Maybe it's time to request that the owners of this site change the name to "Lifestyle Heaven" ?
Either that, or they should not allow singles and the option of threesomes.
We will always find something to show displeasure towards, and that is probably the (single) biggest reason for single members not having much success on sites such as this.
so while I fully understand what you have written (and almost fully agree) I have however thought that maybe when we say, think or even write the "we are not all the same" heartfelt plea, that we are in fact actually just implying that "all couples" are the same . . . . . in the way they view the single guys!
So, does it have to be reported before it gets corrected?
he is definitely a "stronger" man than me, I flinched just watching it happen, he never even budged . . . . . .
yet, in the words of Rodrigues . . . "I wonder" . . . . .
So another visit down the EC way, and yet again, I am pleasantly surprised by the EC people
and that is, that racism is aimed mostly at white people (AS IN THEY ARE mostly BLAMED)
What??? you say?
Well, unless I only got an abbreviated version of the original article, I only saw the mention of the white race in the stories heading, and then one other time together with numerous other races who never made the articles heading. Then absolutely no-where else in the mothers write up.
I would imagine that if advertised properly that yes, there would be a demand. My money however (if I was a betting man) would be on cheaters (ie: people having affairs) contacting you for a place for a quick shag.
I remember back to teenage years, there was the "understanding" that the ankle bracelet was a "sign" . . . . these days I seriously doubt anybody thinks along those lines.
If I am reading your post correctly, you yourself have deduced that the reason some guys wanted test certificates was due to race.
They did not seem to say that, in fact by them asking for test certs, they have shown two things:
1) willingness to engage in sexual activities with a person of a different race.
2) the wisdom to take care of health concerns like a responsible adult.
From what I can see, you have made this a race issue.
As far as your comment about non white males having no etiquette goes, it's more about the language barrier than anything else, in fact, in my opinion, 75% of our so called race issues in this country revolve around language barriers. It exists even between white people who speak different languages.
(Pasted in quote) Seems like some only read half of what you say. How this gets interpreted as singles should leave the site and couples looking for singles should join a singles site is beyond me. At no time did I said or imply swingers should only look for or play with other swingers and not with singles.
oh well I suppose if some can't add value they will add conflict. (END)
(Pasted in quote) Ok daar is weer mense wat my kop gaan afbyt oor my stelling oor varkerigheid, maar gaan lees die "Quick messages" op mense se profiles, waar is daai mense se opvoeding. (END)
Shawn says,
I really do not understand the need for comments such as the above.
