Ok, so seriously, I must say I mostly agree with what you have all said.
The problem is . . . . . . . . well, I guess we could all say what the problem is, according to us, and that's just the problem, we all expect everyone to see things exactly the way we do. . . . . . Da Life she no wooik lika dat.
For months we have been hoping for extra members in the forums, so that we can have more opinions, insights, blah blah blah, now we have a few new / newish people who have different ideas, albeit just because they have not figured out how this particular bunch of forumites function. Maybe once they take the time to see how the regular contributors function, they would see that we are actually a pretty normal bunch of people.
So on the home page it give the following:
Who's Where?
Total online428
Logged in276
Video chat84
What's the difference between on-line and logged in? Or am I just stupid?
And people think they are mature enough to be in the swinging lifestyle world . . . . . . . .
So, as I have said before, i have too much time on my hands, and that generally ends up with me noticing the most ridiculously insignificant things . . . .
take today for instance, at around 1PM, there were 13 members on line in the forum, and not one of them had anything to say about any of the topics . . . . ?:rascal:
That same community that preaches understanding, deserves exactly that from all other members, new or existing. If they say, NO SINGLE MALES, then that's what they want, respect it.
Contacting people who have made it clear they are looking for something other than what you are offering is looking for failure, forget about trying to change their views, rather consider changing your own.
The intention is a mix of things. Foremost being the pleasure and entertainment, learning, interacting, exchange of ideas and polishing life with more experiences, with views and ideas on various topics. Also, as a bonus, the compensation what we receive here is just a thrill.
I copied the above from another Site.
Perhaps it would be a good idea if we all remembered that everyone has a slightly different (however similar) view on different things, and if we took a breath we might just learn something. Instead we all make up our own minds about what someone means and we . . . . . .
Hi Nimfie_Pieman,
The point I was simply trying to make was the following:
This particular site offers a specific type of thing, so if it is not what one is looking for, then in fairness to oneself, joining this particular site is not the best choice one could make. It's like choosing Bank A over Bank B because maybe one day they will have the services that Bank B have.
If one finds themselves at some or other kind of crossroad about the "lifestyle" and sites, and one determines that, say for example, this is the best choice of site for them, then I would say, go for it, BUT, in your profile write-up include that fact. That way 98% of the members on the site would not call one a "fake" and in fact would treat one way better, resulting in way better results.
Also, can I encourage you to have a few conversation's with me before you go ahead and make statements like I have few reservations or limits or even to suggest that I am inflexible.
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