Got into a bar brawl last night... Had to show someone that I walk the walk and don't just talk the talk. long story short, I ended up with a cut lip and... well just say the other guy better have had a good medical aid (yes, that's right, I am bragging and proud of it).
After he was carried out by his friends, I was sitting on the far left of the bar waiting for my girlfriend to return from the kitchen with a wet cloth. My oldest and best friend followed the guys out to ensure they do not come back in to continue the fight or revenge their almost unconscious friends deserved beating. This friend has a girlfriend, she is seriously HOT and I have no problem staring at her on any given day. Very easy on the eyes. She is like a sister though as I have known her for about 8 years as my friends better half. We are basically a close circle of friends.
So me and her at the end of the bar. Girlfriend searching for a cloth, my friend outside keeping a close eye on the shit stirrers... She starts to wipe the blood on my chin with a serviette, but also places a hand on my groin. I say nothing! Confused, I just sit and wonder what is busy happening. She stops wiping blood, looks me dead in the eye and says, "what? I get turned on when guys fight"... I moved her hand and said that this is not on. We friends and her boyfriend is my closest friend. Plus my girl is meters away. She said "your loss", got up and went outside to her boyfriend. My girl returned with a wet cloth a while later. I told her that we should leave because those dickheads will probably return with police.
We went home and this is now a bother on my mind.. what the hell do I do with this? Do I tell my friend that his girl is capable of cheating on him? Do I tell my girl? Do I just leave it and forget it ever happened?..... Or do I suggest she join me and my girlfriend in a triangle of pleasure - at the expense of betraying my oldest friends trust???
Advice please??
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a sticky situation...
Sex God
If you decide to invite her into a triangle situation, what doe that make you?
If you tell your misses, what does that make you?
If you tell your friend, what does that make you?
Basically what I am saying is the way I see this, you are going to be on the loosing side if you do anything about it. So my 10 cents is just leave it be for your and her sake.
Anyway, you mentioned you were in a pub, so if after 8 years, this is a first, maybe she was just having a laugh with a bit of liquid encouragement in her.
hey, why the hell did you put this post in site help anyway?
Did I really just reply to this . . . ???
Quote by SDMR
If you decide to invite her into a triangle situation, what doe that make you?
If you tell your misses, what does that make you?
If you tell your friend, what does that make you?
Basically what I am saying is the way I see this, you are going to be on the loosing side if you do anything about it. So my 10 cents is just leave it be for your and her sake.
Anyway, you mentioned you were in a pub, so if after 8 years, this is a first, maybe she was just having a laugh with a bit of liquid encouragement in her.
hey, why the hell did you put this post in site help anyway?
Did I really just reply to this . . . ???
Sorry, my mistake. I just went to "new posts", opened a random topic and clicked new topic. Neglected to check if that topic was under "anything goes"...
I think I will take your advice and leave it be... probably a once off...
Mis-post fixed! heh heh... handy to have a Lee layin' about the place.
And Stamina - I agree with Shawn - you gotta just let it go.
If it never happens again - it was just a little beer-goggle problem.
ALTHOUGH..... If you get approached again, tell her that when you tally up the value of your friendship with her guy, and your relationship with your babe, twenty minutes with her bits comes a distant, distant 5th place in the value comparisons... and the only way she's getting in your pants is if your mate personally invites you to borrow her for a threesome with your girl.
Be blunt, to the point and in your face with the announcement. Don't worry about hurting her feelings, because if she could be as blunt and in your face as to grope you without permission, suggestion or solicitation... then she should be able to take that announcement on the chin and rally.
That way you've made the terms very clear and invitation wide open (in case this was a little 'testing of the waters' from their side) in a 'no-uncertain-terms" kinda way 
simple :twisted:
simple :twisted: 
