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Warming the Bed
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Let me start from the beginning. I was and is a str8 guy until something happened with me. Anybody who read my bi experience will understand. Yes I am not gay and love women and the woman body, but the bi experience open another door. Yes I will never kiss a man, and yes I will never fuck a man or " vry "  a man. And it open doors to be openminded. My wife always say, try it twice, may be the first time was bad. 

Never say never. You will be surprises yourself. I think about woman every day and their bodies, but when you in a 3some and you see his cock and your wife want you to suck it, than everything inside you changed. You became another man. Yes it is not for everybody. My question is, how many str8 men thinking about a bi experience, but is to afraid to act on it or to say it to somebody. Yes it is our secret also, because people label you. 

I just wonder how many str8 men are openminded to try it one day. 

Enjoy life

Warming the Bed
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if you want to suck another man why do you consider yourself straight..

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Also how long can you be Bi-Curios, if you have done it once then for sure you will know if you are Bi or not Bi :-)

Sexlightened
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i know what you mean.  i think the term you're looking for might be bi willing? or oraly bi. i dont know. bu yes, those experiences are great, especially is wify is into it.

Warming the Bed
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labels in sexuality is a very fluid subject. I've met straight men who will let you suck their cocks and fuck them, but won't reciprocate because "That's just gay" So long as he sees himself as straight that's the way he is. I myself call myself gay, but on the odd occasion I will have a 3some with a guy and his wife. Am I to term myself Bisexual or a new term I heard the other day a Bi-Curious Gay Man? Hell no, I'm gay because I see myself that way.

Before you people judge, take a good long hard look at yourselves and remember to be "Open-minded" Dirty minds and closed minds are mutually exclusive.

Master of Sex
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I gave myself a lot of labels while sexually active from Bi-sexual to Pan-sexual to Nowaday`s A-sexual.... BUT if one really sit and think about it does one really NEED a label? I think hunguncutdad says it really well. One is who you yourself see yourself as and of course how you feel about yourself. 

I also like LustfullSA`s wife motto...Try everything at least twice before deciding if you like it or not....It used to work for me.

Orgasminator
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I am not bi, but love lots of sex in differant formats

Tried the whole range and only oral sex remained

Sexlightened
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We a open minded couple, I enjoy a bloke with large equipment servicing me, enjoy both giving and receiving oral.

My Mrs is totally turned on watching to the point she actually drips...... and then joins in with us, eventually I sit back and watch her fuck the living daylights out of the bloke allowing use of 3 holes...........

We fortunate in mutually enjoying each others pleasures, but sadly this site has many time wasters and pretenders which is annoying.

Warming the Bed
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Happy 2020 everyone and my two cents...

Guys don’t know just how much fun a full bi threesome can be. The site allowed me to explore this side of me and can say while I am bi I am fussy and don’t just hook up with guys.

Such a pity finding bi couples whose requirements I meet is so difficult