The books of EL JAMES ,50 Shades of Grey is the reason I get funny mails these one can also maybe say interesting mails.
I get a lot of mail asking about Kink and wanting to know more about BDSM. I usually sent the people to go and Google MUCH easier than sitting explaining kink to people who does not really want to know about kink , but just trying to get to know me a little better.
But I also am getting more and more request for kinky play times due to the above from couples.
Cause I have now recently started asking if the request is due to the books or did something else *trigger* their interest in kink.
The answer always comes back to the BOOKS.
Made me go and buy the series and read it.
Okay so the lady did her homework or research and maybe even played a little. She writes a nice ROMANCE with some really hot scenes.
I don't think this is really about BDSM, maybe really a inkling of soft core BDSM but mostly its about the idea of KINK with some tying up and "high sensory" sexual experiences which *trigger* the ladies and gents to want to do the same with their lovers.
Sure,this is also a nice book to sort of introduce people to THINK about some other play methods.
I know I sent a few married men who is into KINK themselves,to go buy the books for their wife`s so they have a foot in the door to TALK ABOUT KINK, to be Able ask the wifey if she is interested in trying kinky plays,and where the wife maybe wants to try and Dominate the man in these kinky games.
I really had a hard time to start the first book and found it is more about a troubled man and young lady who is doing WHAT most women sometimes try with their men......to CHANCE the men to be *better* men.
Like I said a three piece series of romance novel.
After I finished the first book the second and third was sort of boring really but I could read it faster.
BUT I have read better erotic and way better BDSM books.
What people should really KNOW and be careful when they just jumping in trying to *replicating the books scenes*
Tying someone up and blindfolding them and to then play with riding crops on the genitals,spankings and such,can be DANGEROUS IF you do NOT do your research well and learn a little anatomy of a human body so you can know where to spank and tie someone and where to place the knots and when to REMOVE the ropes should there be any blood flow problems to the limbs you tied up.
Know a little about phobias INCASE someone has a phobia being tied up and gagged...
How hard to hit someone how and WHERE to spank someone sensually.
I can not express the importance of doing YOUR homework guys....GO Google and learn about kink and the things you want to try,before requesting a STRANGER to tie up your wife and do KINKY things to her.
Just because that Stranger says he or she is a TOP or Dominant in Kink/BDSM it is NOT always true.,and that person can maybe harm you guys more than what is needed.
A person who ask certain questions ,what you may think irrelevant to this sort of play, THAT person needs those answers to KEEP YOU and YOUR spouse of course him/herself.
Do not just assume any person who is really a Dommina or Dom is willing to play with if you think it is all about sex...IT IS NOT!!!!!
BE CAREFULL out there WHO YOU ASK TO PLAY WITH.
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Warming the Bed
Hmm... maybe not so many into this subject.... or still reading "50 Shades of Grey" trilogy
lol
Warming the Bed
Hmmm..... im getting into Mr Grey...and looking for Anastasia Steele!
Very interesting!
