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the difference between big and small or smaller

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I've always wondered how a persons body size would affect their sex lives. Example: I always wondered and ask guys if it different being with a bigger chick. Anyway, I use to be a bit bigger than I am at the moment. I've worked hard and now am showing results, this is what I have noticed. When I was a bit bigger, people would move out of my way, maybe I looked scary, I don't know. Also promoters from Virgin active and other gym companies would always approach me in mall, public places. Taxi drivers were not really keen on having me sit in front next to them(because of gear lever attached to steering) people on bus also don't like sitting next to a big person on 2seater(one of us literally slip off seat when bus takes turn). When it comes to sex some guys look like they have no idea on how to touch, where to start. I had to pretend that I don't like being on top because I was worried I'm crushing guy lol. Also just couldn't do many positions, probably because I was unfit. So now I'm still a big chick(proud of it) I feel lighter, look better and have more confidence. I don't get stopped by the exercise freaks anymore-maybe cos I look fitter. People seem nicer, not scared of me anymore. They even think I'm adorable lol Wtf. Taxi drivers flirt lol bus drivers let me on for free. When it comes to sex and the opposite sex, I get noticed a lot faster. Sex is way better, I am more flexible and guys don't fumble. I can do a lot more just I don't get tired lol and I am a proud bull rider haha. When I asked my guy if it was different he agreed and said it was awesome before now it's uber awesome lol. so was I right? There is a difference.
Congratulations on the slimmer YOU, Ms Sofistikitty. Being slimmer and more *fitter* is easy on anyone`s eye. People LOOK at you and notice shy away from you. So from my side Enjoy!! and maintain,which I know is not easy.
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I've always wondered how a persons body size would affect their sex lives. Example: I always wondered and ask guys if it different being with a bigger chick. Anyway, I use to be a bit bigger than I am at the moment. I've worked hard and now am showing results, this is what I have noticed.
When I was a bit bigger, people would move out of my way, maybe I looked scary, I don't know. Also promoters from Virgin active and other gym companies would always approach me in mall, public places. Taxi drivers were not really keen on having me sit in front next to them(because of gear lever attached to steering) people on bus also don't like sitting next to a big person on 2seater(one of us literally slip off seat when bus takes turn).
When it comes to sex some guys look like they have no idea on how to touch, where to start. I had to pretend that I don't like being on top because I was worried I'm crushing guy lol. Also just couldn't do many positions, probably because I was unfit.
So now I'm still a big chick(proud of it) I feel lighter, look better and have more confidence. I don't get stopped by the exercise freaks anymore-maybe cos I look fitter. People seem nicer, not scared of me anymore. They even think I'm adorable lol Wtf. Taxi drivers flirt lol bus drivers let me on for free. When it comes to sex and the opposite sex, I get noticed a lot faster. Sex is way better, I am more flexible and guys don't fumble. I can do a lot more just I don't get tired lol and I am a proud bull rider haha. When I asked my guy if it was different he agreed and said it was awesome before now it's uber awesome lol. so was I right? There is a difference.

I'm neither lol