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Warming the Bed
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What is your definition of straight? In my experience, I have encountered "straight but", but as in but and not straight but curious and straight but horny. 

Whenever someone tells me they straight, I picture a line drawn with a ruler.."straight straight" but I  have found "straight drawn free hand," ending up a bit skew.

The reason I'm asking this question is that I've seen on some straight profiles, they have an interest in cross dressers.

To me a cross dresser is a man, dressed up as a female, so underneath the clothes and make up, is a man with a penis. 

If said straight man hooks up with cross dresser, are they technically straight?

I'm not judging, just need clarity.



Sexlightened
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So its Not Chicks with Dicks...

Its Dudes with Tits!

Sexlightened
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A man in a dress ✖

A man in a dress with boobs 😐

A Thai ladyboy 😈

Does that make me bi? Probably. Do I give a fuck? Definitely not.

Sexlightened
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Quote by 2some4fun
A man in a dress ✖
A man in a dress with boobs 😐
A Thai ladyboy 😈
Does that make me bi? Probably. Do I give a fuck? Definitely not.

 Now thats a "Straight" Answer! 

Warming the Bed
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Making labels for yourself can become really constricting. You've labeled yourself as straight but you go to a gathering, meet a guy you have an instant connection with, then what? Do you avoid him because you're straight? I've met both guys and girls that I've had such a connection with and let situations develop. It's always fun and generally I make some excellent friends that way.

Sexlightened
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Well we a M/F couple who enjoy 3somes, moresomes with bi men, preferably large cocks.

Mrs enjoys watching them do Mr.

Then joins in all holes available. 

Ok so we clearly bi male play oriented. 

Strange thing is 75% responding to our adverts profiles state they straight.

Just a bit of interesting  useless information.

Warming the Bed
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one has to draw distiction between sexual orientation (which includes both sexual attraction and the inherent leaning towards a specific gender to also build lasting emotional bonds)  and one's need to scratch an itch (which is superficial with a pleasant outcome, ie an orgasm)  the straight / bi/ gay labels are used rather loosely. They should be irrlevant when it comes to scratching an itch, IMO. Most of the straight guys I've helped out on occasion have no uncertainty about their sexual orientation, they're quite clear that they dont like guys, but they have no problem letting a mouth or hand, regardless of which sex it's attached to, to help them out when it's needed and available. Yes, maybe feeling a hairy back on a guy going down on you is not the most enjoyable/romantic thing you expected for your pleasure fix, however, I also think our reactions and thinking has been imprinted by less liberal thinking parents and peers as well as the fear of judgement should you dare let the labels go.

Master of Sex
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Oh, I like  4nakedfun`s answer!!!!!!!!