Quote by amethyst
You say dont jump to corruption so quickly, as per the topic,how is this racism then?
because social responsibility (BEE) only benefits a specific ethnic demographic, and specifically excludes certain others
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Quote by amethyst
Sexual preference is not racism... B.E.E, affirmative action, employment equity, land redistribution, area name changes, free services paid for by the working class, RDP houses handed out like candy while we must pay for our houses, the current labour laws, etc, etc, etc.... Now that's racism!
Racism disguised as "righting the wrongs of the past".
Let me tell you a story: I was approached by the Police Training College in Benoni. They asked me to tender on a contract to modify 36 vehicles for training purposes. I filled in the documents and submitted my quotation. I was told that my quotation is the best out of 7 quotes. My work carries a great reputation. I am the only person in the country with knowledge and experience to undertake the work as it is a specialised trade and I do hold the bulk of the market in South Africa... Yet I was denied the contract as I was not level 7 BBE! That was the reason given.
I have a patent on my product and I have manufacturing and installing dual controls and hand controls in cars for 14 years. There are three people in the country that do this, the other two are backyard and a large percentage of my orders are me removing their systems and fitting mine. I get cars from all over the country and even from African countries. It truly is a specialised trade.
I was then contacted a month later by a man who repairs breaks in cars. He asked me to quote on fitting dual control systems in 36 vehicles for the S.A.P. As he was awarded a contract but has no clue how to manufacture and install these systems.. Guess what, he was a black man. I denied him my services obviously... Do not talk to me about racism!
It's on now... :twisted:
That is not racism it is corruption. There is a difference!!!!!
That is not corruption, that is the laws of this country, put in place to ensure the betterment of a specific race. That is racism, does not matter how you look at it, it's racist. And this is all done in the name of "equality" . . .
recently a guy was caught by two mini bus taxi drivers (here where I live) trying to steal a Mercedes from a parking lot. When they asked him what he was doing he simply said "I am stealing a white persons car, what is your problem?" nonetheless, the two taxi drivers kicked the crap out of him and handed him over to the police, but there is yet another example of just exactly who is racist in this rainbow nation of ours. Let me know if you would like me to forward the newspaper clipping about this incident.
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Quote by amethyst
It's simple and I state fact, this issue is more prevalent in South african society in general due to our past, compared to other countries in the world..
This countries past was not my fault, it was not my children's fault, hell, it was not even my parents fault. So why then I ask you, are we having to pay the price for "correcting" the past?
If the good people of SA really want equality, then things have to be equal.
The past will never heal, when the present is continuously reminding us of the past in the manner in which it does.
And I think if one spent a little time in history lessons, one would discover that there are many countries who have worse histories than ours, who have made way more progress than we have.
At the moment, "Racism Sells" that is way you cannot even read the international SPORTS news without something in it being about racism.
There are people who have no issue with interracial encounters, look for them instead of trying to change the views of those who choose not to.
Disclaimer: These are MY views, based on MY experiences.
You were never blamed @sdmr. I can go into a long debate with you but I see it as fruitless. I think that's part of the problem, is this narrow minded approach. I'm actually a bit surprised at your age because your reasoning, which depicts a level of intellect is not becoming of somebody your age.
Firstly, you have no knowledge what-soever of what I have personally experienced. My age make me old enough to have lived during a portion of the unpleasant past, I happen to be part of the statistics of this countries past.
Secondly, you have just done what most others do when one does do not conform to their views - - - - insulted me.
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Quote by Pussinboots1
Oiiiiiiii @ Stamina........you Mister is ready to get some of my CP I love using my bare hands for that.....and it will be for
Saying something awful as what you just did!!!
This IS how I will do it....you lying,( pants down to your feet), over my lap...your still soft cock resting on my closed pink bottom sticking up in the air while you balance yourself on the floor with both hands and your head down facing the floor.
I give an evil smile in anticipation.......
I start of with a soft teasing rub all over your bottom......with my whole hand
then tiiny little pinch between your rectum and your scrotum,
Then I bend forward and blow on your back....
Dare you look behind you, to see when I will start the spanking??
I push your head back down and then run my whole hand over both buttocks UNTILL
I see you relax...I lift my hand and give you sharp stinging
Spank.. Spank.... spank ....spank.......slaps,hurting my hand as I am hurting your bottom.
Then I bend forward and blow on the sting....
rubbing your back and keeping your head down....
Do YOU want more???
Say something like babies are STD/STI `s.......
I love giving Corporal Punishment!!!!
@PIB, you will just have to remember, poor old Stamina does not get any, so the moment you put him over your lap, he is going to make a mess . . . . best make sure you have a waterproof sheet on your legs first . . . .
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Quote by Stamina
It's on now... :twisted:
Nah, when you go against the grain, the thread gets closed.
I know, but the door swings both ways. Sometimes it is best to let the cat out of the bag. Misconceptions about racism and discrimination are a dime a dozen in this country!
When only half a story gets told, misconceptions will always remain.
Average people like you and I can say all we want about what we have experienced, people don't listen to what we say, they believe the newspapers and even more so, the movies these days. the movies that start out by saying "based on true events" and never "exact recreation of actual events" . . .
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Quote by amethyst
It's simple and I state fact, this issue is more prevalent in South african society in general due to our past, compared to other countries in the world..
This countries past was not my fault, it was not my children's fault, hell, it was not even my parents fault. So why then I ask you, are we having to pay the price for "correcting" the past?
If the good people of SA really want equality, then things have to be equal.
The past will never heal, when the present is continuously reminding us of the past in the manner in which it does.
And I think if one spent a little time in history lessons, one would discover that there are many countries who have worse histories than ours, who have made way more progress than we have.
At the moment, "Racism Sells" that is way you cannot even read the international SPORTS news without something in it being about racism.
There are people who have no issue with interracial encounters, look for them instead of trying to change the views of those who choose not to.
Disclaimer: These are MY views, based on MY experiences.
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People are not racist here, people are just simply racist.
And when, a let's say person of 'non colour' says they will not cross the colour line, they are not being racist, they are simply exercising their right to choose.
but in this country, you only have a right to choose if you are a person of colour.
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Quote by redbruce
I've had a wonderful time since I joined the site. I used to watch the site for a long time before I became a member, reading the stories and checking out the dogging opportunities - but always from a distance. After I registered a profile, I realised how much I had been missing out on by not being able to interact with people. I have met so many really nice people since being on here, some just for drinks and a chat (I love sharing experiences), some to watch at play, and some even to play with! I have also NEARLY met some equally lovely people (and she knows who she is!), and there are a few others where we are planning to meet and chat as soon as there is an opportunity.
My social circle has diversified and expanded, as has my life-experience! I've seen and done things in the past two and a half years that I really had no expectation of ever experiencing, have some wonderful memories, and I am living life to the full! Being on this site has been a really good experience for me!...
Mr. RedBruce my old friend,
It is wonderful to read your write-up about how succesful your time as a member on this site has been.
What would have made it perfect, was if we could have seen the look of disappointment and dejection on Stamina's face when he read this and realised that another male member was also enjoying immense success from this site . . :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
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Quote by kinky787
anyone in a similar situation? how did u handle it...
its all well n good to be a fantasy but when u n the actual situation gosh freaked out.
lets here from ppl in similar or inbox me and i'll relate the story and get some advise plz
They probably feel exactly the same way you do about it . .
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A large percentage of the couple life-stylers (on this site) have indicated that a threesome is one of their desired activities.
To do this, you need an odd number of people. The couple makes two and then depending on the said couples requirements, another male or female would make three. . (som).
The same life-stylers as referred to earlier, also very often state that they are not interested in married people playing alone . . . . . hence the "opportunity" for the single member on sites such as this one.
Of course, the same aforementioned life-stylers are the first to bitch and moan about the single members. The same as those who tick straight male (which means single) and then rant and rave because males are contacting them all the time . . .
Ok, I've said enough . . . well not really, I just have to go and get my daily quota of gallery browsing in . . .
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@jackd1112, I feel your frustration.
But just a thought, some of those we label as "fakers" often turn out to be "scared / cautious" often when these kinds of people join, they have every intention of actually getting involved in the so called lifestyle. They get a few messages from people who just do not have any manners (and there are hundreds on this site alone) and they start to re-think the whole thing. This then gets them the "label' of "faker" . . . much like the perception that ALL single males are "stinkers" . . . .
Those that are indeed fakers, well I cannot see the point of doing something like that, but yes, one does get them.
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Quote by Sofistikitty
My opinion or perspective from a single female...most "single" males on the site are indeed married men playing without the knowledge or permission of their wives. Usually they looking for easy and quick sex. Also I've been to parties where men were not limited, it was a disaster! I'm not saying all men , please don't get me wrong. Some men don't understand the concept of swinging, they mistreat women like me because we are on a sex site.
I would say that it's not because the women are on a sex site, I would say it is because that's the type of person he is. So no matter where or how he met with a women, chances are he would treat them exactly the same way.
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Quote by Stamina
Mechanical Engineer (Btech with honours). Sound Engineer (diploma). Structural Engineer (T6). Schedule 26 Red seal boiler maker (trade tested). Own an engineering firm. Professional hunter. Own a combat shooting club. Own a darts club (non profit). ...And just about anything else that puts cash in my pocket... Sex I do for free..
Yes, I studied my young life away...
@Stamina, if memory serves me correctly, you have spent a considerable amount of time telling us all in this here forum, that you were not getting any sex (at home does not count) . . . . so what the hell do you mean "sex I do for free" ????
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Quote by amethyst
So things have been really quiet around here. I have no more entertainment, so in order to engage the kind folk on here as the name suggests.
@SDMR going to remainhere is not an answer bro
Oh deary me, I am apparently a little transparent . . .
I don't do the December holiday thing, I get away at Easter and again in the middle of the year, both for about a week. The December rush doesn't work for me, and anyway everyone from whichever area you live in is at the same place you are.
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Quote by Stamina
I don't find "squirting" a turn on... It happens with K often (mostly cowgirl) and then I am drenched in salty fluids... and a wet couch or bed or kitchen counter or, or, or... Then I sometimes have to go down on her afterwards ( :sad: ) The things we do to please our partners...
So Stamina . . . how about a picture in the gallery of Cowgirl on the Kitchen counter then . . . . :doh::grin:
Will post it soon. Cowgirl was mostly on the nook section... Needless to say I replaced the postform tops with granite..
Only problem is now I have to have my back on that cold stone. :sad: ....and get wet!Heil oor naai . . . .
are you ever satisfied????? Sex God
Quote by Stamina
I don't find "squirting" a turn on... It happens with K often (mostly cowgirl) and then I am drenched in salty fluids... and a wet couch or bed or kitchen counter or, or, or... Then I sometimes have to go down on her afterwards ( :sad: ) The things we do to please our partners...
So Stamina . . . how about a picture in the gallery of Cowgirl on the Kitchen counter then . . . . :doh::grin:
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@Sofistikitty, my apologies for posting here when you made it clear your post was for females, but I do have a squirt related question to ask.
as it has been said, most woman can squirt. I have been in a situation more than once where the lady has squirted, and also where the lady could feel all the afore mentioned pressure build ups etc. (so I think I have kind of an idea) but never actually squirted. My question is, in the case of the lady getting right to the edge, but never actually going over it (ie: Squirting) what, if any, effect does this have on the ladies body? Physically.
We know for a male that if he gets to the point of orgasm and then doesn't, it often leads to some kind of physical discomfort, yet for ladies who don't orgasm, it is not a physical "issue" at all.
What about with "almost" squirting? Does anybody know?
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Quote by SDMR
Dear S & S (and I'm not sure who actually has the spelling right!
You guys are brilliant, and most entertaining!! Thank you for your contributions!
Stamina - vasbyt! All good things come to those who wait long enough! It's gotta happen - sometime....!!
Why thank you kind Sir,
BUT . . .
You should see the stuff we say to each other in PM's . . :twisted:
S (the correctly spelled one) I mean after all, by simply making a slight spelling mistake Sean can easily become Semen
Hey quick Stamina,
This is where you jump in and chirp that miss-spelling mine could be Shame . . . . oh wait, I already did that and now you can't . . . bugger . .
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Quote by redbruce
Dear S & S (and I'm not sure who actually has the spelling right!
You guys are brilliant, and most entertaining!! Thank you for your contributions!
Stamina - vasbyt! All good things come to those who wait long enough! It's gotta happen - sometime....!!
Why thank you kind Sir,
BUT . . .
You should see the stuff we say to each other in PM's . . :twisted:
S (the correctly spelled one) I mean after all, by simply making a slight spelling mistake Sean can easily become Semen
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Quote by Stamina
Let's be realistic... My messages are not at all the reason why there is no success. I do not "brag" in messages about the age gap, I simply state our ages. I believe it is of some importance. Besides, that should actually count in my favour... A 36 year old with a young hottie must have something to be able to land that... Bare in mind, she was 19 when I "landed" her... And she came after me, not the other way around... I would really think that it should be improving my chances.
As for "stalker" messages, also not really what I send in general, only to those that I have mailed previously. If I send a message to a profile and get no response, I move on... But I may come across that profile a month later and develop an interest again, remembering that I never got a reply, so I would send a message again and inform them that I may have mailed before...
Regardless, It is not the messages... It is the members! I stand by my opinion, most on here are not serious and will never do what they profess on their profiles. I also believe that the few that brag about a massive success rate are simply talking BS!
I bet you that there are no more than 10 couple profiles on here that have actually met a single lady for a threesome from the site. As polite as I am, every female that has at least responded on a message (1 out of 100) disappears when actual meets start to be arranged.
I am not doing anything wrong. I am polite, I am decent, I am respectful, I am good looking, etc. My girl is fun, bubbly, polite, classy, sexy, etc... What more could someone ask for? We are by far not the best profile on the site but I am sure we at least rank somewhere between way above average and the top...
I know I complain a lot, but seriously? 2 years membership here and nothing???
So sorry for the long explanation but what I say in my messages is not the problem...
Now he goes and gets all serious on me . . . . reminds me of the old "Chomp" advert . .
I loved that ad... The hippo one right?
Yip, now all we need is for that clever young man who calls himself Mike_Pta to put a picture up for us . ..
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Quote by Stamina
Let's be realistic... My messages are not at all the reason why there is no success. I do not "brag" in messages about the age gap, I simply state our ages. I believe it is of some importance. Besides, that should actually count in my favour... A 36 year old with a young hottie must have something to be able to land that... Bare in mind, she was 19 when I "landed" her... And she came after me, not the other way around... I would really think that it should be improving my chances.
As for "stalker" messages, also not really what I send in general, only to those that I have mailed previously. If I send a message to a profile and get no response, I move on... But I may come across that profile a month later and develop an interest again, remembering that I never got a reply, so I would send a message again and inform them that I may have mailed before...
Regardless, It is not the messages... It is the members! I stand by my opinion, most on here are not serious and will never do what they profess on their profiles. I also believe that the few that brag about a massive success rate are simply talking BS!
I bet you that there are no more than 10 couple profiles on here that have actually met a single lady for a threesome from the site. As polite as I am, every female that has at least responded on a message (1 out of 100) disappears when actual meets start to be arranged.
I am not doing anything wrong. I am polite, I am decent, I am respectful, I am good looking, etc. My girl is fun, bubbly, polite, classy, sexy, etc... What more could someone ask for? We are by far not the best profile on the site but I am sure we at least rank somewhere between way above average and the top...
I know I complain a lot, but seriously? 2 years membership here and nothing???
So sorry for the long explanation but what I say in my messages is not the problem...
Now he goes and gets all serious on me . . . . reminds me of the old "Chomp" advert . .
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Quote by Stamina
Er... can't argue with that. :sad:
Well not to worry young man, after this post, the amount of people looking at our profiles is bound to bring some success . . .
Exactly... I am the man with the plan...
Desperate times call for desperate measures.. he he he..
Why has the ravishing Lee not yet told us how she sees herself?? I personally would tickle that amazing bum of hers for hours - and that definitely puts her in the "sexy as hell" category!
Dude, all you have to do is tone down that 'Serial Stalker' write up you send the ladies . . . . . and stop bragging that your misses is 14 years your junior, makes you out to be a perverted old man . . . hey, now I have an idea .. :twisted:
