As I have mentioned before, the body fascinates me no end.
This morning while going through the galleries, I had a thought . . .
There are a large number of people on this site (and others no doubt) who are only more than happy to take pictures of themselves (explicit ones) and display them for all to see. Yes, some of the members do not show faces but a lot do.
There must be hundreds of thousands of other people who would also but are not on this site. So perhaps this world in which we live is not so prudish as one might have thought.
I myself am selective as to who I show my face to via the site, but body parts I have minimal issue. What about you? Do you like looking at the human body? How much of yours would you display publicly?
So, whenever I log onto the site, the following is normally how it goes
1) read (&reply) to any messages I may have been fortunate enough to receive.
2) Check out those who have checked me out
3) open the forum and spend any thing from 5 to 55 minutes in there
4) open the browse tab and see what new members are in my area
5) open the gallery tab and well, lets be honest here . .. PERVE (pictures of bodies fascinate me)
A bit of a creature of habit when it comes to this site I suppose
What about the rest of you? what is your normal "log on" procedure?
In my view, the first four words of your posting answer your question . . . . .
"My lady works with" . . . .
Maybe just give a little consideration to your "senses" being off on the ladies open mindedness. If any approach goes South, you lady still has to work the the Lady . . . . .
As far as the world of sex is concerned, racism is much less of an issue when nobody knows about who is doing who . . . . .
A really frustrating experience I'm sure. Like Flagg says, couple do this too, so do single females . . ... People are all after all just people, and each one of us have different views on what is acceptable and what is not.
What they have done, has little to do with them being single (or being male) it has more to do with them not having any manners. Perhaps they were overwhelmed by the fact that something was actually going to happen for real. Regardless, they were / are still rude and should have had the decency to either not commit to something that they never intended to do, or if things changed at least excused themselves.
What they have "done" to you and your planned event, has now given you a negative view on the single male, the same view would have been formed if it was a few couples that done the same thing to you and your planned event.
I got "caught" once, and after that, I insist in a public meet first, if they don't show up for the public meet I can still have a light meal / coffee / drink etc and the whole outing is then not a complete waste.
Just for clarity, I am not for one second proposing that the single male of the species is actually an ok being, while most of us probably are, we are after all still human.
Maybe a touch extreme . . . . .
Much like the "false promise" enlargement pills and pumps etc make . . . . if these kinds of "aids" were effective, just about every guy in the world would have a dick that reached his knee . . .
My take on it would be Yes and No . . . . .different people want / need / feel differently about the same thing. It's like the old saying "treat me as an equal, but open the door for me" . . .
Stamina young man, another potential possibility here (darts scenario) is that the ladies are looking at this as a "Fun & Not Serious" outing / evening and maybe the competitive nature of the game of darts is actually what is not working for them.
My suggestion to you to counteract this would be that each male should drink 4 Scotches and a Six Pack before the games start. Then when they start throwing like a bunch of . . . . and become angry, they can rip each others throats out while the ladies carry on playing and one of them wins it.
You know, "be yourself, just differently" . . . . .
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