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This is what is referred to as a Thread Hi-Jack...

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I have a new habit of trawling the gallery. Not much else to do on this site... Not for kicks, but to see the vast differences in body shapes, etc. Also as a form of searching without disappointment.
I have noticed something that scares me. I fear AIDS and all other STD's. Getting infected with HIV is by far the scariest of all the STD's known today. It is essentially a death sentence... And a "not so lekka" life while you still live. HIV and AIDS exists! Period! It is wide spread in S.A. 15 minutes of pleasure can destroy your life. I am scared of it!!! Do not want it to happen to me EVER! I have kids to raise and a death sentence is not welcome...
Intercourse without a condom is obviously nicer (sensation wise), but with one can also feel pretty good. I see many, many pics of mostly couples in the gallery where there is more than one males penis in or near the female - WITHOUT CONDOMS!! Are these mostly trusted playmates? Are they regular playmates? Were test results swopped before those pics were taken? Or were those people just not cared what could be lurking in the juices? Surely even trusted playmates are swinging with others too, so trust can not guarantee safety. I would never take the risk! I do not care how healthy and fit you look, or about the test results you show me - you could have contracted it after the test...
Scary thought!!

Quote by Stamina
I am a single male on this site but I am involved. As you said, mff is obviously the way to go for most guys and I have also dabbled with the idea of a male for my girl. Problem is that she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me). She will not want another with us as she is not into that.

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I am a single male on this site but I am involved. As you said, mff is obviously the way to go for most guys and I have also dabbled with the idea of a male for my girl. Problem is that she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me). She will not want another with us as she is not into that.

Quote by Stamina
I am a single male on this site but I am involved. As you said, mff is obviously the way to go for most guys and I have also dabbled with the idea of a male for my girl. Problem is that she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me). She will not want another with us as she is not into that.

Quote by Gregrrr
I was playing with a couple Saturday Night, and tried this technique, enjoyable but she didn't respond like on the video.
Still always good to learn new tricks thx
Greg

Quote by NickTan
Hi Guys,
I have been reading through the other threads and have a confession to make, seeing that everyone is so open, here we go:
When we have sex, the more my wife enjoys it the more I do, meaning I don't stop until I get the reaction from her I'm intending to. My wife is one of those lucky ladies that have 3 or more orgasms every time we have sex, I mean foreplay normally has her cumming already.
So what gets me off is seeing / feeling her get off, so I have been thinking of introducing another guy into the mix, a MMF session if you will. Now I know most guys fantasize about a MFF, and I do to, but I'm not against the other.
Here is my reasoning, how great would it be to fill her up from both sides, she might reach new heights in pleasure and loss complete control in the moment, and that will in fact give me great pleasure.
One of the greatest turn ons is seeing your other half in their normal day to day "mode", then when you are giving them immense pleasure watching them transform into a sex hungry nimph.
This is just my thoughts, if there is another couple out there who have considered or done the same thing, I would love to hear what experience you had etc.
PS: This is not an open invitation to all single guys to start contacting us, as always, we will contact you.
Nick

Quote by breedi
I've just watched this.
Wow.... Please let me know if anyone has been successful with this.
Is it real?

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@PussInBoots
Yes,I did once...I was curious.I selected a few profiles and sent the message.I got far too much replies which ranged with prices from R150 to R600!!?
I knew then that most of the profiles of single ladies are that of really!!!

Quote by Adonis
2 guys in their mid-twenties were sitting at a bar.
One of the guys says to his buddy, "Man you look tired."
The buddy says, "Dude I'm exhausted. My girlfriend and I have sex all the time. I just don't know what to do."
A fellow in his 40's sitting a couple of stools down had over-heard the conversation, looked over at the two young men and says, "Marry her. That'll put a stop to that shit!"

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I have however learned to accept that casual sex is reserved for the movies. In reality, you are not gonna get laid often by strangers! No offence to all the ladies here.. BUT... Girls are all talk! Love to say how sexually liberated they are but keep the forbidden fruit forbidden. Tell me I am wrong... In a way a good thing. I believe a man must court and work for it. You must impress the female of the species enough to get her to reveal the goods. It makes it worth the effort. Besides, a fun afternoon in the company of a beautiful lady can often be more fulfilling than sex with her. Although getting to touch and caress the soft smooth skin of a gorgeous girl is heavenly.

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I have however learned to accept that casual sex is reserved for the movies. In reality, you are not gonna get laid often by strangers! No offence to all the ladies here.. BUT... Girls are all talk! Love to say how sexually liberated they are but keep the forbidden fruit forbidden. Tell me I am wrong... In a way a good thing. I believe a man must court and work for it. You must impress the female of the species enough to get her to reveal the goods. It makes it worth the effort. Besides, a fun afternoon in the company of a beautiful lady can often be more fulfilling than sex with her. Although getting to touch and caress the soft smooth skin of a gorgeous girl is heavenly.

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This is actually very interesting and needs discussing. I too left the forums for a long period mainly because of the mud slinging. I was told that I should not get upset if someone disagrees with my opinion. When I defend that opinion because I KNOW what I am talking about, then I get told that I force my opinion on people. Passionately driving a point home is forcing an opinion. The main problem is that when people debate on here, they believe that they simply disagreeing with an opinion, but in reality, they are actually picking a fight. There are better ways to air your disagreement than personal attacks or references to things in ones profile.
Calling someone a hypocrite may sound like a constructive criticism, but it is actually a straight forward insult! Many on here can chose there comments more wisely. Still disagree, just word it a little better to soften the blow. We are who we are and we will change for nobody. Think twice before you tell someone they are arrogant or egotistical or hypocritical or dishonest... Words piss people off and they will defend themselves. Debates turn into arguments because people do not choose their words wisely.
Most of us do not really know each other well enough to make the assumptions we do. We are judging each other and forming a mental picture and yet we have never had a face to face conversation. Everyone is brave behind a keyboard - out of range. But put us all in the same room? Conversation will be very different. I would easily admit to misjudging most of you based on what I read, and I would easily drop some in a second if they said some of the things to my face that they write here. So basically, we assume we have a right to form an opinion of someone before we have met them.
Would go alot better if people ignore a post that do not agree with, rather move to one that you can converse about. I do that. I am guilty of sarcastically replying to stupid posts like "anyone up for giving me a blow job in a mall parking lot today". I do it because I find entertainment in it. I do not start arguments with people who post something that I disagree with. I do however continue an argument of someone replies with rejection of one of my posts in an antagonistic way.
Here is some advice for those that like to debate: If you do not like what someone has to say, don't listen!
To end: Be sure of your facts before disagree with someone... Never take a knife to a gun fight!

Quote by Adonis
I am on the Australia site of SH and the site rules are there the same as the South Africa site, and assure you what happens here also happens there the same problems

Quote by Woody
To be honest i would have laughed it off
Public degrading ! I think that is very harsh
And I don't really understand the bit My people Econ
And you went on talking aboult moderatoring is for free ect
And to be honest I am not sure why you would even say sorry as you can see by your comments you mean it .
By saying sorry I thought that would be more degrading .
But any way lets leave it like that I have a feeling our paths will cross again don't you ?

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No Adonis is right - "online" is ALL the people looking at the site, "logged in" are JUST MEMBERS logged into the site.
so "online" minus "logged on" equals "total unregistered guests"
90% of the site is completely viewable to non-members who don't have profiles and aren't logged into the site.
It's one of the things about the site that I have a REAL problem with.
Our discussions here are completely public.

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The only thing is.... I would miss my friends here

Quote by Pussinboots1
Eerrmmm as a Single Lady should I also reveal my *strike rate*????????

Quote by bricklay
Guys
Not sure what or where you went wrong, Ive made very good friends through the site, and have fun with couples and singles.
Anhow good luck

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@ stamina, you been proven wrong yet?

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Frustrated again with people on this site... But this time because of a couple (or maybe one of the two) confusing the hell out of me!
I contact a very new profile. A couple in an "open" relationship where either partner plays alone as well as together. Looking for just about anything. Even single guys! So I send a message complimenting the profile and the interesting write up. No rules, so a profile that has my attention. I state clearly how much I like the profile. I then get a wink back??? Funny reply but anyway. I send another message saying that a wink requests me to view the profile and say what I think... I did that in my first message. So I assumed the newbies do not know that a wink is an actual message with text involved.
I get a message back a few minutes later. "I would love to chat", and a cell number for . I log off, open my and send a message saying its me from the site. Next message is her telling me her name. I ask how her day is... Etc. Goes quiet. A few minutes later, I ask another polite question: When did you join SH?... Still quiet for another few minutes, then a message back: "Sorry babe, you not my type"... WTF??!! Two sentences after a greeting message was enough for her deduce that I am not her type? Why send me a cell number and ask to chat just to politely tell me f off?? What the hell do most people actually want here? Seriously, what are we here for specifically? To fuck each other, or fuck each other around?????
Some very strange people on this planet!! Bipolar much???

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SDMR, I have an opinion on most of the topics posted on these fora, but because my views are mostly controversial I tend to keep them to myself these days to avoid the vitriol of the replies from ppl who totally misunderstand me.
Posting an opinion is not an invitation for a flurry of head blows, mine are meant as putting an alternate concept out there for discussion and intellectual debate but alas......... :giveup::giveup:
So I just pop in for some light reading now and again.
Darn!, now I've broken my own rule

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Cherry QQ rules!!!! Bwa haaa ha haaaa!!!

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My father said a Chev my boy never a Ford

Quote by Stamina
How about I drive an Opel into a Toyota? And keep my Nissan... He he he...

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Since this is a site for generalists, I decided to generalise a bit myself...
The chance of meeting someone (couple or single) on this site is extremely slim. The chance of actually doing something of a sexual nature is even slimmer. There will be 20 people who disagree and give me all kinds of hogwash reasons (excuses) as to why that is and then there will be 100's that agree. For me (and a great many), this site is a meg eater! Daily logons with endless searches and countless messages that just lead to half a day wasted along 200 megs of expensive 3G data.
So I still logon everyday - for research purposes. Finding any kind of action here has now become a "prove myself wrong" endeavour. While doing this, I take note of what happens, and it is as follows...
Couples message me back 7 times out of 10. Females message me back 3 times out of 10. 2 of those 3 are rude and one will be friendly. As for the couples, they are more serious but nothing really comes from bouncing messages up and down. Couples over 30 seem more interested when chatting. Under 30's only send a single sentence at a time. You can sense the disinterestedness. Then the females and a few couples that blatantly ignore the message! They have read it as it is no longer highlighted in the sent folder and you can see that they viewed your profile. Perfectly fine if they are not interested but still would not kill them to answer a message. That way, we will not attempt to contact again in future.
It has become an uphill battle. Logon and hope to see that tiny little red block next to "inbox", which happens few and far between. When it does, it is a wink from a gay guy!! If it is a message from a female, you can be sure it is a scammer. If it is from a couple, then great but know that it will be just chatting for the next week and then go quiet. I really don't understand people. Why bother being on a site like this if you know you are not really going to take the plunge. For the serious ones with the long list of rules I say this. Sex is fun, it is best served spontaneously, add the rules to it: No under 35's, no single men, no married guys, no hairy guys, no small penises, same room only, no smokers, etc, etc, etc... Sex is now also governed by regulations. I know people have preferences but no need to have this strict criteria for something that should have no boundaries.
I have my standards and preferences. They are however not set in stone. I do not particularly have an attraction to fat girls, but I am open to it if the moment allows. I like Nissan, so now I should never drive a Toyota?
Anyway, just felt like rambling and complaining a bit. It all gets very frustrating sometimes. I just can not believe that even decent guys don't get any action on here. I will stay a member and always keep contact with the friends I made here... But the searching is over. The amount I spend on megs could hire 5 high class hookers a month!!! Lol!

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Am I the only one who has noticed the site getting quiet this year? People giving up maybe?