and that is, that racism is aimed mostly at white people (AS IN THEY ARE mostly BLAMED)
What??? you say?
Well, unless I only got an abbreviated version of the original article, I only saw the mention of the white race in the stories heading, and then one other time together with numerous other races who never made the articles heading. Then absolutely no-where else in the mothers write up.
I would imagine that if advertised properly that yes, there would be a demand. My money however (if I was a betting man) would be on cheaters (ie: people having affairs) contacting you for a place for a quick shag.
I remember back to teenage years, there was the "understanding" that the ankle bracelet was a "sign" . . . . these days I seriously doubt anybody thinks along those lines.
If I am reading your post correctly, you yourself have deduced that the reason some guys wanted test certificates was due to race.
They did not seem to say that, in fact by them asking for test certs, they have shown two things:
1) willingness to engage in sexual activities with a person of a different race.
2) the wisdom to take care of health concerns like a responsible adult.
From what I can see, you have made this a race issue.
As far as your comment about non white males having no etiquette goes, it's more about the language barrier than anything else, in fact, in my opinion, 75% of our so called race issues in this country revolve around language barriers. It exists even between white people who speak different languages.
(Pasted in quote) Seems like some only read half of what you say. How this gets interpreted as singles should leave the site and couples looking for singles should join a singles site is beyond me. At no time did I said or imply swingers should only look for or play with other swingers and not with singles.
oh well I suppose if some can't add value they will add conflict. (END)
(Pasted in quote) Ok daar is weer mense wat my kop gaan afbyt oor my stelling oor varkerigheid, maar gaan lees die "Quick messages" op mense se profiles, waar is daai mense se opvoeding. (END)
Shawn says,
I really do not understand the need for comments such as the above.
@playcouple, Please help me understand the above?
So it would appear as if the illusive single lady for that FFM is a rare find . . . . .
I was thinking, every one seemingly wants to find a lady that is into other ladies. Yet so often when you read a profile, the couple says "Hubby not bi in any way" . . . . . . they still want another male to join them in the sack, but zero contact between men.
Maybe, just maybe, there are more single ladies out there who are open to the FFM idea, but don't respond becuse the searching couple wants someone who is going to be more involved with wifey . . . . . that would give me the impression of "I am going to be on display" . . . . . . and when we remember how often other contributors say that a lot of women have self conscious issues . . . well now!