you are a grown up, you will understand that grown up's do not drive Citi's, those are reserved for under 25's . . . . and anyway, you have seen the pictures of the S3
I just assumed... Most Blackberry users drive Citi golfs..
And the lad is on the ball today . . . :thumbup:
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Quote by Stamina
Makes sense. Wait for contacts and answer in a pm that you are not interested because of your race preferences. You can park your vw in my driveway anytime... My dogs need something to pee on.
Stamina, one day when you are a grown up, you will understand that grown up's do not drive Citi's, those are reserved for under 25's . . . . and anyway, you have seen the pictures of the S3
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
Racism, racial division, ethnic preference, discrimination.... These things exist. They have always existed and will always exist. If the world realises this and accepts it, it would actually be a better place. People are hell-bent on combatting these issues instead of accepting that as long we are human we will have free choice... And in turn will always make up our own minds regardless of what others want us to believe. For the most part, I believe it is mostly preference on this site anyway. I don't like Volks Wagen, so I won't ever buy one - regardless of what anyone says to try and change my mind - it is a preference and my personal choice. A couple or person not wanting to engage with someone of a certain ethnic group is exercising there freedom of choice. This goes far beyond race... Religion, financial status, employment designation, etc, etc, etc... The world is devided and its going to stay that way - forever! Accept it and live your life as you choose... Live and let live.
ja ja ja ja, so what you are suggesting then is that because you don't like VDub, I can't park my Golf in your driveway?
No, that is not what you are saying, you are not even highlighting the fact (apart for this purpose) that you do not like VDub, so why then, I wonder, do people have to voice their race preference publicly? Unnecessary as far as I am concerned.
Yes, we all have preferences when it come to sexual contact, for example . . . . I know a few people who do not like uncut penis, but it is not on their profile as "cut penis only, sorry no offence, just our preference" . . . . .
I, just like most other people, have my own preferences, but I do not advertise publicly whatever they may be . . .. . . the chances of being contacted by someone outside of your race preference . . . oh fuck it, lets call a bucket a bucket, the chances of being contacted by a black person are very very low, so why the hell make a song and dance about it on your profile?
Sex God
So, let's create a hypothetical situation here . . . . . .
A couple (regardless of race) finds themselves in a room with naked, well looked after, clean, hygienic, almost perfect bodied, well spoken beauties. one of them is Indian, another is Mixed Race, another is African, another is Caucasian and one is Oriental.
All 5 of these beauties are similar in everything except skin colour . . . . . . . these beauties are presented to this said couple with the only condition being, if you play with one, you have to play with them all . . . . . .
I somehow doubt that more than 15% of couples presented with this opportunity would walk away from it.
This is a sex related site people, log onto if you want to voice your race issues.
And SDMR calmly takes his place up against the wall . . . . . . .
Sex God
Copied and pasted from the "New & Nervous" Forum.
This (or these) types of play are always border line with me.
Tying someone up and teasing them beyond manageability is one thing, but (to me) hitting / slapping / hurting . . . . . nah
I know some people enjoy being verbally humiliated, but for me, I have an issue (enter Stamina) saying derogatory things to someone I am expecting to have a lengthy sex session with.
I agree with what Yoga said (in the original post) "each to their own", but for me the limits come early . . . I said limits dammit
What are your thoughts on the subject at hand?
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Quote by Smooth82
Any ladies or couples looking to have a few drinks or some play with a Cape Town lad tonight visiting PTA... Come to te Sheraton. Id love to sample some PTA beauty!
Dude, that shit don't fly in Gauteng . . . I really hope some luscious lady proves me wrong, but . . . . .
Sex God
Friends with benefits - more often than not a future boy/girl friend
Fuck buddy = usually because one or the other (or even both) is actually involved.
What the movies want you to think and believe is pretty much what the world would like, but reality . . . . that thing really does bite.
Now remember everybody, this is MY own opinion, you are under no obligation to accept it, it does not currently have an expiry date, it does not play well with others, but like I said, IT IS MINE . . . . .
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
ok so all the bikers , what are you riding ?
1200 Suzuki Bandit
Big bad green monster here... ZX14R. (My favourite). Also have a ZX9R, and just sold my 999...
Susan, Christy, Cheryl . . . oh, you mean motorcycles . . . . oops :color: does a Lawson Replica from the early 90's count?
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
Would be so cool if this site could have a monthly pole for the community to vote on profiles. Couple of the month, female of the month, male of the month. Based on pics, profile details, etc. Would be a big job for Admin but it could be interesting and fun. Liven the site up a bit more. Maybe even hottie of the month based only on pics. Or most creative sex position in pics, etc. Could even turn out to be the opposite of name & shame. On a separate note, a page where people can list profiles of people they met to help separate the wannabes and fakers from the real deals.
Just my Tuesday morning random thoughts...
And now the rest of us who have things like financial year ends to contend with, know how the "other half" lives . . .
Sex God
Quote by Sofistikitty
I'd like to hear from you folks, what do you do to get over some one? Eat yourself into an oblivion? Or is oit true to get over a guy you should get under another lol?
Yes, getting under someone else is the quickest way to struggle for longer to get over someone else. :sad: Each break up is going to be different, some are going to be harder than others. My suggestion is let it take it's course, that way there is a much better chance of achieving a more complete closure.
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
OMW Stamina
To only want to play with a ladies body is fine...BUT when you put it the way you have...sounds to me as you want a SINGLE Lady as a TOY
Most ladies will tell you they like to know they are also appreciated for their minds and personality.
I personally could not play with anyone if I only *liked* their body but do not like their personality. Personality made a plays session to me.
@ SDMR .... Oh Boy , you wanted one of my pics back???? When am I going to get the rest of the pics to finish my puzzle HUH HUH?????
PIB, like in any good "play session" patience is key. . . . . .
