Joyrider
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joyrider
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 53
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 53
0 km · KwaZulu Natal
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What is it with people lately? They make first contact with a person by making the first move and then when a person wants to start chatting they get very short off with their way of chat. Now i am wondering why? Is it because when they start surfing the site, they get all hot and horny and when they get a reply a day later on their mail they get one hell of a fright and because they are not feeling anymore, hot and horny. They react in a very defensive way and expect a person to try and convince them to chat to take it to the next level.
Is this right or wrong?
Joyrider
Lost sometimes in the translation 
Well i am no vampire so i don't drink bloody merry. But i can tell you after dipping the fishing rod into the red sea sometimes. Can cause some tenderness after wards, But what i can say is the day before or a few hours before the red sea opens its gates the sex is unbelievable it is as if the ladies orgasms are a lot stronger and more intense.
Joyrider
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hi there everyone
You know this women's day thing is just not right!! Women get mothers day just like men get fathers day. Where is this thing called equal rights for men and women. It should only be fair that there should be a mans day to. I mean women always complain they take a lot of crap from men, but we men take just as must crap from women. Example it is well known that men die before women and why is that? We take the most crap. That is why!! So it would only be fair to give men a mans day too
Joyrider
Just sturing the pot again :lol:
Joyrider
Just sturing the pot again :lol: PIM I bought 1 of those pumps some time ago and landed up throwing the thing away as I could not use it. My dick could not fit in the tube :lol: so what a waist for me. I even tried the swimming pools creepy pipe in the pool. When I am soft then I fit in but once hard then I cannot even get it in there.
Joyrider
Been big sometimes mean a person cannot play with small toys :lol: :lol:
:lol: so what a waist for me. I even tried the swimming pools creepy pipe in the pool. When I am soft then I fit in but once hard then I cannot even get it in there.
Joyrider
Been big sometimes mean a person cannot play with small toys :lol: :lol: Well some people think it is the end of the world to send a face pic, but a person must respect other peoples ideas and excuses, may it be lam some times! But it general some people do not put or send their face pic's because of their line of work. We our self's meet a love cpl in Dec and they did not put any face pic's no the system because one was a cop and the other a .... well let me not same just now people put 1 and 1 together. Let me just say for a cop it can course major problems and for the other person just as must problems. So for some people not to send face pic's a person MUST understand or try and understand.
Joyrider
You must tolerant the good and the bad
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I am sorry that people say this it is rude :sad: and uncalled for and uneducated. A person can rather use an excuse like they have to much on their plat at the moment maybe next time. DO NOT BE RUDE it is not nice :sad:
Joyrider
Trying to play nice
You are to dark in complection and your hair not long enough. Please contact us the day you are white'
lol. I rest my case
Miucha and Prada
I am sorry that people say this it is rude :sad: and uncalled for and uneducated. A person can rather use an excuse like they have to much on their plat at the moment maybe next time. DO NOT BE RUDE it is not nice :sad:
Joyrider
Trying to play nice
Quote by Pussinboots1
I just read a very interesting article on *Lovers Blog - Package Your Passion* just google it....about Michael Douglas and throat cancer.......
Apparently IT IS TRUE you can get throat cancer from cunnilingus!!!!!!
Today I have learned something new!!!!!!
Thank you ME LADY for clearing my name
Joyrider
Not always talking ''kak'' like someone said
" gloves and mouth dams and cling foil on strange ladies and men."
PIB. Again you have given sound advice and I have nothing to add to the advice, but I now have a question. I quoted something you said please elaborate what you mean by using "gloves and mouth dams and cling foil on strange ladies and men."
Sorry to ask this but EK IS NOG DOM when you speak about gloves. Is it the garden glove or surgical gloves and for what does a person use them and when?
Joyrider
Got lost in the instruction in how and when :lol:
:lol: Quote by LeeEC
I think I have figured out what THIS problem is that some of our dear contributors are afflicted with....
This inability to allow other people the right to their own opinions.
DISCUSSION instead of just going around in circles with the same old kak.
Oops it seems I must leave the forum then life will be better
Joyrider
Good Bye
Well the above statement is true. But I think it is more like 85% and not 25% Look at the following reasons.
How many ladies say in a conversation ''the next time they will look for a RICH MAN to look after them.'' Or the young girls say "I want a man that has a lot of money" And look at the age difference between the men and the women. The man in most cases is older than the lady and the reason why is not because he has more brains. It is because he is more financial independent and her can spoil her like she wants!
This is facts. Try and prove me wrong :lol:
Joyrider
Money makes the world go round :twisted: :twisted:
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Joyrider
Money makes the world go round :twisted: :twisted: My point of view of clubs :sad:
When we started in the lifestyle we went to clubs to see what it is all about and this is a our view of clubs.
We went to clubs 509, a place near Bronkhorstspruit, club near Walkerville, 2 different clubs in Pretoria and we came to the conclusion that the clubs have people who have formed clicks and outsiders (new people) are not welcome. That is the feeling we got from all the clubs. At the one club there was a cpl with a single lady. Well the impression that we got is that the single lady was trying to take all the action and attention away from the wife and it looked as if the wife was the third wheel in the fun that was taking place.
So for us we don't like the club seen. We prefer private encounters with cpl's and then no one feel's like a third wheel. And with the right cpl it is really great :twisted:
Joyrider
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''Talk before and after each meet to ensure that everyone is still OK, do this for at least the first 3 meets. ''
I have quoted this part in what you have said. Please do NOT under estimate the communication side of swinging especially when you start off in the life style. For example my wife and I do not kiss the other people during fun. Example a thing like that can course a big thing and ALWAYS have a safety word so that your partner knows something is wrong and the play must stop. By doing this the other partner will feel safe and secure in the relationship.
Joyrider
Always willing to help :twisted:
Well I did start to listen to RSG yesterday the 05/06/13 but whenI turned the radio on at about 13h00 as that is the new hours and I heard some bad news. News that is going to kill me and just about everyone else. It has now been confirmed that oral sex can course throat cancer. Same place in America has said it is not just smoking and drinking that courses throat cancer ( lucky I don't smoke). But most ladies carry some or other germ in their p.....y which can coarse throat cancer in men. :sad: :sad: They say the ladies carry the germ in their curvic. they don't have to have curvic cancer them self's, but that is where the germ breeds and wait to kill a man
Joyrider
The saying goes "You can't live with them and you can't live without them''
But dam must they also try and kill us men?? :lol: :lol:
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