considering a playlist is F*cking long...id like to just put my suggestions out there
- Most of "the Hives" music
- Alotta groove music...if the crowds not too old....some red hot chilli peppers?
- Funk music , "cool and the gang"
- stay away from dubstep, unless your having fun with robots
- I wouldnt consider power balads
- Justin Timberlake music would work great (- "cry me a river")
- Some Katy Perry (against my better judgement)
- The killers --earlier stuff though
- Jack johnson for when the night is winding too a close....
- Perhaps consider streaming or broadcasting the DSTV radio channels' Groove lounge or house could work.
Just some thoughts from my experience as radio broadcaster and live events MC.
Goodluck
So what to do...when after a meeting You end up becoming the other person's worst enemy?
HEre;s the skinny.....some time ago a member and myself (after months of chatting, 4 meetings that she turned up a no show) finally was able to meet with me. Which we did.
Given it was at an ungodly hour of the morning, but nonetheless.
Upon her arrival I introduce myself and show her the way to where we were going to have a chit chat. Now here's where the trouble comes in.
Im getting all these signs...first off. her attire is (or lack thereof) shouts, oozes and screams...v"hey big boy....come have a closer look"
I pleasantly observe as she gets up and wants to have a look at the top of a giant map against a wall, revealing her breasts from under the crop top.
Bending down again "observing the map" , once again exposing that there are no underwear under her skirt.
Man o man o man....I was completely dumbstruck and made my move....welcoming her advances.
She smiled broadly and declined this advancement. (take into consideration, i conducted myself in a very gentlman-like) manner.
I accept this decision. and continue being a great host. Even having her compliment me and saying Im a real funny guy, and I smell amazing.
Not all is lost right?
She leaves. and Never hear from her again....accept when Im in the chatrooms, and she disagree's with comments or statements I make in the general conversation....and not being one to really do it in a friendly or "grown - up" way....Ive taken offence to her.
For a long time Ive stayed angry with her and her refusal to explain to me WTF?! Look Im fine with the fact if she's not attracted to me? Or if she was playing ego games, ill accept that too.
But after writing a message explaining that I wish to bury the hatchet, so that social meet and great wont potentially turn akward, Im yet to receive a response.
Im left wondering....what now. We are bounmd to meet again...I know it. But Im done trying to live and let live.
Myself.
Im waaay more alternative by the looks of it.
Die hard metallica fan. Enjoy all types of speed metal/punk.
Will listen to folk and certain types of hip hop.
Live concerts ive been lucky enough to see
The offspring, NOFX, Staind, Fatbloy slim, Metallica , RHCP, Foo Foghters, seether and saron gas. SNG x4 . FPK, oddest show ive seen was skouspel. Very good....but odd
Very much of a random question.
Whats your favorite Genre of music.
Name a couple of bands.
Have you been to any good live shows of international or local acts.
What music do you despise?
Why?
Im asking this purely out of curiosity
Have Fun
I hope the gent's would insist on STD tests regardless of race, I myself and two other couples Ive played with all have agreed to do tests 3 or four times a year.
Hell to be honest. you cant be too safe.
But the crux of the matter , "whether her race is the sole reason they want a test".....yeah thats as little off in my opinion
So Im considering attending the event at Clifton Beach 4....Is anyone else going?
Doesnt have to be for a play date....some company would be nice
I hear what mike and lee are saying....that would be best.
Cara....your idea if an "open/social meeting" might just be the thing needed.
Considering mike and lee's concerns. what about a "testimonial" function on the site....for instance where the profile could get this quick messages on the bottol right hand side of their profile page....a link to a forum. Where people could give testimonials of an individual.
Of course the profile in question and perhaps a mod should approve them first. to avoid mudslinging.
Does something like this make sense?
Not all the time ...no.
But what exactly is wrong with my post?
Do you feel taken advantage of by life?
Do you feel - a lesser amount of confidence?
Do things scare you that has previously excited you?
Do you feel that enough is enough.....but the solution to your predicament is just out of reach?
- Im in no way saying/
'In the midst of chaos, there is also opportunity'
Now.....before im burnt at the stake for being a radical thinker.....this book has been exalted for two thousand years . If something is able to withstand the test of time like that.....something about it must be working right....
Download the pirated copy if you have to....what have you got to lose?
Hidy how and greetings from Planet strange.
So...every now and then something happens at work that makes you just think...."shit...THATS cool". or something along the line. That is , if you deal with customers on a personal level.
I myself am a property broker that deal in commercial units, offices, industrial retails etc etc.
Now...Ive heard crazy ideas from all sorts of people...from looking for space to open up a "poker-club", to a roller skating track and much more...(this industry is NOT for the faint hearted).
One of the questions we ask when receiving an inquiry is what business will you be operating within the space...that way we know whether we should take it seriously or hand it down to a newbie.
And when someone is hesitant to say what they do..needless to say..we stay away.
accept today.
Caller: "we need someone to help us, that has an open mind..."
me: Okay? What type of industry are you in?
Caller: "that is the thing...we'd like to discuss it at the property"
me: Is it illegal? If your planning to mug me....
Caller: "no no no....are you familiar with BDSM?"
By now...my interest has been properly aroused.
So it just so happens I have the PERFECT space...i arrange a site visit and it turns out its a group of 6 people looking for a "dungeon type space" - Which Ive got , strangely enough.
Long story short. CT now has an exclusive BDSM dungeon...unfortunately, membership is closed. or exclusive or something like that...dont care....i did the most interesting and memorable deal ever with some of the most well mannered and funny individuals Ive come across....
Kim K ... a pornstar?
Regardless.....I love Pornhub!
As humble of a profession as it is....a teacher.
underpaid, undervalued, treated like shit.
OR
Suicide Hotline operator.
Id giggle alot, its my "defense mechanism"
yay....the cool crowd is taking part in my topic!
At a previous stage i asked the question. Whom do you think, is the best porn actor/s?
Very little reply. Alot of snarly remarks. I guess everyone else might have missed that.
Today, after having a chat with a couple a think I might have actually stumbled upon something quite smart....(you of course be the judge, jury and executioner)
Couple mentions to me, the frequency of how men apporach them, single men on a online platform.
-Vag pics?
-Done ma anal (does mom do anal?)
-A "sincere" greeting....to get your attention....and a left hook "dick pick" to knock your wind out.
I have an opinion, (surprise there right?).
It is....that I blame Pornography....or more specific Obsession/addiction to porno.
objectifying of women? -
and the amount of input afforded to contact someone-
Misconception of their expected and general manners
I think If i think really hard.....I could think of more "symptoms"?
Id love to hear from members
*tips my cowboy hat to stamina*
Ah...i See you are not made from the same fibre as some others...A good thing.
Yes lets put a flame to this discussion once more
Muwhahahaha
Hey guys.
Well I do hope your bel;ated getaway proves to be whats needed for a reboost for the year?
Yes Liza's is cool. Its important though to book in advance.
Previously there was a post regarding Cara Profiles meet and greets. This too would be an Excellent option to consider. As its not a network of existing friends only. Also a great way of learning some untold secrets of CT to experience..
As previously also stated. If any need or queries or even directions are needed. Please feel free to ask around.
Tips ) "Bergies" - Beggars.....are bloody determined to get every cent of you via begging.. A firm NO should suffice.
avoid N1 & And N2 N1 - Towards CT in morning 7-9 and From CT 4-6
N2 basically same time, youll be stuck for days
Adonis...i tell nio lies when i say....It doesnt leave a taste...
Hi all.
Thinking..that there's one thing ive not seen here, but might make a great contribution and be used by members is an advice forum. Not necessarily sexy advice....in fact not at all sexy advice...every day things...the word advice also seems out of plays...Im thinking for instance #Lifehack #Boere Rate #Why didntI think of that.
E.g Member C : I hate using my own ice trays...they are always shattered (ice) when i serve it..
Advice from random member : Use warm water to fill the tray next time. (using cook and spray does wonders)
Does this make sense to you guys...Ive thought of potential problems. All comes down primarily to potential post abuse.
What are your thoughts?
Think back to a prehistoric fact (unless your against science...and signs are evil) < --- syidt*
Homo-erectus, our "ancestors", Had a couple of basic needs..shelter, food, pussy. Right. The primal instinct to sow our seed has always been there.
And evolution has not been too kind to some of us...The basic urge, is still there....but the game has changed. Cant just "oe -oe" <- kak caveman sound. And increase the population.
Perhaps proves evolution works backwards in some gene's....back then we had the common sense to clobber them over the head...nowadays, eish.
Wait...That might come out wrong...Ive remembered clobbering unfortuanatley still happens. So ladies are for obvious reasons hesitant. The response can only be overwhelming.
Than being said .
I again urge them to continue the way the do...the STRONGEST shal prevail...in a way. Natural selection? Survival of the fittest...These also sound somewhat attached to the era of dinosaurs...
Hmmm.
Heres a picture of queen Victoria , as you were -----> (-) (-)
regardless of enjoying it or not, the most important thing I can relate to is learning about people in general. (not that psychology B.S) But general things applicable to real life. Conflict resolution, self examination and understanding another's personal preferences. Those are perhaps the more important lessons I've learned.
Im still to meet people that I feel a connection to...the few personal meets I've had went down quite bizarrely. But thats a different story.
I understand exactly what is meant with the fact that the Forum has a completely different community than the Chatrooms...Ive seen only a few profiles actively partaking in discussions here...
Thanx for your insights. Its given me a couple of interesting point of views that are valid...in my opinion.
My mom taught me..."don't argue with idiots, they'll drag you down to their level....and beat you with experience"
A lesson I think some members in the pool should perhaps adopt to avoid a kak atmosphere.
Im not sure about the culture in the forum posts. But feel a slightly hesitant sense of excitement. But now I know Ive still got a lot to learn from this platform...perhaps I was a bit too overly "inspired" to share my thoughts? Perhaps I just did it from the wrong angle...regardless , I take what you folks have said in a ...constructive way.
I wanted to do two things with this post.
1) Address the stubborn disregard for other people's preferences. And lending my support to the freedom that, I believe the site offers.
2) Create a good "first impression" to other forum contributors...
I guess im still unsure on whether I was successful in doing any of that at all....
Im sure its been discussed prior...merely adding my 50c worth, enjoyed my first post
1) -> I know....I know
2)-> I know its not a regular occurrence...but its increased recently id say the last 2 weeks or so.
3)-> I do cam....often
4)-> Cool. Not much else to do, and Im not much bothered...
Im sure its been discussed prior...merely adding my 50c worth
I hope the content of this post is as relevant as the title. Chatrooms, ladies and gentleman. A virtual space for individuals to share thoughts, to voice their concerns, to laugh, to cry and most commonly 'talk kak'. Its a space I feel comfortable, and enjoy myself. Ive made friends. And sure....if definitely pissed some people off. Ill admit that. But recently a topic has literally gotten out of hand. On numerous occasions the pool would get heated , as one member of the room voices their unhappiness because most of the cams are that of masturbating men. Hold on....let me finish. I personally feel. The site , its principles and the lifestyle should is accommodates to all. Regardless of ones sexual orientation, everyone should feel they are able and welcome to express themselves (in a matter of speaking) when they feel the need. Who am I to say that cam's are reserved only for those who have specific genitals? Exactly...to each its own. I do enjoy the regular appearance of a lovely lady on camera. The intensity of a couple. But Im also not fond of watching 'adam' furiously petting his snake. Or spanking the monkey, or stroking the lizard. Whichever term involving wildlife you prefer. For that reason...I avoid those cameras.
On (or in) the other hand..<-- (see what I did there?).
You learn very quickly which profiles are not exactly what or who they say they are. It may say couple...but c'mon. Lets be honest we all know the Miss's knows not she is part of a 'couples' profile. But some conscious – deprived individuals have these profiles as a pre-historic trap to catch unsuspecting 'ladies'...he he , sometimes both are in for a nasty surprise.
So I do understand the excitement of a noticing a profile thats on camera. And it appears to be something they are into....Aaaaand another guy is wanking....Retina's everywhere are at risk. I know...and its not a big thing for me...more like 'meh' and I close the window and anticipate the next one (yes I lurk).
Other more seasoned members and acquaintances in the pool however are getting very annoyed with the constant complaining about the matter. Which is understandable...they've all come to accept. But more recently joined members haven't.
1) This creates tension in the pool, and as entertaining as it is. No one enjoys a room full of fuming members, too worked up to enjoy themselves.
2) The 'couple' profiles...as annoying and unethical as it is. (my opinion) I cant think of a solution that wont result in a logistical nightmare. Seems the best would be to let it just be.....
Sorry for a long post here's a pointless arrow ---
