Quote by Stamina
Who is shawn and sean?
Shawn may be sexier than me, but at least my name is spelled correctly..
What he means to say is, he is the one with no "action" from this site . . .
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Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR you give an Yes answer but to what do you give a Yes answer???? there is a few questions that you could have answered too!!!....so what are you in your own eyes???
And I NEVER COULD JUST GIVE A YES OR NO ANSWER....... although I have taken *NOTE* @ Stamina....
No to beauty or sexiness....................... Yes to ugly....
@PIB1, Stamina asked if we know if we are this or that, hence my answer was YES, I do know.
It's like you said, everyone has a different view on the same topic.
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Quote by Pussinboots1
I happen to have seen more of Shawn than most people here I think..... and BOY, is he HOT!!!!! I think he is VERY sexy and has ummfff!!!! He has the sexiest mouth EVER!!!!!
But then someone else whom who might have seen him as well might not agree!!!!.
thanks PIB. . . . . (the cheques in the mail)
Stamina my old friend . . . SUCK on that
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What I don't get is, how would a person decide that they wanted to experience something if they did not have a clue what it actually all about.
To me, if I heard or read about some kind of event and it sparked my interest, I would find out whatever I could about it to establish if it was something I was actually going to enjoy. So taking a swingers party as an example, if I had never been to one, and if I was interested in the concept, then step one would surely be to find out what a swingers party is all about.
Funny how so many people who are on this site, don't seem to understand the basics of swinging . .. or the basics of manners . . . or the basics of .. .. (yes, I know it is not only this site, but we are currently referencing this site)
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Quote by Stamina
As opinions and tastes vary, it is hard to know what is hot and what is not. One may like a Ferrari and another may think it is a hideous car...
How do you see yourself? Based on your own judgement looking in the mirror, various compliments (or lack there of) through your life, comparison to others, etc... Do you think (or know for a fact) that you are sexy, hot, ugly, handsome, beautiful, pretty, etc?
YES!!!!
Well done mate! That's how you answer question! Take note people.
Well, you asked a yes or no question and I simply gave a yes or no answer . . .
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Quote by Stamina
As opinions and tastes vary, it is hard to know what is hot and what is not. One may like a Ferrari and another may think it is a hideous car...
How do you see yourself? Based on your own judgement looking in the mirror, various compliments (or lack there of) through your life, comparison to others, etc... Do you think (or know for a fact) that you are sexy, hot, ugly, handsome, beautiful, pretty, etc?
YES!!!!
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Quote by Stamina
I'm a guy n love to see woman pics hey. I believe after all woman are the roses of it all.. Pitty our gallery has TOO many Dick pis! Ladies, upload upload upload
I am with you my friend! It's a sausage fest! I don't even want to look at my own anymore because of all the dick pics. Makes me laugh actually... Every guy thinks his will impress the ladies more than the other 900 she has to look at... He he he, like a dick pic is really going to increase their chances. Bwaaaa haaaaaa!! :twisted:
Gentlemen, Gentlemen, Gentlemen (and Stamina)
Simply filter. . . . . click on the tab in the gallery that says females, and PRESTO you have very few dick pictures . . . .
Have done so BUT... a) When viewing couple profiles, wala! Dick pics! b) If you filter, then you do not always get the "latest" as the tab says. I see female pics on page one that I saw a month ago, and I see female pics on page 15 that joined that day??? The gallery is actually pretty random but more accurately "latest" when you view without filtering.
Bottom line: Too many Dick pics! No normal person should be subjected to see that many penises! It's hazardous to ones health man!
"... And Stamina" Bwaaaa haaaaa haaa! You hit that nail on the head..
Your other options are:
a) get the fooook over it
b) learn to like looking at bigger than yours totties
c) don't frigging look at pictures and read stories
But I guess complaining is more likely to be the preferred route . . .
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Quote by Stamina
I'm a guy n love to see woman pics hey. I believe after all woman are the roses of it all.. Pitty our gallery has TOO many Dick pis! Ladies, upload upload upload
I am with you my friend! It's a sausage fest! I don't even want to look at my own anymore because of all the dick pics. Makes me laugh actually... Every guy thinks his will impress the ladies more than the other 900 she has to look at... He he he, like a dick pic is really going to increase their chances. Bwaaaa haaaaaa!! :twisted:
Gentlemen, Gentlemen, Gentlemen (and Stamina)
Simply filter. . . . . click on the tab in the gallery that says females, and PRESTO you have very few dick pictures . . . .
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Quote by KC_
lol PIB1, thanks! I lurk often, but more often then not, my point has already been made by someone else, or I have nothing to add to the conversation....
If only there was a LIKE button I could press on posts I enjoy, you would see how often I really am in here, reading everything....
Yes, we do catch up before play, but I try to keep that to a minimal, as time and energy is not always unlimited, and I would rather spend that time/energy giving and receiving pleasure than talking.... but that is just me. Normally, I am the one who just randomly starts undressing during the conversation to try get the ball rolling....
For us, most of the talking happens at the meet and greet. When we get to your home, it's time to get the clothes off and have fun.
I'm not saying this is what swinging is about for everyone, but it is our experience and expectations at this point in time
Thus far, we have not yet managed to connect with any couples from the site, only single males. *Shout out to our lovely playmate!* We have a few meets with couples lined up in the near future, we hope.... but couples are just as unreliable as others say singles are! We have only once been let down by a single, and often by couples!
;)
C
Please, let us not convince the powers that be to introduce a like button on this site, we would see countless new postings on the forums only to find out it was "like" . . (just being funny)
But it is indeed interesting to read the part about more couples letting you down than single members, I am sure a number of couples are going to be quick to attempt to correct you on this (even though they have zero idea what has happened to you) . . . . Oh, and Mike_Pta best make sure you reward accordingly . . . .
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Quote by Stamina
"...and the reason for this is true swingers do it for clean fun without complications.
Clean fun without complications is the best fun you can ever have"
Joyrider
Er.... Actually, from what I have seen during my time on this site and my futile attempts to slip into this lifestyle, swinging complicates something as simple as sex to a massive extent...
Anyone care to disagree?
And please let's not go down the road of "swinging is not about sex yada yada yada bla bla bla..."
Because I am sure that one does not live the lifestyle to invite other couples for dinner parties, swinging without the sex would be called "friendship".
This should be good . . . . . . . .
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Different people enjoy different things.
This is what makes us all individual. In the setting of, shall we say "swinging" my take is that the ground rules would have taken care of what is on and what is not. If anyone goes outside the lines of the ground rules, the amazing power of the words "NO" or "STOP" is all that is required. And in the event of them failing, there are enough other people present to make the words work. So when any person, is getting "ploughed" and they are not trying to stop it, then in all likely-hood they are on board with the activity. If they are not enjoying it, and are too scared to stop it, then it's .
Anyone who goes into a setting and then tries something that has not been "cleared" before hand, is inconsiderate.
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Quote by amethyst
I have seen profiles of coloured (as in not white)members on this site that also say "I / we do not cross the colour line" . . .but none of the white members are throwing their toys out the playpen about them . . . . .
Nobody makes a noise about people who say in their profiles "no under X age" . . . .
Nobody makes a noise about people who say in their profiles "do not contact if you don't have pics" . . .
If what a white person does is seen as racism, then surely when a non white person does it, it's exactly the same?
Statistics dude 5% of what you talking about happens. 95% of what im talking about happens. My point was that it seemed to be stemming from the female,
No dude, 100% of it happens, but only 5% is acknowledged.
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Quote by Jakes1980
Hi All
So my wife is extremely bi-curious and we talk about it a lot etc etc etc
But she is extremely nervous and scared about doing it/bringing another women in for a threesome. I guess the reason is the way she feels about her body.....yet she doesn't have a bad body at all. So what can I do or say to convince her? Any ideas or help will be gladly accepted.
Thanks
J
I would suggest that you take the focus off "convincing" her. The more you try and "convince" the more it is likely to feel to her that it's more about you than about her.
Let the process take it's course, maybe even consider letting her explore by herself first.
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Quote by redbruce
seems like there arent any people interested in dogging....sad sad day...LOL
Oh, but there are thousands of people interested in dogging . . . . only problem is they are all male . . .
@SDMR, so true, so true.... (unfortunately) :sad: But I would be VERY happy to be proven wrong!
If and when you are, don't forget my invite . .
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I have seen profiles of coloured (as in not white)members on this site that also say "I / we do not cross the colour line" . . .but none of the white members are throwing their toys out the playpen about them . . . . .
Nobody makes a noise about people who say in their profiles "no under X age" . . . .
Nobody makes a noise about people who say in their profiles "do not contact if you don't have pics" . . .
If what a white person does is seen as racism, then surely when a non white person does it, it's exactly the same?
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This is not a "Bobby on the Beat" situation.
This is Years and Years of non white South Africans living a very hard life, followed by Years and Years of white south Africans living a very hard life, all accentuated by the massive amount of race related movies available to watch these days. People will never get over themselves as long as there is no time given for "healing"
South Africans are simply rude people. On sites such as this one, every-time the rude members get a reaction, they feel a victory and want more . . . which is also a testament to the lack of maturity of the average South African.
The habit of South Africans of painting everyone with the same brush is just another way to deal with the fear of change.
And yes, before you think it, I AM SOUTH AFRICAN
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Quote by playcouple
Seem to recall a few of the energy drinks in the mid 90's having warnings to not mix with alcohol due to risks
There is very little fear of that these days, the energy drinks of today are more a cold-drink with a bit of Vit B and Caffeine, they are nothing like the original ones we could get.
People are too irresponsible so the control boards changed the standards . . .
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Quote by ShawnB
Hi all.
I have been very busy on the site for a while now and has had some positives but hell some negatives too. I feel ever so much that I have to apologise for being single. I know that there have been situations where forum members said they hate single guys, but that's been harsh generalisation. I'm increasingly getting the feeling that I have to defend myself for being single and have to ever so much justify myself for being on this site.
Are there any singles that feel, Se
No, and you do not have to apologise or justify or even defend yourself on this site.
The vast majority of the comments that you are referring to were made because there are unfortunately a large number of single profiles on here where the owner of the profile simply does not have any manners.
Best thing to do (in my opinion) is to be one of the few that are different. You know you are not one of the single guys that are being spoken about, so don't let it affect you when you read comments from people who have had unfortunate experiences with other single members.
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As far as the media & entertainment sectors are concerned, they run off money and are targeted at adults. But the whole world wants everyone to have freedom of expression etc etc etc . . . . kids and teenagers who see adults doing things (such as nudism) and are allowed to think it's ok for them to also do, are going to have a long hard transition into adult life when trying to understand how the vast majority of the world thinks and functions in society.
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Public sex or public displays of affection or simple public behaviour is a personal choice thing.
However,
As adults, whether we like it or not, we have a responsibility to consider others (just like we expect others to consider us) and children should be first in our consideration . . . . . .
what children see adults do, children will most likely think is acceptable behaviour . . .
maybe the first thought an adult should have is "how would I feel if my kids saw other adults doing this or that?"
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@Amethyst, don't let them upset you and stop you with your contributions.
I copied this from a previous post:
Africa = 16cm (Black guys being bigger in general is apparently a myth according to some sites)??
Europe = 14cm (Apparently the cold)
America's (North and South) = 15cm
Asia = 10cm!!!!!!!! Really! (Have seen plenty Asian porn and yes, always 3 - 4inch piellies!
Rest of world = 13cm...
Think we should add:
Swinging Heaven Members = 27cm . . . . . all reports of willy size on this site go completely against any world averages available . . . .
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Quote by Flagg
To the couple of people here - let's liven up the forum without any negativity
What is your ultimate?
A ginger girl with long curly hair, pale skin, full breasts, pink nipples, full bush with beautiful prominent lips..
What is your desire?
Hey who cares what I want, let's share yours . . .
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Quote by Irish
SDMR - You made a personal reference in the "Anything Goes" Forum to a fellow forumite requesting they report me @Irish ( recently )
Request definition To request something means to formally ask for it
Suggest definition to mention (something) as a possible thing to be done, used, thought about, etc
Ironically I posted exactly the oppposite in a thread recently about you SDMR - a positive.
sarcasm definition. A form of irony in which apparent praise conceals another, scornful meaning.
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Quote by Pussinboots1
I was thinking about crossing the line....
And this is my thoughts on it.
I mostly grew up in a rough did move around much more than the average could pack up our house with in 5 hours and move and resettle in 5 relocated and moved around that much.
As a child I was also in a LOT of physical fights, and as kids go....we(my sisters and I) had to learn to fight our way out of many situations.
My eldest sister had it sorta easy, she was usually taller than the boys and other girls and just grabbed them held them at arms length and hit with in reach of the other culprits slams and fists.
My middle sister was one who fought dirty....she used her school bag...she would just suddenly swing her school bag and hit the person of his/her feet then proceed to slam them with the bag.
I was the coward of the three of us..I used my mouth where I could, but also had to DRAW A LINE....
I use to DRAW A LINE in the sand and dared anyone to step over it....if they did,I would let fly with my fists, yeah I got knocked around a lot....but I also got a lot of hits in.I still have prove of those fights, as I have little white scars on my knuckles where I usually only drew my very own blood on my hands slamming my knuckles into their teeth.
That is untill I learned that knocking boys in their nuts with my knee worked wonders.
See I can and have also DRAWN a LOT of lines in my time.
Oh well done PIB1 . . . Well done
