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SDM
5 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 55
0 km · Middelburg

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Quote by Stamina
Hey! Put your pets away!!! wink
You know the rules boys!

Fine! I will put "Steve" away. He he he...
She said your pets, not your toys . . . lol
Stamina, we have told you repeatedly that too much wanking makes you dyslectic . . .
4 times a day is not too much is it?
Well you tell us buddy . . . .
Quote by Stamina
Hey! Put your pets away!!! wink
You know the rules boys!

Fine! I will put "Steve" away. He he he...
She said your pets, not your toys . . . lol
Stamina, we have told you repeatedly that too much wanking makes you dyslectic . . .
Quote by Mike_Pta
Fuck my Lover
For my Loins

Gladly, Send your lover over . . . . rotflmao
Quote by LeeEC

Challenge accepted . . . .. but I'm useless with words, so how about a volunteer and I shall demonstrate how I roll the important fleshy bit between my tongue and upper teeth ? :twisted:
Anyway, with the possible exception of Mike_Pta, none of the other respondents have revealed anything anyway

Perhaps I'm not that interested in their technique :twisted:
Interesting.... teeth.... 200 points me thinks...
Oh my, should I blush or get the Brasso out? lol
So, 200 points hey? really? that's what you award for the "thought" :hunk:. . . . . I wonder what the points would be for the real thing?
But tell me @LeeEC, what could I expect in return? kiss
Quote by adminsteve
Ok, so now Ashlee has me wondering. What actually happens when you click the Ignore button on a message?

You won't receive any more messages from them, if they've been abusive by pm its always best to put in a support ticket as well, with a copy of the message, we will then investigate.
Thanks AdminSteve,
Another question, if we (as site members) "Ignore Button" someone, I understand that we would not receive any more messages from them, but what makes me curious is, will it be known to the person we have "Ignored Buttoned" that we have done it, or will it simply appear to them that we are not answering their messages?
Quote by bubblegummzn
hi there... new to the scene, but am really keen to try it out... anyone know of areas in and around centurion?

Any dogging that does happen in SA, is 95% private and pre-arranged, so my advice to you would be to not get your hopes up too high.
Quote by KC_
SDMR, you should probably avoid the shops when K and I are shopping ;)
If we have to stand and wait in a que, we use the time as best as we can!
That includes kissing, with tongue, and ass holding...
Kids see this stuff all over tv, without the love aspect attached to it. If they see us, it might give them something to think about...
;)
C

Tell you what, I am going to be in Norwood on Tuesday, maybe I should observe you guy's at the shops and see if it also gives me something to think about . . . :twisted:
Male / Female ? Durban / Cape Town / JHB ? Straight / Gay / Bi ?
Quote by LeeEC
Ok SDMR, how about you come back to topic and answer the question.... I'm terribly interested in your answer.... :twisted:
did that sound like a challenge to you... :twisted:

Challenge accepted . . . .. but I'm useless with words, so how about a volunteer and I shall demonstrate how I roll the important fleshy bit between my tongue and upper teeth ? :twisted:
Anyway, with the possible exception of Mike_Pta, none of the other respondents have revealed anything anyway
Yes, I know i am going slightly of course here, but like Stamina said, enough with the serious shit already (for now anyway) I think it would be extremely beneficial to everyone's sex life if they had the opportunity to experience sex and subsequent orgasms from the other genders side (just once) . . . imagine how much more Enthusiasm we would have after that . . . Well, those males who could get over the fact that woman have it way better than we do in the orgasm department
Taking the seriousness out a little here, (as per PIB's intention) . . I know manage a 25 . .. . . and I think that the more I think about some of them, the higher that score may just climb, So in conclusion, I must deduce that I am kinda a sick Fu@k . . . lol (but in a good way of course)
Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
PIB if you get 26, what chance do we have?
Question 7: Is Asexual lover not a oxymoron?
As for passing though the Cervix, please keep in mind that large numbers of people in SA where born by Caesarean section

Then those people would not tick that box now would they?
Ok, so now Ashlee has me wondering. What actually happens when you click the Ignore button on a message?
Quote by Adonis
I am of opinion that been a couple of 40 years give you the right to act if you are in the bedroom. By that you show to people what they miss in life. That is why you see so many idiots in the street because the chip on there shoulder are so big they cant see the nice things in life.
Walking in the streets of Cape Town it a shame how people behave rather see a couple holding hands and kiss openly even is a nice snooze. Young people in street and the guy hands in the back of his women scathing her ass that is gross.
Some people are jealous seeing people in love walking in the street. Perhaps they must take a mind change and they also would find love.

Everyone is entitled to his or her opinion. For me it is just a simple case of, us as adults cannot complain about the younger people doing things if we ourselves are doing them.
How many times have you seen a young couple (16 - 25) in a mall who are standing against a wall and kissing like there is no tomorrow? hands running up and down each others backs and bums? Is your first thought when you see this type of thing, that they are in love? or is your first thought something else? . . . . Now replace those youngsters with a 50 or 60 year old couple . . . what is that thought now?
Quote by Pussinboots1
You guys must remember the question
1. Which of the following elements have you incorporated into your lovemaking?
Earth
Air
Fire
Water
You could actually tick off all of them..
IF...
You had sex in water.....any water like a pool or shower
You had sex outside the house..on a blanket on the grass or what ever...(earth)
You had sex while candles where burning, or in front of a fireplace...next to a bonfire......
Air...well that is an easy one....we all do breath...and we do all have open windows......and we all sometimes use a fan.....or feathers ????
See guys your score can already become MORE!!!!!!
There is NO trick questions here.
Icould change some,if so desired.....but you guys must remember this is taken from the internet for us to enjoy(just like all the previous ones).Hence my own score.

Ok, so if I change my answers to comply with your above explanation, all it does is add one more to my score . . . . :sad:
Quote by joyrider
bangheadbanghead SDMR,
How can you have a problem with a cpl that is not scare to show other people they still love one another. I mean do you know how nice it is to see an old cpl still holding hands and kissing after 40 years of been together. I mean not many people these days can brag about been so in love after so many years.
Joyrider
Showing other people you still love and care for your partner is not a crime

As I said, I have no issue with people holding hands and even sharing the occasional little kiss. It is when it is more than that, that I do not think it is appropriate. Couples can easily show they are still in love after 40 years without behaving like they are in the bedroom when they are in public.
So, considering what some of my answers were, I am surprised to say that my total score was only 8 . . . .
Quote by Pussinboots1
As Lee said,Rules are a must between couples even the single people in the lifestyle should also have their own set rules we all should adhere is ONLY when the RULES are broken...otherwise kiss away.
I would never KISS ANYONE OUTSIDE in the public when the hubby or wife is NOT is JUST not done. In a party or club prior to play is a different story.
I am not talking a little hello Kiss-Kiss....but I AM talking passionate kiss tongues and lip locks that is totally off the map, that is CHEATING in my eyes.
Kissing is way to intimate for some people, most feel it is only something that only partners should share.
Sex in any form is allowed from Normal to anal to cunnilingus to Blow jobs.... BUT dare to kiss and you are in hot water.
How that is suppose to works is above my intellect really??
What is more intimate than having someone going *down* on you??
But rules are rules.
I for myself Love kissing! I kiss women and men if so inclined...how can one not kiss the person you are going to play with is my question or to kiss them after playing When you do a little hugging or cuddling and catching your breath ?? Or do most people just jump up go and clean up and go on to the next Person??And here I am not talking about becoming emotionally involved at all....it is just normal for me, to relax back and show a little appreciation for enjoying each other.
I For the love of me,can NOT see why men cannot kiss each other,if we women can kiss,why not men??
I think it is more of a homophobic reaction people have,when watching men kiss.
Now I will most likely be shot with out the benefit of a plea bargain......
Mostly I think women tend to be really sorta prissy and pretentious if they do not allow their men folk to enjoy what they obviously enjoy. But then women are generally more prone to the *green monster* than men really.
I know some women have this rule if they feel a lady is sexier than themselves,the lady will play BUT hubby is not allowed to touch, and the woman is NOT to touch or smile with the hubby,then she is a flirt and a house wrecker.
Ever wondered why I never said yes to playing with couples?????
My 5c`s.
@ SDMR
You dislike any to all display of affection in Public???

@PIB, I do have a bit of an issue with it yes.
Don't get me wrong, holding hands with your partner while walking and even the occasional little kiss (Peck) is no issue, but people who have their hands all over each other, and are locking lips with darting tongues in public in front of people (KIDS) and they walk with their hands on their partners asses . . . . . I have a bit of issue with.
Quote by Mike_Pta
Indecently Magnificent Orgasm

I'm choosing this as the best, however a special mention to PiB for her hilarious attempt.
Your up Delway
Ok, so although I am looking, I fail to find this Hilarious Attempt of PIB's . . . . share with the rest of us please . . . .
The act of kissing another person (and I am assuming we are referring to a "passionate" kiss here) is the beginning of action being taken on some or other feeling / attraction / curiosity etc . . . so yes, if done outside of an agreement between the couple, it is clearly (to me) some form of cheating. First you kiss then you . . . . . well, we all have an idea of how the process goes. As far as men kissing or women kissing, it makes no difference to my opinion on this subject. I myself am a so called Bi-Sexual male, BUT(T) kissing another man is just something that almost never happens, just does not work for me. I have zero issues if other men kiss around me, I have zero issues if women kiss each other around me, However, I do kind of have an issue if they (men or women) do it in public . . . ok, I am getting off topic here
The act of kissing another person (and I am assuming we are referring to a "passionate" kiss here) is the beginning of action being taken on some or other feeling / attraction / curiosity etc . . . so yes, if done outside of an agreement between the couple, it is clearly (to me) some form of cheating. First you kiss then you . . . . . well, we all have an idea of how the process goes. As far as men kissing or women kissing, it makes no difference to my opinion on this subject. I myself am a so called Bi-Sexual male, BUT(T) kissing another man is just something that almost never happens, just does not work for me. I have zero issues if other men kiss around me, I have zero issues if women kiss each other around me, However, I do kind of have an issue if they (men or women) do it in public . . . ok, I am getting off topic here
Quote by Stamina
PIB
Anything you write is always a treat. Your profile is no exception.
A persons profile can show their likes and dislike without being aggressive.
E.g. : Sorry no single guys
as oppose to
NO SINGLE GUYS!!! (As if that will stop the bad ones)
Our profile is also unusual but hopefully does not bite and is hopefully clear.

While slightly off topic here (I said slightly) I thought I would just say what has been said countless times before: Most profiles that have "No Singles Guys" on their write up, also have the "Straight Male" box ticked . . . . . .
That is a common problem - contradictions. Just got a message back from a girl : " Sorry, I don't play with girls". Yet her profile has "straight male", "straight female", "bi female", and "couple with bi female" checked. Ad just says "fun, fun and more fun". Her text says "looking to explore my sexuality"... Many more like that on here. We are ice skating up hill people! He he he...
Ok, so I am not really sure how to break this to you, but here goes anyway . . . .
She called you a GIRL, and all you are ranting about is the fact that her profile has x y z listed ? ? ? ? seriously ????
Ok, so I am going to lie here and laugh for the next ten minutes . . .. lol
Quote by Stamina
What is the smallest hotel in the world?... A vagina - you have to leave your "bag" outside. lol

That all depends on how creative you are . . . wink
Quote by Stamina
Why do they call it a Pap Smear?... Because they can't call it a "Cunt Scrape"!! lol

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Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
PIB
Anything you write is always a treat. Your profile is no exception.
A persons profile can show their likes and dislike without being aggressive.
E.g. : Sorry no single guys
as oppose to
NO SINGLE GUYS!!! (As if that will stop the bad ones)
Our profile is also unusual but hopefully does not bite and is hopefully clear.

While slightly off topic here (I said slightly) I thought I would just say what has been said countless times before: Most profiles that have "No Singles Guys" on their write up, also have the "Straight Male" box ticked . . . . . .