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Even if its for a drink or two, id love to meet you in CT.
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Ian_McHerbe
1 month ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 36
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Commercial Real estate as a primary income
music as a hobby
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"its made from bits of real panther...so you know its good"
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Oh dear....the dreaded "send me an inbox"...I have a good feeling, mine will be lost in a sea of dickpicks and generic one liner and proposal.. I even go to such lengths as to write an elaborate welcoming opening, followed by a captivating body, and end it off with a witty end that ties in with my opening. Exactly Mrs Holtzhauzen taught me in gr 12 English class....but nothing, not a peep, not a word....hell, they havent even looked at my profile. And checking my outbox i can see it has been opened.
Well ladies and gentleman. As we all know ...there's a "Ladder of rank" on sites like these....And im pretty sure if it wasnt for TV/TS , single men would be waaaaayyyyy down in the bottom. Now ive been pretty vocal regarding exactly that, and that my personal fear is being judged for the actions of my peers. However....I must say...2 things are of particular importance...
1) Single men should just be patient... If your presence is constructive and even enjoyable to the community at large...at a point they slowly start to "accept" you. I say "accept" because you will notice being more engaged in conversation (e.g chatrooms, forums etc). Its at that point you receive the odd invitation to a meet and greet. Now it is daunting...going it alone...I myself have not attended such events, but have been lucky to be at a meet and greet of sorts.
2 Become noticed! - Weve allready got a terrible cloud hanging over our heads. It reminds me alot of the beggars in the streets of Cape Town whom receive a very short No! or F#ck off you street urchin! (if they become persistent) from me. Sometimes my proposal of an informal meet is seen as me "begging for money", Im the street urchin, and the couple or lady is "me" and giving me the exact treatment.
I consider most if not all beggars to be in the position theyre in due to a combination of dependencies, failed relationships, unemployment, broken families etc etc. And instead of a handout , I rather advise on an opportunity for fixing the immediate condition. Now.....as a single male. My proposal for a meet or the ever so used term of "fun", should be rather a proposal at establishing a "base" friendship... by becoming active in the community, contributing and to a degree "market" yourself. You are able to establish a sort of mutual "tolerance" that could grow into something more .
Another point i forgot to mention is - Your intelligence shines through in everything you do. Dont pick fights in chatrooms, don't spam woman with dick picks (ITS NOT THAT IMPRESSIVE). Be smart. No woman is going to throw her self out here for a shag. If she was. i wouldn't touch her with a pole vault pole.....STD's. So....the more single men are able to carry themselves across as gentleman and not beasts of the Pangaea era. The more the other members will relax and allow us into the community.
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carry on. Dont change a thing. The guys who do know how to behave will just have a better/easier time at establishing relationships.
Sorry for the long thread.
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Hi all. hoping to become more involved in the forums....sounds like fun.
My ideal meet ups are as follows
- Softiskitty : She looks like the mysterious type that i find very attractive, and sounds like shes big on her fantasy roleplay.....and who doesnt want to meet a woman with such great...ahem...assets?
Pussnboots&Pussnboots_2 = Look like an easy going couple with whom i might have alot in common.
Thene there are one or two profiles id like to meet just so I can settle a score , but thats not gentleman like
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Dont think this happens at all in cpt
Signal Hill is popular as an evening spot, and also areas around Lundadno....there by you ive seen dogging arounf Blue Peter
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what i didnt mention....
Porn sites and "dating sites" are ripe grounds for administering the mentioned virus.....tread lightly
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Hello Hello all.
To admons, mods and all involved with keeping this site in tip top shape. "i would like to thank ya'll".....you see. Ive discovered some shocking truths about what ive unknowingly allowed my laptop to be exposed to....and the reason for my thank. None of the unwanted "entries or virusses" have come from SH....Good job guys!
Okay. so back to my syphilis infested Lenovo Laptop. I started reading about something called silk road....its a website /server thats been seized by the FBI and no longer available or running. Which is referred to as the "DARK NET" or better yet, the "shady" "dodgy" and unsavoury "alleys" where illegal and unethical transactions were taking place.(guns,drugs and dangerous wisdom). My curiousity was getting the better of me and further readings let to me discovering a "black Shade" Virus or RAT .
This "virus" has been traded amongst "internet traders" in order to gain access in the most invading way to your inner most personal life.....your WEBCAM!
Essentially your webcam can be controlled by the person to see/hear what you do at ANY TIME that you are in the webcam view.....
Think for a second....how much personal information is discussed whilst that laptop is standing open and NOT SHUT DOWN!
casually over a telephone call, or in discussion. Do you work with sensitive information at work? Corporate espionage straight out of an Ian Flemming "james Bond" book ill tell you.
Personally I cam alot in chatrooms. Paranoia set in as i read of cases where a hacker, sometimes thousands of miles away or just a block away. were able to use video material and information to blackmail a victim. Even work out a routine around your schedule.
Immediately i ran a series of tests that were said to pick up these demonic codes of doom , (viruses). Even went as far as to individually go through tons of data to look for certain mentioned irregularities......unfortuanately I was able to pick up 3 such entries made into my They were first analyzed then banished to eternal hell and brimstone (i hope coz im kicking a moer expensive antivirus, which has now shattered my faith)
I thought SH mightve been the cause...turns out not, I know your saying - "aaaaah , dodgy porn sites", Which is not the case, but rather from an message recieved from google chat, at a time my colleauge's account was hacked. the message instructed me to open a photo. which turned out to be nothing, but "permission" from me to install this "thing".
(besides i get my porno from RELIABLE sources) e/g adultshops, coz i like the "feel" of a DVD disk "
If admin is fine with it (PLEASE GET BACK TO ME) Id like to post verified and reliable methods of prevention and protection by using URL"'s? If not, please also just pop a comment as a way of notification.
Thanks for reading my Looooong post. To IT tech's and Computer whizzes out there who wish to correct me on certain things i mightve gotten wrong (techno nazi's) please dont......keep any snotty comments to yourselves and your friends.....Im not an IT expert. anyways...
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Hi guys. I hope to get a decent conversation started .
Curious as to whom your favourite actors and actresses are in porno flicks? Which flicks are memorable? And interesting facts.
Lets get the ball rolling as they say
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Hi guys.
Glad to see the discussion took off. I suppose I did not read the entire rules and regulations pf forum posts, did not realize that it is considered a no-no. Therefore apologize in advance. I only realize now what the impact could be by perhaps leading recovering addicts into temptation. Hope I did not open a can of worms.
Just to make myself clear, the idea of this discussion came purely after a coversation about the whole thing.
@ P.I.B- endured was the wrong word to use. I realize that now. It was a situation where I met someone and one thing led to the next. Etc.
If the discussion has to be removed by admin, I understand why, and I respect. Just really thought it would make a good discussion.
You guys must enjoy the remainder of the weekend,
Love and peace
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Good day all.
Very excited to have my first post here on the forum and I wish there will be plenty of interest on this topic, and hopefully many more in the near future.
Apart from celebrating easter this past weekend some of you might be aware that 420 was celebrated globally as well, (4-20 is known as the international day of marijuana).
My question to the forum is this...what are your thoughts on using illegal drugs whilst engaging in sex? I'd love to hear your thoughts, opinions and stories.
Personally (during my varsity years). I am confident that I've had sex whilst being under the influence of almost EVERY drug known to man. I considered myself a young Hunter S. Thompson if you will.
But more recently I've engaged in sex with a female whilst she was high on methtik. As scared as I was( you hear scary stories). I endured it and it turned out not to be to bad. I was sober and have been for some time.
My experience is that every person has a different reaction to different chemicals or substances.
Its just sad to hear of some of the tradegies that happen when things go overboard.
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Kloof street Pub Crawl to be arranged with enough interest. Strictly by Ratio, Not interested in hosting a sausage fest. Sorry guys.
Ladies, we might be able to arrange drink vouchers as incentive to bring your single eligable friends along.
How does this sound. Anyone Keen
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Haloooo Ladies.
After joining this particular site i am more confident in the adult or "sex: scene in S.A. Not only is everything quite transparrent but there are real legitimate members, not just a bunch of nigerian scam artists. Nonetheless.
to firstly go out for drinks and whatnot! Ple
I am in desperate need of NSA hookups. And im not a bad looking guy either?!?! Just unable to socialize due to my schedule as commercial real estate broker.
I stay ion Gardens CT. And if there are any ladies who look forwerd to meeting a funny, classy, comfortable guy to firstly go out for drinks and whatnot! Please dont hesitate to call!
Im sure if i dont get laid in the nex 7 days. I might as well give up.
Stay well
Kindest regards
