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5 May 2015

Quote by seven07fs
The points of view expressed here should be common sense to most so I understand how frustrating it must be for couples looking for singles. It is quite frightening how the anonymity of the internet changes the character of people. I have not been here very long but have picked up the suspicions of members when they see I am single, most are very cautious and I understand why. Anyway - this was just a note to thank you all for pointers and advice for newcomers such as myself.

Just another thought @seven07fs . . . . perhaps it's the 'real world' that changes the character of some people

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4 May 2015

Quote by owen01
So im keen to make the gf swallow but she always has an excuse . Any tips lol is swallowing so bad ladies ? I just want to experience someone swallow while i orgasm

Your post seems to be directed at the ladies, but my two cents worth anyway:
She has said no, do yourself a favour and leave it at that for now, otherwise you are likely to not even get blown in the future

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28 Apr 2015

Quote by LeeEC
Believe them? ? So it couldn't possibly be fun.... you know like we celebrate Santa Claus/Father Christmas. ... Who I'm fairly sure isn't real, and I'm fairly sure none of us think he is. ..

Perhaps (hence the word choice of "tales") but his dick is in his pants, not in public

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23 Apr 2015

It fascinates me that a nation as intelligent and advanced such as this one (Japan) could actually believe such tales.

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20 Apr 2015

Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR young lady HUH?? you wanna be invited to my house where I will build you a nice indian smoke teepee,it should have the same effect as a modern day sauna....and I will take the photo`s no problem.

Booking plane ticket now wink

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20 Apr 2015

Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR
Any challenges you accept is only viable when posting photos of the challenge met...soooooo I for one await the result in hard confirmed photos...
Just to say I never saw a challenge issued though....

I created my own challenge young lady. . . . . Now, who has a steam (room) proof camera?

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20 Apr 2015

Quote by Voyer1105
I tried screwing in a Sauna but could not get my breath, to hot

Challenge accepted . .

:rotflmao::rotflmao:

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20 Apr 2015

This is me standing up and applauding you Sofistikitty Good on you for showing the other side!

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15 Apr 2015

Quote by breedi
Your thoughts and or experiences??

Don't have experiences to share, but as for thoughts . . ..
my immediate thought is you are more likely to land up in a very uncomfortable situation

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13 Apr 2015

Maybe it's time to request that the owners of this site change the name to "Lifestyle Heaven" ? Either that, or they should not allow singles and the option of threesomes. We will always find something to show displeasure towards, and that is probably the (single) biggest reason for single members not having much success on sites such as this.

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9 Apr 2015

so while I fully understand what you have written (and almost fully agree) I have however thought that maybe when we say, think or even write the "we are not all the same" heartfelt plea, that we are in fact actually just implying that "all couples" are the same . . . . . in the way they view the single guys!

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7 Apr 2015

So, does it have to be reported before it gets corrected?

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26 Mar 2015

he is definitely a "stronger" man than me, I flinched just watching it happen, he never even budged . . . . . . yet, in the words of Rodrigues . . . "I wonder" . . . . .

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24 Mar 2015

So another visit down the EC way, and yet again, I am pleasantly surprised by the EC people

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24 Mar 2015

Quote by maturewhiteslut
Just wondering how many white females on here fantasize about having sex with a black man or want to but are to afraid

I would think the numbers would surprise, only thing is, those same ladies will not stand up and let themselves be counted.

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20 Mar 2015

Quote by Sofistikitty
dude she mainly mentions coloured women,after you click the link scroll down.

That is exactly what I said, she mentions coloured women 99% of the time. At one point she mentions white, Indian, Chinese etc together, but only White gets put into the articles heading, none of the others, or alternatively, any of the others instead.

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19 Mar 2015

and that is, that racism is aimed mostly at white people (AS IN THEY ARE mostly BLAMED) What??? you say? Well, unless I only got an abbreviated version of the original article, I only saw the mention of the white race in the stories heading, and then one other time together with numerous other races who never made the articles heading. Then absolutely no-where else in the mothers write up.

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18 Mar 2015

Quote by Stoutgatte_xxx
Maybe we should refer to it as the previously disadvantaged market

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Maar heir kom kak . . .
:small-print::small-print::small-print::small-print:

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18 Mar 2015

Quote by Mike_Pta
One, the guy in the transplant had his former penis amputated due to a traditional circumcision gone wrong. So it wasn't by choice, he was without a penis for a number of years.
Two, the donation was from a dead guy like normal donations. But as with all donations there will be a black market as soon as the operation stabilises.

Dude,
99% of black market organ sales / transplants only happen in the movies :bs: anyway, isn't it racist or something to call it "black market" ? rotflmao

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16 Mar 2015

Like you say, opens up a whole world of questions. I somehow doubt though, that it will be a case of simply booking a transplant. It will only be done in medicaly required instances. (but then again, who really knows) With the majority of straight men "claiming" to have issues with touching other guys dicks even in a threesome scenario, imagine . . . . . ok, ok, ok, I will remove tongue from cheek . . . . . . . wink

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16 Mar 2015

Quote by Slashza
Very dissapointed with east london people have now set up 2 meetings with meeting up with couples and they are no showers keen to chat the whole time they choose the place and time late at night and then don't show at all what's up with that is it just me getting this in East london

It happens everywhere.
Although, I myself have been in East Londen and surrounds quite a few times in the past few months and have been very pleasantly surprised at the other members from the area. I would encourage you to just be patient.

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13 Mar 2015

Quote by Adonis
The best thing of age it bring wisdom and make it easier to handle the youth

Your sentence makes a lot of sense @Adonis. And yes, age helps with sommany things when it comes to youth.
Only thing is, I also find that as I get older I also seem to be finding a lot less tolerance of some of the ways of our youth, so many of them just do not have the basic necessity of actually growing up

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12 Mar 2015

Quote by skinnymax
okay the s's not even going to go down the spelling route
I do believe there is a place for porn but would actually really be interested to see something a woman has made/directed etc, as a sure that first more woman would watch it and secondly then it would show men that yeah some of us do like all sort of things but that there are normal ways to get them and enjoy them not the bog standard version as described previously. And no I am not talkng about the 50 shades stuff, which i believe is porn in fairytale, so will carry on waiting until i get the courage to do it myself

50 shades of grey (which I have not read or seen) goes against all this new age "woman power" focus.
It (from what I understand) is about a woman being "dominated" . . . . . and was written by a woman, not a piggish male. The whole world thinks this is the greatest thing since the release of Grease (the movie) but I wonder if it (the worlds view) would still be like that if this story was written by a male . . . . .

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9 Mar 2015

I would imagine that if advertised properly that yes, there would be a demand. My money however (if I was a betting man) would be on cheaters (ie: people having affairs) contacting you for a place for a quick shag.

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7 Mar 2015

I remember back to teenage years, there was the "understanding" that the ankle bracelet was a "sign" . . . . these days I seriously doubt anybody thinks along those lines.

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5 Mar 2015

Quote by playcouple
You do realise that every time you donate blood or have blood tested you are screened for HIV and Aids? This data is collected and put together by various NGO's, bits and pieces of it comes out in the press and so on, but all of it is available to various HIV and Aids organisations. This is not because anyone is keeping anything hidden or under wraps, just that the press will rather say we have one of the highest infection rates in the world than say that the infection rate in RSA is dropping, good news does not get spread, bad news does.

Our government would disagree with that, after their recent "we have a good story to tell" campaign . . wink

One of the ways to get funding is to have stats that indicate something needs to be done. So when stats are gathered for something such as HIV, they are going to target areas that are worst affected.

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5 Mar 2015

Stamina, Stamina, Stamina . . . of shit wait, sorry, . . . I mean Ian . . . . rotflmao

Maybe 1 in 55 ladies want you to "make a move" a few minutes into a first meet. A lady who "cannot make it" 4 times is married or heavily involved and extremely rude, second no show makes this clear. Move along quietly, because complaining here, is only informing other potential meets about the way you "respond' . . . . .

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5 Mar 2015

Quote by playcouple
Problem is there be no power at Eskom.
As a matter of interest statistically there are large variances between population groups (demographics???) in terms of HIV and Aids, the variances vary between races, ages, careers, locations and how regularly people travel away from home requiring an overnight stay.

Statistics are way too easily manipulated and cannot be accurate in any form - at least not above 75%. The statistics in this country (because I have no knowledge of other countries) are gathered to obtain a specific result. Right from our education system, to our health care system. Our schools regularly ask the pupils / learners / students (or whatever they are called these days) what language they speak at home, how many brothers or sisters they have etc WHY? What on earth for?
If you want focus on a particular area, you survey a particular group in order to get the appropriate survey result to get involvement. Don't misunderstand me here, survey's need to be done, I'm just saying that they are done in such a way that it justifies what was already decided from a budgetary point of view.
Pretty much the same as the penis size statistics, everything says that the average size is X and the average width is Y . . . but have you seen the pictures on this site? wink

no bloody wonder so many of us get laughed at when we have said we were "average sized" . . . rotflmao

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4 Mar 2015

Quote by playcouple
Someone said that when you feel intimidated by a group of people, such as going into a meeting or doing a speech, you should imagine them all naked, this will then get relax your thoughts (packs instinctively attack anything that gives of the smell of fear), well i think that should be changed, imagine them all masturbating

Nah, what if some of them are "lookers" ?? where on earth would my focus and attention levels be then

:rotflmao:

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4 Mar 2015

So, I suppose we all knew that we all indulge in said act here and there, HOWEVER, I must say that I will never look at anyone the same ever again . . . . yet, I suppose it may help understand why most women do need need as much / frequent sex as men . . . . coz they are obviously way better at masturbating than their male counterparts . . . . wink

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