Quote by Psk
Our first time was a mfm threesome. Me and the missus had been talking about swinging for a while and eventually I decided to surprise her. I had been chatting to a guy online and eventually met him and discussed rules etc. one evening I drew her a romantic bath. Candles, bubble-bath sexy book to read etc. I let the guy in without her knowing and when she got out of the bath I blindfolded her and tied her to the bed. The guy came into the room and started touching her. Only after I spoke from across the room after a few minutes did she realize that it was not me, and then the real fun started This was one of her fantasies, so I knew she would love it. We also had safe words to stop all play if we wanted to.

Quote by Stamina
Its true in life everyone is there to win and be the winner, but the fact is that there can only be one winner. But that not mean you had to stop trying and for the most of us its more for the fun as the win.
Good example of a sport where there still a advantage to be a women is golf, Me playing golf, i could not even reach the women's tee of box. But every time i had the change i play again. Why did i play golf firdt for the fun and not reach the womens tee box i had to buy a round.
I think what is also true is people who want to be the winner in an argument as well, and when he not the winner they became agro, and where did you see it the best, yes you right here in the forum.
All i hope is that the "Springbokke" also have the winners mentality.:giveup::giveup::giveup::giveup:

Quote by LeeEC
Wow... leave for a whole day and I come back to find you chaps having body shots and swinging from the chandeliers!
Bluddy hell!! Why, oh why, did I go to work??

Quote by playcouple
Guys , also remember that this was my first time. I was nervous, hesitant, excited, and a few other emotions at the same time. I spent a lot of time checking other people out for a few reasons. I wanted to see if there was anyone there that msy know me, I wanted to see if I was the ugliest/fattest/most out of shape/smallest dick etc etc in the place . I spoke to exactly 4 people the couple above, the doorperson and the bartender and thst was only to order a drink!
I spent the rest of the time "people-watching" - pretty much what PiB does but with the eyes of a newbie!

Quote by Stamina
Why do I gotta be the lab rat??

Quote by Pussinboots1
Well I know when I have done something I liked or done new, Like visiting Beefcakes here in Cpt I write about it!!! I like to share and I like to know what others think.
I once again think it is a quite *normal* thing to do...to share and ask questions.
Also I am glad that M did this he is giving us all something to chat about!!!

Quote by Pussinboots1
Come on guys I have touched BOTH subjects before....either in a comment On a forum or one I have written...
I know I have written about saline injections (it is after all also kinky related and I do kinky) quite a bit and mostly for men who would like to have the experience of breasts.
also for men who likes to have larger testicles.
I also have written something or commented somewhere about silicone implants in the testicles when one is larger than the other (well it is after all a cosmetic procedure) or when a gent has lost one testicle or was born with some form of deformity.
I also touched the subject of bead in-plants into the penis shaft to make it feel like a studded condom....this is permanent in-plants
Oh lordy lord, I hope it was on here on SH that I did the above......but I am sure I to lazy to go and browse the thousands of comments I already made......
As for enchanted boobs if the procedure is done with out stretching the skin into a abnormal shape for the ladies body...or just to fill empty skin(after breast feeding)and the lady chooses nicely fitted prosthesis then she could really look and feel stunning it am mostly talking about those abnormal one size larger boobs girls like have that is really not suitable to their body size.
As for reduction I am all for it ...too large breasts are really hurts one`s back.

Quote by Stamina
Did anybody watch a documentary recently on Discovery... About saline injecting? it is quite the craze in the east of the world. Young club goers inject saline liquid in their foreheads and make shapes. It also gets injected other places and creates a massive swelled look. It dissipates (absorbed by the body) after about 8 hours. It is safe and has no real side effects. Essentially the same liquid in a medical drip.
As this was a family show they only mentioned the few "non-private" areas where this is injected. I am sure one can inject the penis and greatly increase its overall mass for a few hours safely. This should work like a dream for women who have a night out planned. They can enlarge their Breasts temporarily and safely... I think.

Quote by playcouple
Guys , also remember that this was my first time. I was nervous, hesitant, excited, and a few other emotions at the same time. I spent a lot of time checking other people out for a few reasons. I wanted to see if there was anyone there that msy know me, I wanted to see if I was the ugliest/fattest/most out of shape/smallest dick etc etc in the place . I spoke to exactly 4 people the couple above, the doorperson and the bartender and thst was only to order a drink!
I spent the rest of the time "people-watching" - pretty much what PiB does but with the eyes of a newbie!

Quote by mynlc
Real vs fake...
hmmm, it's like buying a cake from a shop and taking a bite and finding out it's actually made of styrofoam... pretty to look at but not so nice inside. A beautifully wrapped birthday/xmas present that turns out to contain a pair of grama's socks....
I remember reading a tabloid article where a man sued his girlfriend because she looked great and he bought her gifts and stuff to get her in the sack and then on the night found out she was artificially enhanced, more plastic than a Barbi doll. Something about false advertising?
semi off-topic but speaking about enhancements, wonder how many guys are part silicone down there. It doesnt seem to be as big a topic/issue as breast modification but also done on occasion

Quote by Pussinboots1
You were more than brave to go to a club, most men are to scared to go alone.
As for the the ethnic thing, depends on the club and evening you are going, the ratio might differ on different nights.
@ SDMR I would think checking out the scene is a very natural thing to do,I would check out the amount of single men, single women,couples, what is happening,where and with whom, and yeah it is also natural to check for your own ethnic groups, I think it is very natural to do this DON~T we all do this kind of thing when we enter a new place??

Quote by Irish
What is one to do, help!
Any suggestions ?

Quote by LeeEC
My question is as follows:
Are you as sensitive to sexual situations as you are to day to day life situations?
Somebody tells me I Lick wrong, I respond "how do you want me to do it?"
Somebody tells me my views about something are wrong, I respond defensively . . . . .

Quote by Irish
I like the odd wank!

Quote by LeeEC
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Quote by Stamina
Don't know the feeling cos I am never wrong so never get told I am... bwa haaaaa ha!!!

Quote by delway
The way the criticism is given makes a huge difference.
In a sexual situation, the other person would probably give you direction more than just flat out tell you that you're doing it wrong. That's what makes for good sex - harder, softer, deeper.... We guide each other to the best possible outcome.
It's possible that we take offence to what is being said to us more because of the way it is said, than by what the person is actually saying.

Quote by MaverRick
Its quite difficult to get a conversation going on the forum ! Its surprising cos theres a lot of people checking in daily!!

Quote by MaverRick
So after a lot of nervousness I finally attended a club in the Kya Sands area -I cant remember the name of it but would be glad for more info . If was cool but to be honest,there wasn't much going on I think that because it was my first time. i was quite nervous and excited I sat at the bar for a while and checked this out - btwI was the only person of colour in the place !! The other rooms just had people sitting around chatting and smoking or drinking or in the pool
I went to the locker room and the was a couple there getting Undressed they were both very friendly and in their 50s she was quite hot they made idle chatter for a few minutes and then walked off toa private room she turned and smiled at me as they left .
I didn't think initially that it was anything but it later occurred to me that it was less than innocent so I went to see if I could find them . They were in a room . Yyou could hear that they were quite energetically going at it but the door was shut .
As a newcomer I guess thst the right thing to do was to not bother them. The door was closed after all . And there wasnt an explicit invitation. BUT, I am not the quickest on the uptake and in retrospect am 120% sure that there was more to the chat and the departing smile
What would you have done?

Quote by Mike_Pta
Let It Go (from Frozen) Meets Metal:
Case closed

Quote by Mike_Pta
Let It Go (from Frozen) Meets Metal:
Case closed

Quote by LeeEC
First of all the premise of this original post is complete rubbish.
It amuses me no end that people bitch and carry on about how racism is terrible and then post some crap like "white women don't. .." that's racism and sexism in three words. There is no characteristic and any person can assign to any entire group other than the original definition. ie. All white women are white and female.
Secondly. To Adonis and SDMR ->
allowing someone freedom to their opinion means if you don't like what they have to say, you only have two options: don't participate in the conversation or present a decent, well thought out, counter-argument which will prompt debate.
Please remember that debate is not a euphemism for yelling at everyone as loudly as possible to drown out other opinions.
You have to calmly present your point of view, with respect.

Quote by Pussinboots1
Not Really sure what it is you are writing about.
Your written comment or the *topic subject* you used ??
Or if you just made a statement.