Compliments on your photos @ fadnad. Yes pictures are rare in general, probably because they are mostly doing this unsanctioned. It makes things difficult if you find a profile interesting and there's no media, or worse the demand for face pics when their profile is sparse
I was almost ready to venture out the to date, then I got covid. That flattened me, drove my libido into extinction. Even though that was towards the end of the 1st wave, I've had covid twice more. It's shorter every time, but i've found that self pleasure has become a normal thing for me.
I've always thought of "Professionals" as rent boys and prostitutes. Were here for sex, not networking, that's that other group. Sure you can network, but after.
If previously you've said No thanks" and they can't remember asking
I generally reply even if it is to say "I doubt that we would ever meet"
I love looking at cocks, especially if the guy's foreskin extends beyond the head of his cock. I'm uncut and when soft, the foreskin almost covers the head. I've not had much experience with cut cocks except to say I prefer bottoming for a cut cock, you get more friction internally, uncut cocks just slide around in their foreskin.
Making labels for yourself can become really constricting. You've labeled yourself as straight but you go to a gathering, meet a guy you have an instant connection with, then what? Do you avoid him because you're straight? I've met both guys and girls that I've had such a connection with and let situations develop. It's always fun and generally I make some excellent friends that way.
2 places. 1. Half way up Fields hill during a horrendous thunderstorm outside the car at 4 pm. How we weren't arrested, I don't know
2. In the middle of the Kruger Park on the boot of my car. As we left, not more than 200m away was a pride of lions.
I'm predominantly gay but sometimes I'll see what I'd term a "handsome" woman and I'd think to myself, I wouldn't mind banging her. BTW, when I do get together with a lady, I tell them straight forward that I'm gay (pun in words huh). Boxes are for luggage and should be kept in the garage and not for putting people in. That aside all men know that we give far better blow jobs (climbing into a spare box) lol
I just want to say, right off the bat, I never use a condom when I wank alone! Sex is supposed to be fun. If you can't laugh at the man with the small dick, who can you laugh at?
I'm not sure if you guys know about PREP. It's a drug that will prevent you from contracting HIV if you are exposed to it. It's supposed to be 99% sure. From a gay perspective, far too many guys claim to be tested regularly, but I doubt that. At the end of the day, an ugly man with a condom beats a handsome man without.
I had sex with a married guy and afterwards, he made a point of saying that if we met in public I was to ignore him. I know the game. A few months later I was in Monte and lo and behold I saw said straight man with family. There was a guy behind them as a friend I hadn't seen in a while. I kinda walked quickly towards my friend waving to get his attention. The I saw this look of pure terror on married man's face as I walked passed to hug my friend.
I'm glad you could build a bridge with your sister. My brother being half way round the world is just far enough.
Unfortunately 2 men don't ave that other option, though some refer to their arse as a mangina. I shudder when I hear that comment. My thoughts are, if they want to see a real man cunt, I'll take them to my ex boss, now that's a real cunt. Along with douching there are pills such as immodium which slow down that natural movement. I'm only on Nr 6, there's another 11 to go before I can finally say one way or the other how awesome it is.
I laugh when you talk to someone in chat and they resort to Barbara Cartland script. It's actually quite nauseating.
I've often found that laughter, usually at my own expense is a great ice breaker and relaxes people. Sex is for fun and pleasure. If it was a chore, we'd fob it off on someone else. Oh shit, I've just explained why so many people cheat.
I guess being a gay man, eating cum is kinda second nature to us. On one occasion I had a 3some with my str8 friend and his wife, I ate his cum out of his wife while he ploughed my arse. I love feltching from a guy too, but a number of conditions myst be met before this happens. He must have done a proper douche, there must be no farm-yard smells emanating from him after all an e-coli infection is just not nice.
I am a big fan of rimming, I actually prefer it to sucking a guy's cock. The anus has probably as many nerve endings as the head of a penis. Ive found that by rimming a guy for between 30 and 45 minutes, he'll start having anal orgasms. (google that). I often joke to people that i have a PhD in rimming.
Feltching is just a natural progression from rimming.
Straight men, please note that you can do this to women too. Think of her pleasure, not yours!
labels in sexuality is a very fluid subject. I've met straight men who will let you suck their cocks and fuck them, but won't reciprocate because "That's just gay" So long as he sees himself as straight that's the way he is. I myself call myself gay, but on the odd occasion I will have a 3some with a guy and his wife. Am I to term myself Bisexual or a new term I heard the other day a Bi-Curious Gay Man? Hell no, I'm gay because I see myself that way.
Before you people judge, take a good long hard look at yourselves and remember to be "Open-minded" Dirty minds and closed minds are mutually exclusive.
I've had a DP session with an all guy scene. I was one of the 2 cocks going in. Normally I take a while to cum, but in this instant, the feelings on my dick were so surreal I almost shot right away. I tried to recreate the feelings with myself and a dildo, but that didn't work.
It wasn't on this site, but another, a gay site, a few years ago. I saw a profile from an Australian city, I looked at it and I recognized that it was in fact my very straight homophobic brother. I popped off a message "Hi "brothers name" is there something we need to discuss? "My name". well, that profile disappeared very quickly. Whenever I see my brother again and the subject of my sexuality comes up, I just look at him and smirk.
Any chance I get to haul my cock out and wack off in front of other horny guys is a plus for me
