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Warming the Bed
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How many str8 men secretly think about a bi experience. Even us we must pretend that we are str8. I prefer my wife and girls first, but sometime a hot mmf 3some is good. 

It is normal for woman to say I am bi or bi-curious and nobody will think wrong, but when men admit it, it is against the world. 

How do the women feel about bi men. Do they love it ir not. My wife love it and it turn her on. 

Warming the Bed
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if you straight and you thinking about a bi experience then you not straight 

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Thats not what I said

Master of Sex
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I already said this numerous times, why does one really need to label your sexual orientation?? I went from bi-sexual to pan-sexual....and now a-sexual.......but is it really needed? We tend to evolve as we grow older en experience more and more.

I have found that most of us when we are in a situation where we are enjoying some intimate playtime, we do not really care if someone touches us on places we do not like..TOUCHING and GRABBING MY HAIR and head is a big issue for me!!!  but I get grabbed by my hair often enough during sexual interludes....(or used to when I was still active) I would think men would also overlook some touch or stroke when actively enjoying something...with out loosing his *sh*t* about it....JUST as many profiles already said in every posting of the same nature.

I also found over time females are fickle...they like to say they are bi (anything from curious to actively) BUT once their hubby vocalizes their own interest in trying out anything with another guy....WELLLlllll...poor bloke gets blasted from here to who knows where. I have heard this personally far MORE than what I would like to mention. 

Goodness me, I always wonder if the females are so insecure about their own relationship with their hubby, that they forbid them to even try this and explore further?? to worry they will *loose* them to another male????  Now I know most men will choose a BJ from other gents, instead of a female,  they just do it better than what we as females does it.  Their touch and grips and swallow reflex is so much better than ours.  JUST the same as we ladies are better with other ladies really if you think about it. We just do what we like being done to us. Same.... Same thing really, and Yeah, ask any gay male who is into anal (not all gays do anal) penetrating anally is really more intense for males,  (that is why I always tried to keep up with my Kegal exercises).

Back to the topic asked... YES!!!!!!   I liked to watch Male ON Male....I liked to do peggings, I just like anyone who is open about their sexuality. 


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I am a bi bottom male.

Food for thought is roughly 60 percent replying to my adverts profile says they straight. 

Warming the Bed
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Quote by pussinboots1
I already said this numerous times, why does one really need to label your sexual orientation?? I went from bi-sexual to pan-sexual....and now a-sexual.......but is it really needed? We tend to evolve as we grow older en experience more and more.
I have found that most of us when we are in a situation where we are enjoying some intimate playtime, we do not really care if someone touches us on places we do not like..TOUCHING and GRABBING MY HAIR and head is a big issue for me!!!  but I get grabbed by my hair often enough during sexual interludes....(or used to when I was still active) I would think men would also overlook some touch or stroke when actively enjoying something...with out loosing his *sh*t* about it....JUST as many profiles already said in every posting of the same nature.
I also found over time females are fickle...they like to say they are bi (anything from curious to actively) BUT once their hubby vocalizes their own interest in trying out anything with another guy....WELLLlllll...poor bloke gets blasted from here to who knows where. I have heard this personally far MORE than what I would like to mention. 
Goodness me, I always wonder if the females are so insecure about their own relationship with their hubby, that they forbid them to even try this and explore further?? to worry they will *loose* them to another male????  Now I know most men will choose a BJ from other gents, instead of a female,  they just do it better than what we as females does it.  Their touch and grips and swallow reflex is so much better than ours.  JUST the same as we ladies are better with other ladies really if you think about it. We just do what we like being done to us. Same.... Same thing really, and Yeah, ask any gay male who is into anal (not all gays do anal) penetrating anally is really more intense for males,  (that is why I always tried to keep up with my Kegal exercises).
Back to the topic asked... YES!!!!!!   I liked to watch Male ON Male....I liked to do peggings, I just like anyone who is open about their sexuality. 


 Thank you. The same to my wife 

Sexlightened
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Personally have nothing against any sexual preference. Straight / bi or gay. If it's consensual and not forbidden by the countries laws - embrace it and go for it if it feels good to you. Who cares what anybody thinks. If the activities happen in the privacy of your home or an environment when such is encouraged - its nobodies business anyways. 

Mrs2 expressed her fantasies of seeing me engaging (not penetrative - just manual and oral) with a guy. So we have explored. Turns out the fantasy was better in her imagination than how it played out before her. So we don't explore it any longer.

But... I am inclined to agree with Haveusbc. If you find yourself fantasising about a bi experience with another male; by strict sociative definitions, you are not 100% straight. Perhaps mildly bi-comfortable is a better term of reference? 

Warming the Bed
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I'm predominantly gay but sometimes I'll see what I'd term a "handsome" woman and I'd think to myself, I wouldn't mind banging her. BTW, when I do get together with a lady, I tell them straight forward that I'm gay (pun in words huh). Boxes are for luggage and should be kept in the garage and not for putting people in. That aside all men know that we give far better blow jobs (climbing into a spare box) lol

Sexlightened
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if a girl says shes bi in RSA, she will be labeled, either as someone who doesn't know who or what she is, or people will automatically assume shes a swinger. i think that when you say you are bi, you would actually indulge a relationship with the same sex? not just having kinky fun? you know, feeling the same feelings for your man. same question regarding being bi for men? you are not gay if you touch or suck another guy, that makes you just more open to sexuality. now on the other hand, if you are a male and you are in love with another male and cant stand the female form, then yes you are gay. maybe the term we are looking for is bi willing? sure as hell not bi curious if you already did something bi, and you liked it. if you want to marry the same sex, that makes you gay or lesbian. me thinks.


sorry if i stepped on someones toes here, not my intentions, also looking for some clarity and different points of views.