Maybe its time to name and shame those that can't behave, Were all here for fun but as always there are a few rotten apples. We like the flirting and eroticism, not crude and rude people. Our profile has so many rules and that's due to these rude and crude peeps.
Maybe were just picky, but if the 2nd comment in a chat is:
Do you want to fuck?
What are you wearing?
Describe your body? (We have a lot of public photos)
Is your pussy wet?
Do you swallow?
I want me to squit all over your tits.
Site admin maybe an option to block an profile from also viewing your profile?
I put this, and dot think Mike will kill me
MIKE_Site ModeratorJoined:11 Feb 2013Posts:109Location:Western CapeProfilePM
Hi hornylibra
You can block someone for contacting you in two ways, from mailing your profile and from whispering you in chat.
On you profile as follows:
Open a mail received from them as you would to read that mail.
At the bottom of the page under the message is an "Ignore" icon.
Select this icon to block any further mail from that user.
Whispers in the Chatroom:
Find the profile name form the members on line, then click on the name.
Three (3) box's will open under their name, in order from left to right been:
View Profile
Whisper
and Block - the icon has a bold X in the box.
Select the X block icon and that user will be blocked from whispering you.
You can also add users from whispering you in the chatroom by adding them to your settings page in your profile.
select setting on the left side of your homepage and then the chatroom tab at the top of the page.
Hi Guys.
Thanks Adonis for re-posting my post on blocking mail.
The name and shame issue has come up before and the simple answer is how do you stop it becoming a malicious tool used in spit because people didn't like your response or that you rejected them. We already receive reports from people, claiming others are fakes because after some chatting they don't want to meet or they break of communications. Its simply an unmanageable proposition.
I often hear people complain about the disrespect shown in mails and whispers, but very seldom see reports from them. Once again please folks, report the profile to us and copy and paste the chat into your report. By doing so we can see what was said and the context it was said in, (allowing us to be fair and impartial) we can also take action where appropriate.
If someone is talking to you like this, the chances are that they talking to others this way, and if no one is reporting them, well we as a community are allowing them to continue such behaviour with others. Blocking a person helps you with that one person and should always be your first line of defense, but if you report them you help others and in return they would be helping you by weeding out these people before they reach you.
There will always be those that feel they can behave as they please, but If we all become proactive we can send a very clear message that such behaviour will not be tolerated, and they can either shape-up or ship out.
And again, Please copy and past the entire messageto the report.
It's always the sexy couples with the great profiles that get the most shit. Just remember the proverbial needle is out there, but a name and shame system will just be a can of worms.
The only thing that works, block them or report them and hope a Mod with balls investigate your report or other wise its a waste of time
It's a tough one as many of the "single" profiles who you end up getting really offensive mail from or, as we have experienced at a crazy level, threats in chat, simply re-deploy as a new profile. Guess the no pics no additional info "may" be a tell tale? We certainly no longer respond or chat to ANYONE who has an incomplete profile, it just ends up wasting time and energy. In saying that, if you have a really well presented profile we will certainly take the time to check it out.
maybe it's time we all either accepted the way things are on sites like these, or maybe we should all just delete our profiles and find other ways to meet with like-minded people altogether.
This topic is actually wearing itself out already. This may put it to bed...
There are around 6billion people on the planet. Not all of them can be decent folk. Some are good, most are bad. Infact, human beings are actually a horrible species in general. Look at the things we do to our fellow man! We are worse than the animals. Having said that, there are good people, decent people - but the assholes far outweigh the nice ones.
The internet is a big place, really massive! If you want to truly learn how diverse our population is, the internet will teach you. Most people are two faced, they will come across as "nice" in person, but behind a computer monitor? That's a different story. Easy to be a dick when not speaking face to face. Facts are facts, not everybody can be nice or good...
My advice: Deal with it, accept it. I have posted many times about rude people on this site (yes, couples too!), and I have learned to move on... If I get a rude message or a rude reply to one of my messages, I simply give them the good old "FUCK YOU!!!" and move on to the next interesting profile.
wow you people get replies and you still moan about it.
i get no messages and NO replies. you people are very ungrateful :sad:
but i guess that is what makes the world go round ne
joyrider
just poking some fun
