May I answer and give advice from experience? When I was part of a couple, we also met a couple and the dude started getting forward. He started wanting to visit when partner was not home etc. He also started inappropriate chats and only chatted alone without his partner. So we told her well both of them that we were no longer interested in organizing a play date, we said why and deleted. So that they can sort out the trust issues.
Now that I'm single I've been on dates one dude lied about everything and what was crap about that was that he came to my place to pick me up for coffee. And because u sort of build a relationship with the person he knew a few personal details. Ends up he lied about age, name, marital status. There's some weirdos out there. Don't divulge too much, meet in public places or neutral areas.
So my advice is, its not the norm but shit happens. Tell his wife or chat to them together- no secrets. And don't f him up there's no sense in that, hand over the problem to his wife. If it persists then he is a stalker, call cops?
I am so feeling this article, its so fitting.
I talk in my sleep a lot lol and I also have sex in my sleep lol. Apparently I moan and move my body-embarrassing. But someone reckoned it was a turn on to see/hear. I'm not sure if I've even said anything incriminating though.
Thanks PIB mwah.
So true FWC, with my case its the other way around, the hubby wants to but the wife not so much. Once at Poizon I was approached by this awesome looking white dude(totally my taste) and well he flirted with me all night, begged me to have a drink with him and chased me around the club all nite. When we finally sat down he told me that I was so gorgeous and he wishes he could play with me ,but his wife came and told me that they don't do interracial lol. Pity.
I get prefferance but in my opinion u can't call yourself "open minded" then. I mean I'm more attracted to medium to dark of complexion guys but I've seen and met gorgeous fair skinned/white men to. Attraction is attraction. Maybe they scared they'll love it? Is there really that much difference in look/appearance or technique? Or is it a very touchy subject?
Do my profile pics deceive? Do I look white in my pics? Am I that fair in complexion lol? I've been getting a lot of invites,requests and messages from "we do not cross race barrier" guys and couples. My profile clearly says that I am of mixed descent. And they still want to get to know me even after I have told them. Sigh, told one dude that he should come over to the "dark side" lol pun intended-he might like it.
STAMINA! You back! Missed You dude.
I tried being a sub once...didn't work. I'm not submissive type.I kept getting punished for not obeying and asking why lol- But then again if someone like 50 shades came along "take me Sir!"
For a single woman its another story, I get stalked by couples! And my profile says that if I do not respond within 24hours, I'm not interested. Yet they keep sending friend requests winks,messages.
After sex some men experience instant feelings of regret and sadness this is known as post-coital tristesse.
The average speed of a man ejaculation is 28mph, but once in the vagina they slow down. It takes 5mins to travel through 6inch cervix and 72hours to reach an egg.
Women as early as 1850B.C attempted birth control. The most common used mixture was crocodile dung and honey placed into the vagina.
A one minute kiss can burn up to 26 calories and kissing can prevent tooth decay.
An orgasm can cure stage fright.
At this very moment about 5000 people are having sex around the world
A average man will have approximately 10 erections during sleep
Sex is 10 times more effective than valium.
Sex is a natural antihistamine.
Many ingredients that are in chocolate are proven to cause the same arousal as the effects of sexual foreplay
1-The Myths
There are many many myths about the infamous "O" and some are true and many are false. TRUTH: A climax can cut your risk of heart attacks in half, also can fight depression and anxiety. Read through the gallery for some real and important facts about the BIG O that everyone should know about.
2-Youth
TRUTH & FACT: Having a regular love life with your partner or significant other will help you preserve your youth and keep you looking younger for a longer period of time. These and all the other reasons we have learned in this gallery are enough to help us keep a healthy and youthful lifestyle with the ones we love and cherish.
3- Better life
TRUTH: Having an O on a regular occasion can make you have a better outlook on life, you will start seeing the glass as half full rather then half empty, and overall will become a more positive person with a greater energy and confidence about yourself.
4-Comparison
The difference between a woman's and man's climax is completely different. A woman can hold it, reverse it and stop it from happening while a man has a point of no return and once it has started, thats it. Women can actually do many more things when it comes to having an O that a man can't do, like multiples upon multiples.
5-Fights cancer
TRUTH: An O can help fight off cancer that is growing in your body and even prevent it from growing before it has begun. For overall health and happiness, the big O is a big helper
6-Health and wellness
A single O can burn more then 30 calories. Considering thats over 5 minutes on a treadmill, that reason alone is a good enough one to stay healthy and active with your love life.
7-Scent
TRUTH: The scent of a man's sweat can excite a woman, but this only occurs to women who are attracted to that man in the beginning, not a random man who they have no interest to. This fact dates back to the beginning of time before we had soap and conditioner, think about that one.
Lol oh my,thanks PIB I will definately look it up and read it. Sounds like my life lol can't wait for the oo la la bits.
Hope he's superman then, u know a woman can orgasm and still go on and on and on...guys unfortunately need recovery time. So say one guy 3 women=cryptonite hahaha
My ex was very in tune with his body, he use to orgasm(on the inside is how he explained it)atleast twice before he would orgasm and ejaculate. I use to get jealous lol.
I wish I could chat in the chat rooms to keep busy, but using my fone. I don't think I'm made for swinging anyway. But I do lurv u guys lol . Mike I'm so loving the pic dude!
So I think I've sort of got tired of all the messages and disappointing meets. Also the crappy feelings that go with everything and have come to the conclusion that I have had enough and ridden this wave as far as I can go. Is there a way to keep my profile dormant in case I want to come back? I'd like to stay on the site for the forums and people(friends) I've met on here, but don't want to get messages then be tempted to meet-any suggestions.
But I think I'm going to call it a day. If u do want to keep in contact with me in box me for my bbm or what's app or email, if u don't have it already.
I do stretches(mixed yoga and pilates) and self weight training at home atleast 5times a week. Have lost a lot of weight but that's including changing eating patterns etc. Also sex lol hectic, marathon, goes on for hours sex. Where your legs and arms hurt for a few days after. Love that feeling. No wonder my hearts healthy lol
Ok so I get why most men dig this position. So, what kind of movements/thrusting works best? Circles, back n forth, up n down, grinding , figure 8 or all of the above?
Not just swinging , in general. I'm sure other women can relate. Some positions are flattering other not so much. And sometimesit dampens the mood.
Ok so I am curious to know, why do most men like women to be on top. Is it the whole visual thing? Does it feel different or better when the woman is on top?
Personally I feel to selfconscious and over exposed to be on top. Being a big chick I worry about squashing the guy lol(that's why I prefer sturdy men lol) but still guy wants me on top and not even half dressed-fully NAKED. When I'm on top I always overthink "what if I'm moving wrong" always ask my guy "am I hurting u? U ok" kinda is a buzz kill lol.
Started using mine on a chat site couple years ago. Its a play one the words sophisticated and cat/kitty. It stuck so kept using it on what ever site I need an alias...meow
Honestly its always a nice surprise when a guy reveals a nice package...this could be large or average. I find that if a guys technique (slow gentle) is good then i dont have that much pain. The pain usually comes after the deed like lower adomen pains and sometimes a tear. But thats when we get carried away then again the more u do it the less it hurts. If a guy is large in length, different positions and ways a woman positions herself could help to- else you get your "furniture" rearranged lol.
Also its true what Amethyst said is that seduction and arousing a woman is the key.
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