How many of you guys have FUN and games and laughter while having sex?? ALL of you, I would think MOST of you guys will shout *We ALWAYS have fun!!!* You more than likely thinking* Where the heck is Her head and thoughts off too??*
Well let me explain.....
Let`s be honest here. Meeting a new playmate or play couple, most people are always worried about body image, how they are performing, what is expected of and from them.
Think of how some body sounds could make you feel,queasy or shameful, although it is just normal really, how if you are on the chubby side how your body moves and waves and wobbles around when you move, how if you are to slim how your bone structure/skeleton could be painful for your partner as it is digging into areas that you should not feel when your protruding bones rubs against the others body parts. How you might be scared of crushing someone with your weight. Farting unexpectedly..little things like that. How about sexual competition?? Yes there is ALWAYS a part of you, if you are honest,that is competitive when you have multi partners. I DARE you to disagree!!!!!!
Makes me think back...I once met someone new at home, I opened my door wearing a paper bag over my head!!!! It made him and myself smile and the tension of meeting someone new was broken. I also once gave a BJ after NOT doing that for many-many years....trying to deep-throat him...I gagged..my eyes watered and I was out of breath, (which is just natural really)he seemed worried, after I dried my eyes and could breath again.. but after laughing at myself, and telling him I was overzealous, he relaxed and laughed with me.....and I could return to give him a nice Deep Throat BJ.....which I enjoyed giving. The point I’m trying to make is that there’s no harm in addressing when something is funny or awkward or something insanely uncomfortable happens during sex.
We all should really stop taking ourselves so seriously during sex and let loose and enjoy ourselves.
Having new sexual partners we should also remember that often there is some fumbling and a mishap or two when you start out having sex. Know when to ignore certain things, smile and do not laugh when something tickles your giggle bone, but try and share it... laugh at yourself when you fumbling something...just relax and try and know your new lover is also nervous with his or her own issues.
Humor is something one should be wary of though. Laughing when nervous, or trying to make fun of yourself can back fire quickly. It also can be charming and putting someone at ease, it is really something one must approach with care. Know when to ignore something and not to linger on what ever disturbed you, sometimes making as if it never happened is also better.
Couples or Long term play mates who know and trust each other,always have way more fun and humor in the bedroom.
Soo Once again, I am asking how may of you guys really have FUN in the bedroom????
