I got a message last week from a guy. He told me was doing the same thing as I was, looking for a little something on the side. He read my post about me not going to "cheat". It inspired him. Woke him up he says. He thanked me and me that my honesty has made him see what is right in front of him. He will not look any further. I tried to reply and his profile was deleted.
Guess there are still some good honest men out there for you ladies... Sometimes we just need a slap on the face to bring us back to reality.