Quote by Mike_Pta
I'm opening an adult/swingers venue with 2 business partners as well. Sex sells lol
Tickets to that please
Next one is the 22 November, will update u
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Tickets to that please
Next one is the 22 November, will update u
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Sofistikitty
Over 90 days ago
Straight Mixed Race
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Tickets to that please
Next one is the 22 November, will update u
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I'm opening an adult/swingers venue with 2 business partners as well. Sex sells lol
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Quote by Newswc
Hi Sofitskitty
Please keep us informed of your events.
We may not be ready to attend yet, but would like to be kept informed.
thanks
Nate and Faye
Guys add me as friend, I can't seem to do it. That way I can keep you updated
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Quote by amethyst
Stamina needs perfectly clean, washed sheets, with a matress protector.
He probably requires his woman to lie at an angle of 45degrees south west of co ordinates..........
He reminds me of Sheldon.
Sheldon?
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Quote by LeeEC
SDMR, I don't know about there not being any effect if a woman doesn't orgasm... Perhaps you don't see a physical effect but mentally and emotionally - no orgasm for 3 days and I start unpacking my Cruella outfits... I become a MEAN bitch without regular "doing"
No sex is one thing, but lots of sex and no orgasm that's just a recipe for disaster in my house...
I get super agro too but then I usually sort myself out. Mind you, I wonder if there is an effect or a build up of something
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Quote by KC_
@Softiskitty, like PIB1 said, not everyone can.
It really doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, the fact that you are now orgasming is fantastic!
Thank goodness there is more to sex than orgasms and squirting! I love the process of sex, the feelings of being stimulated, penetrated etc are all very pleasing on their own. Orgasms are great when they happen, but not a guarantee, nor are they expected...
;)
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I agree, especially with the right person. I could even just make out all night and that's just as fulfilling. The build up is awesome, when I orgasm its just the icing on the cake and a really good nights sleep haha
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Hell this is so embarrassing, u can't do it! Maybe there's something wrong with me. Maybe it will happen eventually like me orgasming. Couldn't before now lol I can't stop
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@amethyst it is a turn on for a women to see her guy enjoy her pleasure. Well for me anyway.
Also for me there's a lot of good pleasure when my guy does that, its weird but oh so good. Still prefer a normal mind blowing orgasm from penetration....sigh
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Was just too chilli to swim, but people swam anyway. The only thing was I was so busy I couldn't join in on jacuzzi fun. But next one.
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OK ok the pressure part is definitely there, but I feel it build and build up. Then ya, lol how? It is totally different feeling to orgasm. What's wrong with me? lol
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So I would like to know something from women. How do you know you about to squirt? I've heard the "you feel like you need to wee" thing, I get that. How do you let go and squirt and what is the process and the climax meant to feel like. Is there something wrong if you can't?? Lol help
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Hi kimwild1 , we sent you invite to a party we had last night. It was awesome! We had mixed races, no issues. It was so relaxedand iI met lovely people. Please accept our invite for the next party later in the month. We target all races and interracial couples. And everyone invited was friendly, met new people p, had a great time and are OK with crossing the colour line. Add me onto your friend list so we can keep you updated for some memorable experiences.
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Well I guess I'm a late bloomer, in school I was tom boyish so hung out with guys mostly-they always complimented me on my big boobs though. I've always been a big chick, that, to most of society is considered ugly. I'm not a glamour girl, I dress down most of the time. I have been stopped in the street and complimented. I often get told I am beautiful,so I think I am. Over the years I've developed a sort of mysterious sultry sex appeal. It draws a lot of men and women. So looks like the big chick thing doesn't matter anymore. When I do dress up, the guy or date I'm with gets complimented on his tastes(this has happened a lot while out) most guys feel proud, some offended or jealous. I just smile gracefully, must admit I like the attention. Been getting a lot since I've taken up exercise, endorphins maybe? Plus I have a killer smile. I think lol
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Lol @stamina, you can probably get to have sex with me either way he he, its overdue now. I'm tired of begging :sad:
Ay, there are couples and single men that are attending assuming I will be playing. I'm going to attach a payment pebble to my India, its nothing personal just business lol lol. If I had to say yes, shook its gonna be a hectic night. Hope my partner is coming, don't feel like playing dodge em hahaha
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Since I've been organizing this party, a lot of people have private messaged me asking what its about? When they get there can they have sex with me? Will everybody be having sex all over when they walk in? Single women are worried they'll be forced, males think that who ever is there will have to give it up. Others are asking why are we allowing swim suits, everyone should be naked.
When you first heard about swingers parties what were your thoughts? When and if you were invited to one, were you afraid? What was your experience like when you got to go to one?
My first experience was at a club, I went with a guy friend. I was nervous as hell, I thought that it was gonna be one huge warehouse looking place and everyone would be going at it lol. Again me watching movies like "eyes wide shut" didn't help lol.
I was uncomfy because we were told we had to be naked in the jacuzzi, felt weird cause everyone else was naked. But I met a lot of cool people that night and my second time was better.
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Very rude, there will be no ploughing on my fieldsThis is the thing with some so called "swingers".
When I was first introduced to swinging, I was under the impression it was going to be like the movie Eyes wide shut, starrimg Nicole Kidman with Tom Cruise. Sensual group sex, the chicks looked like they were enjoying and it was erotic. My first exposure was scary and uncomfortable. Basically I was invited by a couple I had been chatting to for a cpl of months for supper. Afterward, I assumed we would go back to their place and I'd have my first 3some. Unbeknownst to me they arranged a dogging what ever you call it on the roof top parking lot of the mall we had supper at. There were like 3 men that went at this dudes wife, I felt so scared and violated on her behalf, was gobsmacked I just stood there. The same feelings come up for me when I'm at a private party or group session. So I don't part take, its like they are abusing the Chick.
Also a lot of husbands of couples seem to treat the extra woman (3 some or during swap) like crap. Meaning they " plough" and are rough, they do things to the extra chick that they wouldnt do to their wife. I suppose that's the wrong way of doing things though. Again I mean most husbands/males not all.
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I find it hard to even orgasm, so probably won't get to squirt but will have fun trying
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After setting up this party I have to agree thast it is more difficult when you not white. I have been getting horrible messages. Sigh sorry to bring this up. I also find as a single female on the site that some dudes have a facad. They pretend as if they want whast you do. Last night is one example: I am a genuine and very friendly person, his approach was nice so I accepted his friend request-even invited him to the party. He then asked me to see my pvt pics, I assumed he wanted to see my face so I sent one. He got agro, saying he wanted nude pic, I told him I don't do naked pics, he said then what am I doing herre and also i asked what do I call the pics in my profile. I have a coloured female friend on the site she was sworn at and called all sorts of profanities cause she's dating an Indian guy. Even after you decline requests and tell them you are not interested or thst you are taken, they persist snd get angry. Saying swingers are never taken. Yes we blocked, but seriously. So in apologise if we come across rude, understand. Yes its wrong, but we paint all of you with same brush until proven wrong.
PS. Shawn you would so be invited to our party.
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Thanks PIB, well I have thought about everything except the blind folds, dams and gloves.
Will include that. I care about catering, a lot of folks like me, get famished after play lol. So im serving finger foods. I have made a list of everything ppl should bring eg. Towels etc, because there is a pool and jacuzzis. There's a laps and I suppose a place to dance. There are pvt rooms, all sorted with extra linen and cleaners.
I've set out rules and will have a welcome intro when everyone gets there. Thank you so much for input.
Anyone else? Please your suggestions.
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Thank you, I have awesome venue, intimate and will create a great warm,sensual atmosphere. Adjust lighting etc. The parties and clubs I've been to had harsh bright lights, difficult to have fun when you self conscious. Also naked in a jacuzzi for my first time was horrible. All the men were oogling any, was so uncomfy. Who made that stupid "you have to be naked" rule anyway.
Having your goodies over exposed does not make one feel attractive, well this one.
I have asked people to pay a deposit because the last few parties I've had, I've over catered and that and few people pitched.
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Do I'm planning a swingers party, intimate one but still big. The idea is to make people feel relaxed,comfortable and more appealing to newbies.
So does anyone have advice or like suggestions. What would you expect or like when going to a party. What would make you come back? What would be good money spent? My first party was scary, I felt anxciois and unsure what to expect. I felt uncomfortable because we were told we had to be fully naked. Felt intimidated by some people because of my race swell.
Share your experiences if you will,so I can use them yo make this a success. Thanks 
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I have seen a few and tried one. I say tried cos I walked out. I love being chased and earned. And sex has to be intense, sensual and erotic. When I attended a gang bang it brought back memories of a bad experience I had when I was younger. I still front get how women enjoy it* no offence to anyone*.
The few I've been to, is basically a whole lot of guys and like one or two women(the ones I've been to). Some men are gentle and do things in a certain way, then others are rough and they basically " fuck" the chick into an oblivion-again this is my take from what I have seen and experienced. Some start out nice then a sort if frenzy occurs, then its all just dirty, sex. I watched and felt overwhelmed as if the chicks were being violated. I don't know, its definitely not for me though. Some women swear theory enjoy it so like everything in life I suppose, to each his own.
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After seeing badgerandfox profile ...I'd love to meet them. Gawd you guys are so freaking hot!
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I like a cut or pulled back foreskin, caramel or choc coloured hard and shiny. Nice size, veiny. Not wet, unless its from me. Must be shaved. But a hard hard on. Like when its pointing or near his belly button. ** drooling
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Quote by Pussinboots1
I just feel I need to repeat once more.
Single people can not say they are swingers, we are NOT swingers as we are NOT part of a couple. Anyone who is here playing alone is also NOT a swinger even if you are here as part of a couple and play alone. Swinging is for couples only!!!
But we singles can say we have a Swingers MINDSET and like what the lifestyle offers.
As for being on this site....it really is for everyone,NO ONE has the right to say we who do NOT MEET anyone for a sexual interlude should not be here.
Just saying.....................
I agree, I'm part of a couple now but we prefer watching. Does that mean we not meant to be here
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I might get kicked for this but did 3ddy just say he is concerned about his health? Does that mean black or whom ever he's reffering to are a health risk?? No really wtf? I am very offended! FYI people of colour "gim" too.
Lee so true and you know I am organising a party for ALL races, you should see the ugly messages I get. Really people should just get a lifem this is getting messed up. I'm so upset
