Doing a little browsing on a kinky site I am on last night.
I checked out a newbie`s profile after reading her introduction of herself,the same as it happens here on SH.
She is a lesbian and boy is she Build!!!!And when I say BUILD I am saying muscles, she is a body builder since an early age.
I of course also went and browsed and perved her photo`s,SHE does put a LOT of men to shame with her body!!!
Muscles to die for....
Then I had to sit down and think to myself do I really like seeing this lady the way she is?? NOT really.
To me she does not LOOK with her taking good care of her feet and hands which is nicely done with nail polish.
Maybe if she wore her hair longer and not short like a male, she will not look like a *bad male cross dresser*.I am NOT talking Trans-gender or Male cross dressers they are WAY more feminine than that lady.
She wears a sunny dress in one photo but oh boy...
I really felt ashamed at myself for NOT looking at the person behind the photo...
HOW RUDE and inconsiderate of me....I want people to accept me the way I am, old and wobbly fat!!!!
And I am not prepared to look at her the same way?
She has this open smile that just blooms and pulls you into her.I also saw the tenderness and openness she displays in her photos with her friends, male and female.
But It did make me wonder.....
Do men like ladies who has way more muscles than themselves??
Do ladies who is Bi-sexual or Gay like an overly muscled lady??
Do ladies like muscled men, I am talking overly muscled.
Needless to say Gay men like muscles!!!!!!
Do self proclaimed Bi-men like muscles???
I profess to being pan-sexual....but reality showed me ,I like feminine ladies. And all kind of males, Now how weird is that that I also like Trans_Genders and Cross-dressers???But not an overly muscled lady?????
Thus..... I do apologize to this unknown lady for being unjustly harsh.
And made me think about this quote...
If we are lucky enough to do or have something that makes us different from everybody else, don't change.
Uniqueness is priceless.
In this crazy world that's trying to make us like everyone else, we have to find the courage to keep being our awesome self.
And when they laugh at us for being different, laugh back at them for being the same.
It takes a lot of courage to stand alone, but its worth it !
Being YOU is worth it.