So, as I have said before, i have too much time on my hands, and that generally ends up with me noticing the most ridiculously insignificant things . . . .
take today for instance, at around 1PM, there were 13 members on line in the forum, and not one of them had anything to say about any of the topics . . . . ?:rascal:
That same community that preaches understanding, deserves exactly that from all other members, new or existing. If they say, NO SINGLE MALES, then that's what they want, respect it.
Contacting people who have made it clear they are looking for something other than what you are offering is looking for failure, forget about trying to change their views, rather consider changing your own.
The intention is a mix of things. Foremost being the pleasure and entertainment, learning, interacting, exchange of ideas and polishing life with more experiences, with views and ideas on various topics. Also, as a bonus, the compensation what we receive here is just a thrill.
I copied the above from another Site.
Perhaps it would be a good idea if we all remembered that everyone has a slightly different (however similar) view on different things, and if we took a breath we might just learn something. Instead we all make up our own minds about what someone means and we . . . . . .
Hi Nimfie_Pieman,
The point I was simply trying to make was the following:
This particular site offers a specific type of thing, so if it is not what one is looking for, then in fairness to oneself, joining this particular site is not the best choice one could make. It's like choosing Bank A over Bank B because maybe one day they will have the services that Bank B have.
If one finds themselves at some or other kind of crossroad about the "lifestyle" and sites, and one determines that, say for example, this is the best choice of site for them, then I would say, go for it, BUT, in your profile write-up include that fact. That way 98% of the members on the site would not call one a "fake" and in fact would treat one way better, resulting in way better results.
Also, can I encourage you to have a few conversation's with me before you go ahead and make statements like I have few reservations or limits or even to suggest that I am inflexible.
Moderators are doing this in an effort to help make the site more useful for themselves and for us. Maybe people should cut them a little slack.
Maybe your comments seem fine to you (and they probably do, otherwise you probably would nit have said them) but what if they were offensive to other members who then complained? Doesn't help all you do is blame the Moderator.
Like Adonis said, it's in our nature in this country to run down authority . . . . this is a free service to us all, the least we can do is abide by the sites rules, whether we agree with them or not.
[quote="spanky"]There are good mods on the site. I've seen them in the chat room during the weekdays, and I want to give them a shout out for being fair and above all - POLITE.
Interesting you bring up two things that are worthy of thought: authority and friends. The dude who decided to make a derogatory remark couldn't answer me when I asked him what he meant. Instead of owning his words, he kicked me from the room. His mates were patting him on the back and loving the fact that this mod had just puffed out his cyber chest to prove he's the alpha. Mod, please.
"With great power comes great responsibility." ~ Spiderman
Spanky,
You say the Mod's mates were patting him on the back and loving the fact he just puffed his chest . . . . . . now if you were just kicked from the room, I have to wonder how you are aware of this? Do you have another member telling you this info?
Now while I know this topic has been "forum'd" to death, I am bored and needed something to do, so I thought I would cut & paste the below info for people to read and maybe agree or disagree with, and maybe even add some to . . . . .
Some findings
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- If it's too thick, good head is rare
- A very thick penis is eventually accommodateable, but not for head.
- If it's too thin, she will not enjoy it
- If it's too long you'll have to be careful not to slam into her cervix.
- A longer penis is better for doggy style positions
- A longer penis will stimulate those first three inches more on one stroke than a shorter penis
- A longer penis is more difficult to ride for a long time (she can't come all the way down and this can tire her out)
- A shorter penis tends to slip out more often
- A shorter penis isn't ideal for doggy style positions
- A longer penis can more easily hit the G-spot, Deep spot, etc. A shorter penis may be able to do it by adjusting the position for deep entry
- Generally speaking, a bigger penis is softer than a smaller one
Every one will be quick to say "size does not matter" and I suppose if you yourself have come to terms with whatever size you happen to be, and simply get on with it, then you will probably not encounter too many unhappy women.
But the truth of it is that at the end of the day, size does matter.
Woman are just way more intelligent and mature when it comes to crux of it and they will be "happy" with whatever is on offer, as long as there is not a dick attached to the dick.
Look, if size really did not matter, why are most vibrators "large" ?
Athletic when a man says it = could loose a few pounds
Athletic when a woman says it = small breasts
Average 2 = slightly larger than desired
average = slightly smaller than desired
