I get super agro too but then I usually sort myself out. Mind you, I wonder if there is an effect or a build up of something
The emotional side of it I think I get (well I have experienced) I'm very curious about the physical side though . . . .
@Sofistikitty, my apologies for posting here when you made it clear your post was for females, but I do have a squirt related question to ask.
as it has been said, most woman can squirt. I have been in a situation more than once where the lady has squirted, and also where the lady could feel all the afore mentioned pressure build ups etc. (so I think I have kind of an idea) but never actually squirted. My question is, in the case of the lady getting right to the edge, but never actually going over it (ie: Squirting) what, if any, effect does this have on the ladies body? Physically.
We know for a male that if he gets to the point of orgasm and then doesn't, it often leads to some kind of physical discomfort, yet for ladies who don't orgasm, it is not a physical "issue" at all.
What about with "almost" squirting? Does anybody know?
What I don't get is, how would a person decide that they wanted to experience something if they did not have a clue what it actually all about.
To me, if I heard or read about some kind of event and it sparked my interest, I would find out whatever I could about it to establish if it was something I was actually going to enjoy. So taking a swingers party as an example, if I had never been to one, and if I was interested in the concept, then step one would surely be to find out what a swingers party is all about.
Funny how so many people who are on this site, don't seem to understand the basics of swinging . .. or the basics of manners . . . or the basics of .. .. (yes, I know it is not only this site, but we are currently referencing this site)
Assuming you are referring to Dogging . . . . It's unlikely.
Different people enjoy different things.
This is what makes us all individual. In the setting of, shall we say "swinging" my take is that the ground rules would have taken care of what is on and what is not. If anyone goes outside the lines of the ground rules, the amazing power of the words "NO" or "STOP" is all that is required. And in the event of them failing, there are enough other people present to make the words work. So when any person, is getting "ploughed" and they are not trying to stop it, then in all likely-hood they are on board with the activity. If they are not enjoying it, and are too scared to stop it, then it's .
Anyone who goes into a setting and then tries something that has not been "cleared" before hand, is inconsiderate.
I have seen profiles of coloured (as in not white)members on this site that also say "I / we do not cross the colour line" . . .but none of the white members are throwing their toys out the playpen about them . . . . .
Nobody makes a noise about people who say in their profiles "no under X age" . . . .
Nobody makes a noise about people who say in their profiles "do not contact if you don't have pics" . . .
If what a white person does is seen as racism, then surely when a non white person does it, it's exactly the same?
This is not a "Bobby on the Beat" situation.
This is Years and Years of non white South Africans living a very hard life, followed by Years and Years of white south Africans living a very hard life, all accentuated by the massive amount of race related movies available to watch these days. People will never get over themselves as long as there is no time given for "healing"
South Africans are simply rude people. On sites such as this one, every-time the rude members get a reaction, they feel a victory and want more . . . which is also a testament to the lack of maturity of the average South African.
The habit of South Africans of painting everyone with the same brush is just another way to deal with the fear of change.
And yes, before you think it, I AM SOUTH AFRICAN