LOLOLOL @ Andre, if that was a joke as to the list of questions, then i catch it. If there was nothing to catch then, as per Confucius, danger....................
Just out of interest, some of your comments alone would put us off meeting you at all, without looking at your profile.......
Paysites have the same ratio's as here, as do every swingers or hookup site that we have been on, and there are quite a few.
Ebnivry wrote:
What is a Racial line?
Does the so called racial line only count when the wives are browsing with their hubby's and when wifey disappears then the hubby's browse through the "Prohibited Profiles" on SH and send their fantacy comments, or maybe its that we want to try new things and write on our profiles " Whites only, We don't cross the racial line etc" just for our other swinging buddies not to look down on us. Come on guys being open minded is exactly that.
Ebnivry : what you asy above with regard hubby/wifey trawling and making comments when the other is away is true of some, but not everyone and is quite a childish opening comment.
You seem to confuse open minded with doing absolutely everything and anything without any regard to preferences, it also smacks of playground emotional bully tactics of the variety of 'if you like me you'll sleep with me'. If I prefer BBW's then surely I'm allowed to say that and turn away the non BBW's, or if I am only interested in slender blondes with purple highlights, the surely I can specify that?
Everyone here has the right to associate with whomever they wish and to not associate with whomsoever they wish and that is something that is lost on people who complain about the following 'we don't cross the colour line', couples that don't play with single guys, and people who don't play with people in relationships that are playing without their partners.........
Our post was excerpt from a stuy, our starting was that both had experiences with threesomes before we met, which we new when we got involved, both enjoyed it so decided to try it together. And here we are................................................
The majority of the people who participated in my studies reported enjoying their swinging experience. There was no difference between the levels of swinging satisfaction of men and women.
I also found that swingers are very happy in their marriages and have strong emotional bonds with their spouses, strong family units, and aren't looking for additional emotional connections or trying to replace the ones they currently have. Moreover, my respondents claim that their spouses are able to satisfy them sexually: Swinging to them is a way of adding spice and variety to the marriage itself, (some even referred to swing as a 'team sport,' or 'the couple that plays together remains together').
The above is from phsycologytoday, I totally agree with it
Stamina, as point of interest you have a good profile
From experience they get rude and obnoxious about it because so many just dont take a 'thanks but no thanks'. We have had very very insulting and sometimes even threatening replies from people when we have in a nice way told them that they are not what we are interested in, we are unlikely to bethe only ones who have been on the receiving end of someones tirade.
This comes up under so many topics on this forum.
Stamina, reality is that people can choose who and what they want to associate with and niether you nor anyone else has the right to attack them for it. Being here does not mean that women or couples are here to service you or anyone else when you snap your fingers, so if people say no single guys, just move on. As I've said a few times elsewhere why bother if it's going to waste everyone's time. There are a lot of couples here who do play with single men and women.
if you are newly married and already sniffing around it doesn't bode well for the future, each to his own and every story has two sides, but still
We actually did not do well on the pay sites at all, gave up on two well known ones after two years and meeting one or two people between them
