So you have finally mustered up enough courage to attend a swingers club/party but have heard so many negative things about them in the chat room. Spare me a few minutes of your reading time to provide you to make the most out of attending your very first club/party. Prepare yourself We all have certain rituals that we partake in to boost our self-esteem and confidence. Take your time to get ready before a swingers party...

There exists four seldomly used erogenous areas on a woman's body which produce similar sensations in a woman as touching her genitals. If used correctly before, during and after intercourse, they can cause a woman to experience a full body orgasm without sticking bony, uncomfortable and germ laden fingers into her innermost parts. These are: #1 The Neck The back of her neck, the spine that leads up to the coccyx, the mus...

From an evolutionary standpoint, sexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are. Our inherent urge to reproduce is constantly flowing through our veins and is vital to ensure the survival of our species as a whole. However, what was once a mechanism of conception is now more about recreation. Nowadays, sex is everywhere you turn. It’s in the way that we dress, the places we go and even the foods we eat. Sex has infiltrated...

A creampie is traditionally defined as ejaculation into a vagina during heterosexual penetrative sex. The term having originated from a literal pie filled with whipped cream, which is also filled with a white semi-liquid substance that drips or oozes out when cut into. For some people however, ejaculating into an anus during penetrative anal sex could also count as a creampie, and ejaculating into someone’s mouth or down...

A swingers party is a social gathering where attendees, often referred to as "swingers," engage in consensual sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. The swingers community follows a lifestyle that is based upon ethical non-monogamous behavior or swapping of partners, often within the context of such parties. There is however a difference between swinger parties, orgies, sex parties and swinger...

A gang bang occurs when a single individual, who is the central focus of sexual activity, engages in consexual sex acts with several other individuals, either at the same time, or in immediate succession of each other. Gang bangs are not limited to heterosexual persons and may take place with persons of all sexual orientations. The contents of this text shall, however, be limited to gang bangs that involve a woman perform...

Up until studies conducted in 2017, squirting was considered a myth and it was widely believed that persons who squirted simply passed urine when reaching orgasm. This idea was further supported because most people who squirted reported having felt a sensation very similar to an urge to pass urine right before squirting. The 2017 studies, in which 69% of participants expelled fluids from the vagina upon reaching orgasm, r...

Unlike other communities like the BDSM and kink communities who dedicate a lot of time talking about and educating their members about consent, the swinging community has, to date, not spent sufficient time talking about consent despite there being a very real need to educate people in, or entering the community about the importance of consent in swinging. Far too many people, both outside, entering and even in the swinge...

To begin, it is important to understand that men and women differ in their sexual response in that men's sexual desire and arousal is more driven by visual stimulation, whereas women's sexual desire and arousal relies more on emotional and environmental stimulation and for most women, emotional health and the quality of her sexual relationship hold greater value in her sexual satisfaction than the physical aspects of sex...

Swinging is a lifestyle choice in which both partners in a committed relationship agree, as a couple, for both partners to engage in extramarital intercourse and other sexual activities with other couples and/or individuals as a recreational or social activity. Partner-swapping, threesomes, group sex, gangbangs, cuckholding, hot-wifing etc. all form part of swinging activities. A full swap involves penetrative sex by a sw...

Dogging is a slang term referring to the performance or watching of sexual activities between two or more people in public or semi-public spaces, and is closely linked to voyeurism, exhibitionism and cuckholding. Popular areas for dogging include motor vehicles, either moving or parked at shopping mall and outdoor parking areas, parks, areas with lots of trees, rivers, dams and beaches, quiet roads, change/fitting rooms,...

Voyeurism can be defined a sexual interest in watching people involved in traditionally private behaviors such as dressing/undressing, bathing, showering, using the toilet, masturbating or having sex. According to various psychoanalytic theories, the human being is born with the need to look and enjoy with it. While most people have a tendency to look at sexually interesting scenes, some derive pleasure and sexual arousal...

Research has found that 26 percent of heterosexual women, 52 percent of heterosexual men, 42 percent of non-heterosexual women, and 66 percent of non-heterosexual men had fantasized about cuckolding / cuckqueaning. Over the years, the term cuckolding has evolved to mean something more along the lines of a fetish or kink in which a person ("the cuck") gets turned on by their partner having sex with someone else. In many sc...

THREESOME (ménage à trois) A threesome is a sexual act in which three people engage in explicit sexual behavior with each other simultaneously. It differs from “group sex,” which refers to sex acts involving four or more people. Participants in a threesome can be any combination of genders, sexes, and sexualities. The terms MMF refers to two men and one woman, and the term FFM refers to two women and one man. The specific...