In all honesty there are men that last that long, does stopping to change positions or change to oral count?. Personally I don't have sex in steps eg. kissing, touching, licking then penetration, orgasm and done. And also guys I've been with have orgasmed then just took off the condom put on new one and carries on. So maybe the statistics were done on men that don't have stamina? Lol? Maybe.
Lol not wild, but insatiable! So get your game face on haha
Actual intercourse inbetween 20min-hour. Depending on mood, but the whole thing including foreplay etc lol looooong.
Say stamina, maybe we should hook up haha
I've always wondered how a persons body size would affect their sex lives. Example: I always wondered and ask guys if it different being with a bigger chick. Anyway, I use to be a bit bigger than I am at the moment. I've worked hard and now am showing results, this is what I have noticed.
When I was a bit bigger, people would move out of my way, maybe I looked scary, I don't know. Also promoters from Virgin active and other gym companies would always approach me in mall, public places. Taxi drivers were not really keen on having me sit in front next to them(because of gear lever attached to steering) people on bus also don't like sitting next to a big person on 2seater(one of us literally slip off seat when bus takes turn).
When it comes to sex some guys look like they have no idea on how to touch, where to start. I had to pretend that I don't like being on top because I was worried I'm crushing guy lol. Also just couldn't do many positions, probably because I was unfit.
So now I'm still a big chick(proud of it) I feel lighter, look better and have more confidence. I don't get stopped by the exercise freaks anymore-maybe cos I look fitter. People seem nicer, not scared of me anymore. They even think I'm adorable lol Wtf. Taxi drivers flirt lol bus drivers let me on for free. When it comes to sex and the opposite sex, I get noticed a lot faster. Sex is way better, I am more flexible and guys don't fumble. I can do a lot more just I don't get tired lol and I am a proud bull rider haha. When I asked my guy if it was different he agreed and said it was awesome before now it's uber awesome lol. so was I right? There is a difference.
In end 2012 when I joined, a couple messaged me and we met for drinks. Instant chemistry, I was their first lol. We chat everyday and they have become great,close friends-in and out of the bedroom. We still friends, absolutely love being in their company. We can talk about anything lol and I mean anything.
I agree with PIB we are different. Okay , so I have a panty addiction. I have different types,prints and colours. I have cotton bum shorts(boylegs) for comfort time, training and sleeping. I love lace french cuts and see through or sheer tongas for when I'm feeling sexy. I have g-strings lacey and sheer type for jeans. And sometime nothing when I know my guy and I are going on a date or I tell him, just to drive him crazy while we out and he can't do anything about it hehe. I've never liked white briefs. I love red and black. Been told I have a nice bum so I guess because I don't wear other "show off" or revealing clothing, I can show off my panty lines lol or my panties to my guy.
PIB I'm a big chick and I get sexy panties, bras however are not as easy to get
Okay what I like in a very alive man...thighs, lovely biggish,sturdy thighs. And tall with broad shoulders. Preferably hulkish or nuscular or just bigger build. I also have a thing for neat hands(large if possible) I also love veins lol in hands and arms and a bit hairy, not too hairy. I like bald or shaven heads,but have had fun with full head of hair to. Examples of my type would be like superman clark kent(all of them), Vin Diesel, Magnum PI, The Rock,John Cena,Mr Kawaicouple and FWC(greek god lol)
Couple years ago, I was seeing a guy that told me he and his wife were swingers. He said they played seperately. But they have bfs and gfs. Then one day they asked that we get together unbeknownst to me that they were going dogging. I got the shock of my life, I had no knowledge or experience in the lifestyle. He must have seen I was uncomfy, so he took me home. Later I did my first mfm with them. Was weird but I got into it. Later on though I met another couple and that was awesome, way different-more erotic and sensual.
I'm a qualified chef aswell as a trained shiatsu masseus. I also can do hair(went for hair dressing course)
I play soft ball, if that counts?
Maybe some women feel it is wrong or women are different I supposem some men don't moan either. I personally find it impossible to keep quiet when it feels so good. How do people not moan lol? And its a turn on to hear u doing something rightm I feel awkward and inadequate if my name, "oh gawd" or "oh fuck" isn't moaned or screamed out. I love growls too hehe *wink, wink
I dont like or own any toys. Ive tried but ya just not for me. How do the metal balls work though? Does anyone know
Im in awe, i dont do winks but please can i be your friend lol. He really is a greek god hey? Trying to get him to let me take him for dinner and use him as the plate.
Ok let me wipe my mouth.
I noticed that when i change my profile pic same happens. But i noticed that when i put certain pics up, a certain type of guy/couples message me. Like pic of booty, then hungry lions desend. Legs pic: calmer, mature and suave men respond.
Now you know why i keep the leg pic up lol.
Ps. FWC call me lol *wink wink , nudge nudge
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My version is separating brights and darks, then putting it into the washing machine lol. Or my daughter falling asleep without a nappy then let loose on my lap hahaha ...
Does sex in the shower count?
Well in october 2012 when I joined this site, a guy messaged me and we moved it to email then what's app. We chatted on and off and in early 2013 we decided to meet for coffee. It was sort of a random decision, but when we saw each other for the first. Time it was like "ZING!!". After coffee we decided to hook up and thought it would just be a casual encounter. A year later we were dating. We broke up and now are back together. So I suppose its about chemistry, if people have that connection and that sort of attraction it'll happen dating site or not.
But yes the good all days of actually "earning a woman" and whooing her are missed. Then again if u match u match.
I suppose its just because its different and why not try something new? You'll either like it or you won't. But intimacy is totally different to mind blowing sex. Intimacy is about a bond and that intimate connection you have with a person. Mind blowing sex is just that, and I suppose you are attracted to who u are attracted to so what ever race if you find your self attracted or drawn to that person then do your thing. So if someone was blindfolded and it was mind blowing then hell it was worth your time!
From what I have heard there is a difference but hey maybe its just legend lol.
We often fear what we don't know. Don't knock it till you try it I say.
Been 9days, starting to have withdrawal symptoms lol bout to kill someone. This man better come back quick before i turn into hulk!
Dude u have no idea how intense the sex and orgasm is because of no fap. U know who and I are back together I swear its like I have an out of body experience lol.
So over the past couple of days I've been over thinking, I've been this new no fap (no masturbation, porn etc). Now one of the things I've realized is that I crave intimacy. I've always been a sexual person, sensual to- I often get compliments. Being single for these couple of months has been difficult anyway, before the site I've met guys online some I've met up with physically others I've known for years but only through cyberspace. They have helped and given me advice in hard times and kept me company(online) when I needed it. While I was with someone we would still chat but I made it known that I was dating and that I was true to my guy. After we split up I started noticing something, no matter how long how "close" I thought we (guys online) were, it all comes down to sex.
Since I've been "free" of sexual cravings and been trying to refrain all these guys have turned into sudden assholes. Were they always like this? They chat to me and ask what I'm doing and if I'm horny. When I tell them what I'm trying to do and that I actually need company with no sex or sex topics they suddenly get un comfy and tell me that they can't give me that or that I expect too much. One of these guys are married I've never initiated anything sexual with him but we've flirted. 3 I met when we were both single but they have gfs now. Before I was good enough to receive calls and chat all nite to no sexual behaviour. Now its like if I don't want to send pics or engage in "horny" banter I'm messed up. Making me feel like I'm less than.
Am I not good enough, was I before? Is that all I am to men. Not having baby batter on the brain really does clear your head. Think its time to spring clean my contact lists.
I am a very sexual person. Its been difficult but its super intense and so so much more when i get my release-it lasts much longer and its like because ive fasted i feel everything! Ive always had issues climaxing now lol well...hehe
So I've recently connected with an ex of mine. He and I have been apart a couple of months, when we met up again he seemed so much calmer and well centered. We've always had raw attraction and mad chemistry, its still intense but now even more deep and powerful. I was curious to find out what had changed. He told me he's become a fapronaut- I was like "what did u just call me " lol anyway he explained that he's now part of the no fap community. He's more focused and to me he's more aware of everything.
He's suggested I check it out so I did - Basically its men and women that have decided on no masturbating, no porn. And to either abstain completely from sex or to "release" with a significant other. From the site No Fap I have read testimonials etc. Seems that this no fap actually seems to work for them, bettering their relationships making them more focused.
Personally I've been fap free for 7days-its been hard lol excuse the pun. I like porn clips and videos and pics. I've abstained from masturbating and will do so (or at least try) then "release" when we together again. I often have insomnia and usually opt for a masturbation induced sleep lol. So I watch some erotic and sensual vids and get my fix. But now watch non sexual movies lol(little mermaid,monsters inc and tv series like CSI) to keep me occupied, you know idol hands. This past week I've started reading more,appreciating my garden and the sun. I have so many thoughts and ideas that I have to write them down. I find myself more clear minded lol and our relationship seems even better. Maybe its really working... wonder how long I can keep this up.
So I've recently connected with an ex of mine. He and I have been apart a couple of months, when we met up again he seemed so much calmer and well centered. We've always had raw attraction and mad chemistry, its still instense but now even more deep and powerful. I was curious to find out what had changed. He told me he's become a fapronaut- I was like "what did u just call me " lol anyway he explained that he's now part of the no fap community. He's more focused and to me he's more aware of everything.
He's suggested I check it out so I did - Basically its men and women that have decided on no masturbating, no porn. And to either abstain completely from sex or to "release" with a significant other. From the site No Fap I have read testimonials etc. Seems that this no fap actually seems to work for them, bettering their relationshipsm making them more focused.
Personally I've been fap free for 7days-its been hard lol excuse the pun. I like porn clips and videos and pics. I've abstained from masturbating and will do so (or atleast try) then "release" when we together again. I often have insomnia and usually opt for a masturbation induced sleep lol. So I watch some erotic and sensual vids and get my fix. But now watch non sexual movies lol(little mermaid,monsters inc and tv series like CSI) to keep me occupied, you know idol hands. This past week I've started reading more,appreciating my garden and the sun. I have so many thoughts and ideas that I have to write them down. I find myself more clear minded lol and our relationship seems even better. Maybe its really working... wonder how long I can keep this up.
A lady doesn't kiss n tell lol