Quote by Gr8time2live
The guys at work and I have been having this argument and maybe some of you can shed some light on the matter.
Does the type/kind/colour etc of underwear a woman wears tell you anything about her personality or what kind of person she is? For example; does an innocent lady wear white panties and a naughty school girl wear a gstring to school?
I would love to be enlightened!! This will settle the office talk I'm sure!

Quote by mynlc
What I find strange is the sexism of swinging... it seems single male = asshole but single female = OK.
And the attitude that "single males are not swingers" but a single female is?

Quote by Sparks5
Here is the problem, single gents and ladies are complaining for being sidelinedby( couples )swingers ,this makes them rude at the end bcoz for example if you seek sex and you get pushed away how would you feel? you become mad &you cry,at the sametime i get couples point,i understand them,then give us ideas as single that what shoul we do so that we don't disturb you, i love you swingers and iknow this site is for swingers but could you please help us coz we also like to have fun like you guyz!not to be used,

Quote by Adonis
If you looked at previous forums that exactly what i asked, bit then told that people have rights and that's only a debate.
Thanks for the people, afterwards send me mails and agree with my point.

Quote by LeeEC
No surprises for the Eastern Cape. ... us old verkrampte farts!
Ha ha. .. Maybe we should put an ad in the paper telling people is Ok to be sexually liberated!

Quote by MaverRick
Thank you lee. I was beginning to wonder when someone would realise that the point was completely lost

Quote by Psk
Our first time was a mfm threesome. Me and the missus had been talking about swinging for a while and eventually I decided to surprise her. I had been chatting to a guy online and eventually met him and discussed rules etc. one evening I drew her a romantic bath. Candles, bubble-bath sexy book to read etc. I let the guy in without her knowing and when she got out of the bath I blindfolded her and tied her to the bed. The guy came into the room and started touching her. Only after I spoke from across the room after a few minutes did she realize that it was not me, and then the real fun started This was one of her fantasies, so I knew she would love it. We also had safe words to stop all play if we wanted to.

Quote by Stamina
Its true in life everyone is there to win and be the winner, but the fact is that there can only be one winner. But that not mean you had to stop trying and for the most of us its more for the fun as the win.
Good example of a sport where there still a advantage to be a women is golf, Me playing golf, i could not even reach the women's tee of box. But every time i had the change i play again. Why did i play golf firdt for the fun and not reach the womens tee box i had to buy a round.
I think what is also true is people who want to be the winner in an argument as well, and when he not the winner they became agro, and where did you see it the best, yes you right here in the forum.
All i hope is that the "Springbokke" also have the winners mentality.:giveup::giveup::giveup::giveup:

Quote by LeeEC
Wow... leave for a whole day and I come back to find you chaps having body shots and swinging from the chandeliers!
Bluddy hell!! Why, oh why, did I go to work??

Quote by playcouple
Guys , also remember that this was my first time. I was nervous, hesitant, excited, and a few other emotions at the same time. I spent a lot of time checking other people out for a few reasons. I wanted to see if there was anyone there that msy know me, I wanted to see if I was the ugliest/fattest/most out of shape/smallest dick etc etc in the place . I spoke to exactly 4 people the couple above, the doorperson and the bartender and thst was only to order a drink!
I spent the rest of the time "people-watching" - pretty much what PiB does but with the eyes of a newbie!

Quote by Stamina
Why do I gotta be the lab rat??

Quote by Pussinboots1
Well I know when I have done something I liked or done new, Like visiting Beefcakes here in Cpt I write about it!!! I like to share and I like to know what others think.
I once again think it is a quite *normal* thing to do...to share and ask questions.
Also I am glad that M did this he is giving us all something to chat about!!!

Quote by Pussinboots1
Come on guys I have touched BOTH subjects before....either in a comment On a forum or one I have written...
I know I have written about saline injections (it is after all also kinky related and I do kinky) quite a bit and mostly for men who would like to have the experience of breasts.
also for men who likes to have larger testicles.
I also have written something or commented somewhere about silicone implants in the testicles when one is larger than the other (well it is after all a cosmetic procedure) or when a gent has lost one testicle or was born with some form of deformity.
I also touched the subject of bead in-plants into the penis shaft to make it feel like a studded condom....this is permanent in-plants
Oh lordy lord, I hope it was on here on SH that I did the above......but I am sure I to lazy to go and browse the thousands of comments I already made......
As for enchanted boobs if the procedure is done with out stretching the skin into a abnormal shape for the ladies body...or just to fill empty skin(after breast feeding)and the lady chooses nicely fitted prosthesis then she could really look and feel stunning it am mostly talking about those abnormal one size larger boobs girls like have that is really not suitable to their body size.
As for reduction I am all for it ...too large breasts are really hurts one`s back.

Quote by Stamina
Did anybody watch a documentary recently on Discovery... About saline injecting? it is quite the craze in the east of the world. Young club goers inject saline liquid in their foreheads and make shapes. It also gets injected other places and creates a massive swelled look. It dissipates (absorbed by the body) after about 8 hours. It is safe and has no real side effects. Essentially the same liquid in a medical drip.
As this was a family show they only mentioned the few "non-private" areas where this is injected. I am sure one can inject the penis and greatly increase its overall mass for a few hours safely. This should work like a dream for women who have a night out planned. They can enlarge their Breasts temporarily and safely... I think.

Quote by playcouple
Guys , also remember that this was my first time. I was nervous, hesitant, excited, and a few other emotions at the same time. I spent a lot of time checking other people out for a few reasons. I wanted to see if there was anyone there that msy know me, I wanted to see if I was the ugliest/fattest/most out of shape/smallest dick etc etc in the place . I spoke to exactly 4 people the couple above, the doorperson and the bartender and thst was only to order a drink!
I spent the rest of the time "people-watching" - pretty much what PiB does but with the eyes of a newbie!

Quote by mynlc
Real vs fake...
hmmm, it's like buying a cake from a shop and taking a bite and finding out it's actually made of styrofoam... pretty to look at but not so nice inside. A beautifully wrapped birthday/xmas present that turns out to contain a pair of grama's socks....
I remember reading a tabloid article where a man sued his girlfriend because she looked great and he bought her gifts and stuff to get her in the sack and then on the night found out she was artificially enhanced, more plastic than a Barbi doll. Something about false advertising?
semi off-topic but speaking about enhancements, wonder how many guys are part silicone down there. It doesnt seem to be as big a topic/issue as breast modification but also done on occasion

Quote by Pussinboots1
You were more than brave to go to a club, most men are to scared to go alone.
As for the the ethnic thing, depends on the club and evening you are going, the ratio might differ on different nights.
@ SDMR I would think checking out the scene is a very natural thing to do,I would check out the amount of single men, single women,couples, what is happening,where and with whom, and yeah it is also natural to check for your own ethnic groups, I think it is very natural to do this DON~T we all do this kind of thing when we enter a new place??

Quote by Irish
What is one to do, help!
Any suggestions ?

Quote by LeeEC
My question is as follows:
Are you as sensitive to sexual situations as you are to day to day life situations?
Somebody tells me I Lick wrong, I respond "how do you want me to do it?"
Somebody tells me my views about something are wrong, I respond defensively . . . . .

Quote by Irish
I like the odd wank!

Quote by LeeEC
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Quote by Stamina
Don't know the feeling cos I am never wrong so never get told I am... bwa haaaaa ha!!!

Quote by delway
The way the criticism is given makes a huge difference.
In a sexual situation, the other person would probably give you direction more than just flat out tell you that you're doing it wrong. That's what makes for good sex - harder, softer, deeper.... We guide each other to the best possible outcome.
It's possible that we take offence to what is being said to us more because of the way it is said, than by what the person is actually saying.