Quote by amethyst
Any brain shaggers on this site?
This is me raising my hand :jagsatwork:
I have always thought I was more about the mental than physical . . . . . but one never really knows, does one?
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Quote by playcouple
Seem to recall a few of the energy drinks in the mid 90's having warnings to not mix with alcohol due to risks
There is very little fear of that these days, the energy drinks of today are more a cold-drink with a bit of Vit B and Caffeine, they are nothing like the original ones we could get.
People are too irresponsible so the control boards changed the standards . . .
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Quote by ShawnB
Hi all.
I have been very busy on the site for a while now and has had some positives but hell some negatives too. I feel ever so much that I have to apologise for being single. I know that there have been situations where forum members said they hate single guys, but that's been harsh generalisation. I'm increasingly getting the feeling that I have to defend myself for being single and have to ever so much justify myself for being on this site.
Are there any singles that feel, Se
No, and you do not have to apologise or justify or even defend yourself on this site.
The vast majority of the comments that you are referring to were made because there are unfortunately a large number of single profiles on here where the owner of the profile simply does not have any manners.
Best thing to do (in my opinion) is to be one of the few that are different. You know you are not one of the single guys that are being spoken about, so don't let it affect you when you read comments from people who have had unfortunate experiences with other single members.
Sex God
As far as the media & entertainment sectors are concerned, they run off money and are targeted at adults. But the whole world wants everyone to have freedom of expression etc etc etc . . . . kids and teenagers who see adults doing things (such as nudism) and are allowed to think it's ok for them to also do, are going to have a long hard transition into adult life when trying to understand how the vast majority of the world thinks and functions in society.
Sex God
Public sex or public displays of affection or simple public behaviour is a personal choice thing.
However,
As adults, whether we like it or not, we have a responsibility to consider others (just like we expect others to consider us) and children should be first in our consideration . . . . . .
what children see adults do, children will most likely think is acceptable behaviour . . .
maybe the first thought an adult should have is "how would I feel if my kids saw other adults doing this or that?"
Sex God
@Amethyst, don't let them upset you and stop you with your contributions.
I copied this from a previous post:
Africa = 16cm (Black guys being bigger in general is apparently a myth according to some sites)??
Europe = 14cm (Apparently the cold)
America's (North and South) = 15cm
Asia = 10cm!!!!!!!! Really! (Have seen plenty Asian porn and yes, always 3 - 4inch piellies!
Rest of world = 13cm...
Think we should add:
Swinging Heaven Members = 27cm . . . . . all reports of willy size on this site go completely against any world averages available . . . . 
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Quote by Flagg
To the couple of people here - let's liven up the forum without any negativity
What is your ultimate?
A ginger girl with long curly hair, pale skin, full breasts, pink nipples, full bush with beautiful prominent lips..
What is your desire?
Hey who cares what I want, let's share yours . . .
Sex God
Quote by Irish
SDMR - You made a personal reference in the "Anything Goes" Forum to a fellow forumite requesting they report me @Irish ( recently )
Request definition To request something means to formally ask for it
Suggest definition to mention (something) as a possible thing to be done, used, thought about, etc
Ironically I posted exactly the oppposite in a thread recently about you SDMR - a positive.
sarcasm definition. A form of irony in which apparent praise conceals another, scornful meaning.
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Quote by Pussinboots1
I was thinking about crossing the line....
And this is my thoughts on it.
I mostly grew up in a rough did move around much more than the average could pack up our house with in 5 hours and move and resettle in 5 relocated and moved around that much.
As a child I was also in a LOT of physical fights, and as kids go....we(my sisters and I) had to learn to fight our way out of many situations.
My eldest sister had it sorta easy, she was usually taller than the boys and other girls and just grabbed them held them at arms length and hit with in reach of the other culprits slams and fists.
My middle sister was one who fought dirty....she used her school bag...she would just suddenly swing her school bag and hit the person of his/her feet then proceed to slam them with the bag.
I was the coward of the three of us..I used my mouth where I could, but also had to DRAW A LINE....
I use to DRAW A LINE in the sand and dared anyone to step over it....if they did,I would let fly with my fists, yeah I got knocked around a lot....but I also got a lot of hits in.I still have prove of those fights, as I have little white scars on my knuckles where I usually only drew my very own blood on my hands slamming my knuckles into their teeth.
That is untill I learned that knocking boys in their nuts with my knee worked wonders.
See I can and have also DRAWN a LOT of lines in my time.
Oh well done PIB1 . . . Well done
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Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR as a female, I just think (maybe not all males BUT most) males have it way to *lekker* and expect females to take all the responsibilities,and that is really the only reason I would not make it my responsibility to wear a condom, I think males should also be held accountable for safety!
@PIB1, I think you would find that most males are of exactly the same opinion . . . . . even when a lady has the condom available, it's still the male who has to wear it.
look, personally I have no issue being the one who needs to wear it, all I was trying to get at, is that there are alternatives out there for the people who have reactions, slipping, breaking etc etc
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Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR my good sir, YOU I am sure have NO Idea on how a female condoms looks like huh??? And I think , you never had to make use of one??
It is the MOST un becoming thing ever made !!!! I am sure it does the job of preventing pregnancies and STDs.
It is like a LARGE plastic bag you have to shove up your *whahoo*......and the ladies who tried it told me it SQUEAKS worse than an Old spring mattress bed when shagging.
Soooo from my side, I am NOT EVER going to ever use One!!! Nope not ever, EVERRrrrrrrrrrrrr.
@PIB1 . . . you would be surprised just how much I know about the female condom (and male one for that matter)
Anyway, your comment about preventing pregnancies and STD's . . . isn't that the whole point of using a condom?????????????
Sex God
Quote by joyrider
Okay here is now the following thing I think the Government should work on.
When it comes to condoms, a man can get them for free from some places and at some places they hand them out in public for free. Not just that there is so much pressure put on the men to use condoms.
Now I saw for the first time how the female condoms looks like yesterday. My question is the following. WHY is the female condoms also not given out to the women for free? Everyone says the women are the most responsible. so don't you think if the female condoms are given for free then 90% of the problems have been eliminated?
Joyrider
Just food for thought
In some provinces the government has to supply more female than male condoms.
Research that the government does around HIV etc has also revealed that some women even wear the condoms in fear of to protect themselves from disease and pregnancy.
Males moan (not all) about using condoms, now here in this forum after the suggestion is made that women could possibly use them, women moan about using condoms . . . . . .
Sex God
Quote by Amazon
We want separate profiles, as for me having a default partner, is an act that I had to take on here. What I did do is go and add my husbands details on my default partner. I hope that will look better.
So sdmr u are saying that, that is the first thing people will see..?? and not bother to read the essay ?? for now I can not change my status, it must be couple.
In your profile, you list your "partner" as a gay 94 year male. In the same profile you give the link to your partners profile which states he is a 54 year old straight male.
This alone is bound to result in people taking the piss out of your profile.
What I am saying is that when a member searches profiles, they generally search for something specific, be it a single male or female or a couple or or or, so if they search for a couple from your area and you come up, they will then look at both members to see if you fit into there search criteria, and when they see a 94 year old gay man, they will in all likely hood think the profile is a fake or some kind of joke and have some fun with it. Reading the essay is not likely to be something any of them would do with any kind of real intention of finding more out.
This is of course only my own opinion on the matter and people may well see things very differently when looking at your profile.
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Quote by Cara
Sorry katniss all I could find was this
Funny thing though is I think this stuff is actually for woman.
Thought no link where allowed in the Forums ......Different rules for different folks.....
@Mike_Pta, into the corner and 50 lashes with a wet noodle for you. How dare you try and help a fellow member with something that you personally cannot benefit from .. . . .
Sex God
While I do not have a specific opinion of the "female led relationship" I do want to agree with what you say about it being well suited in the lifestyle, not only from a cuckold viewpoint, but also seeing as the majority of people have the "lady rules" mindset.
I do however think that the vast majority of South African males would violently disagree with the concept of woman being in charge (well publicly anyway )
) Sex God
Just a thought, and I honestly don't know if I am even on the right track here, but if the male of the species has 'issues' wearing condoms, be it because of slipping or sensation or or or . . .. . . . wouldn't the female condom be of some benefit???????? surely in this day and age, it is not only the males responsibility to be 'responsible' . . .
Sex God
Quote by jtrdbn
Condoms usually slip off because they're not the right size. Try experimenting with different brands/types within brands/etc.
If you can get your hands on some Crown Skinless Skin condoms they will change your life :twisted:
So how about some direction as to which kind of retailer stocks this brand?
Sex God
It never seizes to amaze me how people are selective on public forums to their own end game . . . . . . .
Surely as a mature adult, when one responds to something, one should have the common sense to respond in it's entirety and not just be selective of what they respond to?
Perhaps I should forward a suggestion to the Site owners that they should add a tab in the forum list, something like "let's see who we can ridicule today" or maybe "I have no understanding about what is going on so I will just twist others words" . . or even "comments about being banned from the site" . . .
Sex God
As a male of the species, I suppose it's only fair to agree with what you say @Amazon, that most and not all men are cowards.
I obviously do not know what you mean exactly by cowards, but in all honesty, and in my own opinion, most men are some or other kind of ID10T.
I would add my voice to @PIB in saying that there are those who are not such a perfect example of what you have experienced, and encourage you to somehow learn to "filter out" these guys.
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Quote by Mike_Pta
Sorry katniss all I could find was this
Funny thing though is I think this stuff is actually for woman.
Mike_Pta, I personally think that hair removal products (not talking about razors) are intended for both male and females, but marketing the products is targeted at the ladies. Same as Shampoo / Conditioner, you very seldom see a guy being used in the marketing strategy (unless it's for dandruff) . . . . . .
Sex God
I think a survey should be conducted using Swing Heaven members.
If one looks up average penis size and the current topic (how long do you last) one finds there are numerous surveys with pretty much similar results as far as the survey averages go.
If one puts something on Swinging Heaven forum, the average of how long do you last, goes from the medically researched 2.5 - 5 mins to the Swinging Heaven Members 15mins - 2hours . . . . and the average penis size of 6" is more like 8.5" . . .
