Quote by Stamina
Why do I gotta be the lab rat??
what? you rather wanna be a mouse?
Dude, you had the vision, so you get the mission . . .
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Quote by Pussinboots1
Well I know when I have done something I liked or done new, Like visiting Beefcakes here in Cpt I write about it!!! I like to share and I like to know what others think.
I once again think it is a quite *normal* thing to do...to share and ask questions.
Also I am glad that M did this he is giving us all something to chat about!!!
Look, all I am getting at is, if I was going to write about my visit to a sex club, I do not think I would leave out details like, dick size, shapes, gender ratio, people I knew etc etc in order to mention something about how many people of the same race as me where there.
Whatever anybody else chooses to add to their write up is their choice, but as we have all said countless times, if you are going to put something on-line, there is bound to be someone who may not quite agree with you. Take my comments on the matter as an example, nobody else who contributed seems to agree with me, and that's fine, we all have our own varying views.
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Quote by Pussinboots1
Come on guys I have touched BOTH subjects before....either in a comment On a forum or one I have written...
I know I have written about saline injections (it is after all also kinky related and I do kinky) quite a bit and mostly for men who would like to have the experience of breasts.
also for men who likes to have larger testicles.
I also have written something or commented somewhere about silicone implants in the testicles when one is larger than the other (well it is after all a cosmetic procedure) or when a gent has lost one testicle or was born with some form of deformity.
I also touched the subject of bead in-plants into the penis shaft to make it feel like a studded condom....this is permanent in-plants
Oh lordy lord, I hope it was on here on SH that I did the above......but I am sure I to lazy to go and browse the thousands of comments I already made......
As for enchanted boobs if the procedure is done with out stretching the skin into a abnormal shape for the ladies body...or just to fill empty skin(after breast feeding)and the lady chooses nicely fitted prosthesis then she could really look and feel stunning it am mostly talking about those abnormal one size larger boobs girls like have that is really not suitable to their body size.
As for reduction I am all for it ...too large breasts are really hurts one`s back.
I remember your write up, BUT I really wanna read Stamina's after he sticks that needle in his Dick . . .
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Quote by Stamina
Did anybody watch a documentary recently on Discovery... About saline injecting? it is quite the craze in the east of the world. Young club goers inject saline liquid in their foreheads and make shapes. It also gets injected other places and creates a massive swelled look. It dissipates (absorbed by the body) after about 8 hours. It is safe and has no real side effects. Essentially the same liquid in a medical drip.
As this was a family show they only mentioned the few "non-private" areas where this is injected. I am sure one can inject the penis and greatly increase its overall mass for a few hours safely. This should work like a dream for women who have a night out planned. They can enlarge their Breasts temporarily and safely... I think.
please do keep us informed as to how the said experiment worked on you Stamina . . . .
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Quote by playcouple
Guys , also remember that this was my first time. I was nervous, hesitant, excited, and a few other emotions at the same time. I spent a lot of time checking other people out for a few reasons. I wanted to see if there was anyone there that msy know me, I wanted to see if I was the ugliest/fattest/most out of shape/smallest dick etc etc in the place . I spoke to exactly 4 people the couple above, the doorperson and the bartender and thst was only to order a drink!
I spent the rest of the time "people-watching" - pretty much what PiB does but with the eyes of a newbie!
Welcome and congrats on taking the dive, :P wishing you lots of juicy pleasure
Personally I think most people would notice if they are the only one in an environment, I know I would and from past experience at functions in Tokoza etc. I did feel like a sore thumb until someone broke the ice for me. Just like I noticed that I was the only one in the whole street dressed up like a chicken as a teenager doing promotional work.
Ok, but was one of your first actions after this / these experiences, to go on line and tell other people?
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Quote by mynlc
Real vs fake...
hmmm, it's like buying a cake from a shop and taking a bite and finding out it's actually made of styrofoam... pretty to look at but not so nice inside. A beautifully wrapped birthday/xmas present that turns out to contain a pair of grama's socks....
I remember reading a tabloid article where a man sued his girlfriend because she looked great and he bought her gifts and stuff to get her in the sack and then on the night found out she was artificially enhanced, more plastic than a Barbi doll. Something about false advertising?
semi off-topic but speaking about enhancements, wonder how many guys are part silicone down there. It doesnt seem to be as big a topic/issue as breast modification but also done on occasion
Ok, I'll bite . . . tell us more please. Silicone enhancements "down there"?
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I am fascinated that this little old "conservative thinking" province that I currently live in, is number 4 on the member number list . . .
Gauteng (19511)
Western Cape (8328)
Kwazulu-Natal (6122)
Mpumalanga (2099)
Free State (1036)
North West (1018)
Limpopo (688)
Northern Cape (551)
Eastern Cape (322)
I wonder if the provinces with the higher numbers are due to the provinces being more of an economical hub . . . .
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My best is when a lady gets on in years, and as with most ageing people, things start to sag . . . except the implants . . . But having said that, it's always nice to look at a fully clothed lady who has the Perfect Breasts, be they real or surgically enhanced. Naked, as long as they are in my face, i have no real preference . . oops, did I just sound like Stamina there?
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Quote by Pussinboots1
You were more than brave to go to a club, most men are to scared to go alone.
As for the the ethnic thing, depends on the club and evening you are going, the ratio might differ on different nights.
@ SDMR I would think checking out the scene is a very natural thing to do,I would check out the amount of single men, single women,couples, what is happening,where and with whom, and yeah it is also natural to check for your own ethnic groups, I think it is very natural to do this DON~T we all do this kind of thing when we enter a new place??
Ummmm? maybe I am the only one who doesn't add the checking ethnic groups?
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Quote by LeeEC
My question is as follows:
Are you as sensitive to sexual situations as you are to day to day life situations?
Somebody tells me I Lick wrong, I respond "how do you want me to do it?"
Somebody tells me my views about something are wrong, I respond defensively . . . . .
I expect someone in your life has judged you harshly for your opinions and your view points, someone whose opinion mattered a lot, and so now that's a hot button for you. It's pretty common. Mine's, if someone suggests I'm not good enough, though it's rather a specific context.
If you're aware of it though, you can train yourself to react differently, strategically, to design the outcome of interactions, even if there is a possibility of someone pushing your hot button.
I repeat,
"somebody TELL's me my views about something are wrong, I respond defensively"
"somebody SHOW's me my views about something are wrong . . . . . . . . . .
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Quote by LeeEC
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If you don't mind a little free coaching, I know you better than I know most of the others on the forums, so from our conversations, I would venture that you have a more balanced and emotionally mature behaviour pattern in your attitude to your sex life and that it would lower your stress levels and improve your general happiness levels to try and be as open and willing to learn in other facets of your life too. You certainly have the capacity: you're a swinger!
I am more than open to learn, at any time on any subject. The general pattern though, usually seems to be that any person on the teaching side, simply wants to tell me what/how/when . . . and I should simply accept as such. If I have a specific view point on something, hopefully it is not one I just sucked out of nowhere. So to simply tell me to change my view without giving me reasoning that could change my initially formed view point, would obviously generate the impression that I have an unwillingness to grow / learn / change.
So, give me reasons / explanations / convincing facts and I would like to think that I am very open to seeing things differently.
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Quote by delway
The way the criticism is given makes a huge difference.
In a sexual situation, the other person would probably give you direction more than just flat out tell you that you're doing it wrong. That's what makes for good sex - harder, softer, deeper.... We guide each other to the best possible outcome.
It's possible that we take offence to what is being said to us more because of the way it is said, than by what the person is actually saying.
It's also possible that the person says something to us (content & manner) based on their interpretation.
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Quote by MaverRick
Its quite difficult to get a conversation going on the forum ! Its surprising cos theres a lot of people checking in daily!!
the secret seems to be, use topics that are NOT sex related, the winners are usually Race, Religion, Politics and Tolerance of others views.
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Quote by MaverRick
So after a lot of nervousness I finally attended a club in the Kya Sands area -I cant remember the name of it but would be glad for more info . If was cool but to be honest,there wasn't much going on I think that because it was my first time. i was quite nervous and excited I sat at the bar for a while and checked this out - btwI was the only person of colour in the place !! The other rooms just had people sitting around chatting and smoking or drinking or in the pool
I went to the locker room and the was a couple there getting Undressed they were both very friendly and in their 50s she was quite hot they made idle chatter for a few minutes and then walked off toa private room she turned and smiled at me as they left .
I didn't think initially that it was anything but it later occurred to me that it was less than innocent so I went to see if I could find them . They were in a room . Yyou could hear that they were quite energetically going at it but the door was shut .
As a newcomer I guess thst the right thing to do was to not bother them. The door was closed after all . And there wasnt an explicit invitation. BUT, I am not the quickest on the uptake and in retrospect am 120% sure that there was more to the chat and the departing smile
What would you have done?
Firstly, I would not have noticed the fact that I was the only person of colour I could in the club.
As for the rest of it, probably exactly the same as what you did.
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Quote by Mike_Pta
Let It Go (from Frozen) Meets Metal:
Case closed
as long as you are aware he was only playing half that rift (at best). . . . I think he would have been referred to as "back-up" lead guitar ..
Granted, however I love what he does. He has remixed everything from Justin Bieber to the ghostbusters theme song
Epic failure Mike . . . you said the JB word . . . now the adults on this site might think twice before letting you in .. or wait, maybe some of them have school children fantasies . . you actually might be onto something here young man . . . ok, ok, ok, I will stop talking horse radish now . . .
But seriously, school girl fantasies are ok until you turn 19, after that it's . . .
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Quote by LeeEC
First of all the premise of this original post is complete rubbish.
It amuses me no end that people bitch and carry on about how racism is terrible and then post some crap like "white women don't. .." that's racism and sexism in three words. There is no characteristic and any person can assign to any entire group other than the original definition. ie. All white women are white and female.
Secondly. To Adonis and SDMR ->
allowing someone freedom to their opinion means if you don't like what they have to say, you only have two options: don't participate in the conversation or present a decent, well thought out, counter-argument which will prompt debate.
Please remember that debate is not a euphemism for yelling at everyone as loudly as possible to drown out other opinions.
You have to calmly present your point of view, with respect.
Is that not what I did? (except for the part that I never actually said i did not like what they said?)
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Quote by Pussinboots1
Not Really sure what it is you are writing about.
Your written comment or the *topic subject* you used ??
Or if you just made a statement.
PIB, read between the lines. This is a race related post.
Some people want other people to change their choices about certain things, but those same people are not prepared to accept that people have the freedom to make choices.
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Quote by LeeEC
SDMR - off to the corner with you. You MAY NOT TAKE EVERYTHING PERSONALLY.
For all you know this nice gentleman is speaking of no one in particular.
Now report to the dungeon for a spanking! :twisted:
By order
The forum police!
And exactly where did I indicate that this had anything to do with me?
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So I have been watching the Forum since I joined this Site, for a long while I participated, then I took I break for while and now (obviously) I am participating again.
What it looks like to me, is when one opens the "Anything Goes" Forum tab, that the topics that are should we say "sex related" get rather high numbers of "Views" with relatively low numbers of "Replies" in comparison.
Looking at the "not so sex related" topics the number of "Replies" increases considerably.
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In a word, NO.
But, in my little old opinion, anybody who makes (or accepts) "Promises" is setting themselves up for disappointment.
Yes, yes, yes I know my view is somewhat different to what the vast majority of others feel, but my view is based on various experiences I've had as well as disappointments I have seen others have. In today's society, a simple "I will look into it and let you know if I am prepared or able to do xyz" is generally interpreted as "you promised to do xyz" . . .
Now back to the original question, my answer is NO, marriage is not a certainty for sex, but if people are wise they would use marriage as an opportunity to grow with a regular sexual partner.
