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mydream
22 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 71
0 km · Western Cape
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Warming the Bed
To those girls having bad experiences with guys with bad hygiene - dont blame the penis... cut or not cut... its the owner who was of bad hygiene, not the penis.
So... to judge a guy on hygiene just by his cut status is completely wrong girls!!! You just made a wrong choice when going down on an unhygienic guy.!
So... what am i saying?
Make sure you both are clean and hygienic before engaging in fun and play... shower together... know his/her status ... and then enjoy each other. If you dont... you are on dangerous terrain.
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Lest describe some of the best games to get things going at a party.... to get clothes off participants equally.
Here is one - "spin the bottle"
Sit in circle and take a small empty bottle and let one start to turn it on the ground, spinning. The one towards which the bottle points must take off something. Then that person have a chance to spin the bottle...and quickly you have a lot of fun and people getting rid of clothes.
Have fun!
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There is a possible solution to your request.
Contact Marco and Zophia at the club and let them introduce you through the club or a party to possible contacts. Then you will experience it first hand and can make an easy choice. Its not so easy making friends here on the site alone. When you meet one to one, its a total different ball game/chemistry.
Good luck... they are out there... and you will find the right connections, dont give up yet.
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A night of fun and sex - it all started with a girl i met in a Southern Cape town.
We had dinner at a restaurant and she said she had a surprise for me after dinner...so dinner done...she said... lets drive. I had a bakkie at that stage...so here we go on the N2!
And then....she took her panty off and then reached over and unzipped me while driving on the N2 ... she said i had to find a cosy beach for us... it was about 22h00.
Unzipped, she started me with a bj...wow..how exciting! i could not concentrate on the road! and she got so excited herself that she (already without panty...and clever woman... had a skirt on) ... she climbed oven me and sat on me! now, who can drive when this is happening to you! (she was a slim woman of petite build) Luckily, the beach was near and i could stop.
Then we did it under the moonshine on the beach...in the open... only one or two cars in the parking lot but none on the beach.
So our evening progressed from the one beach to the other... wow... she was just amazing and did it in all styles and forms.
Then the ultimate one..... in Kaaimans Pass there is a view point...world renown... with a view over the railway bridge and the sea... it was about 23h30 and i parked in the middle of the view point (only a few parking spaces there) and she opened her door and lay on her back...bum outside... and i had to do her...as cars passed by and their lights were thrown over as as they passed... some hooted, some shouted a message but they could not stop as i blocked the entrance and it was illegal to stop on the curve in the road! hahhah that was fun and we had the fun of our lives!
There is nothing better than such an adventurous woman! Wish there were more around nowadays! eish
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PIB, you are absolutely correct!
Erotic fiction stories and a description of real events, give us a picture of how other see situations/fantasies we may have but never have the courage to live out or ask for.
If you read them here or elsewhere, it may just prove to you that you are not alone or the first to think about something you like. So... keep on writing guys and girls...and its real nice if its done in a proper way for all to enjoy.
May there be many more stories and comments.... you are for sure not the only one who wish/dream/fantasise about something or just share your experiences.
Enjoy!
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Hmmm, you guys make me think. My wife isnt interested in the swinging scene - BUT - twice now she was overwhelmed at two occasions when an attractive guy complemented her and really bowled her over! she admits they just tickled her fancy and maybe just too shy to make the mind leap.
I will have to explore this one further and maybe she may want something like this and i am just to happy to share her.
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Add a like button!
I am so glad that people share their feelings and ideas here.... as mostly one think you are alone...untill you realise...you are NOT alone and there are others just like you!
for example:
the first time i attended a swingers party.... i met people just like me, who like doing and seeing the same things happening, enjoying all things sexual
the first time a attended a sexpo - i didnt expect to see NORMAL people there, thought it would be weird... but it wasnt and i just saw normal people, young, old, slim, fat, tall, short, black and white...and many more...just ordinary people.
So...are we addicted to sex? noooooo! we are just acting normal, but slightly different to those that hide the fact that they love sex as well!
Anyway.... just enjoy it and have fun!
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There is something "electric" to flirting... when its mutual and happening. I remember two women especially:
The first one was a while ago at the Waterfront one evening, we were all standing around at a restaurant with load music from a band and people were dancing and chatting and having a lot of fun. Then there was this girl, or eyes locked and it was as if an electric shock went through my body... and she reacted with a lot of body language, touching her hair, smiling etc and then it happened that we passed each other (both having partners) and our hands touched - obviously both wanted to do it...and it was like an electric shock! wow....thats flirting!
Just last week, we were having sushi at a restaurant and this stunning women and her hubby came to sit near to us...again... our eyes locked and she smiled...and never stopped... it sent shivers down my spine... and when we left... she gave me a very special smile and goodbye look and whispered it without her hubby seeing it...wow... she was special, sexy and smart!
To flirt is the next best thing to real sex!
