Quote by Stamina
Almost all of you fellow forumites have had a go at the "time wasters".
Stamina, it's time to let this go dude . . . . . only a matter of time before this gets unpleasant.
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DUDE??????????????
This is South Africa, all we ever do is complain, complain, complain. It's doing things differently, looking at things differently, finding out more about things, or even complaining correctly that we are unable to do.
That is (In my own opinion) the single biggest fault we as South Africans have, all we do is complain, then we feel a little better, then we start getting a little more irritated, so we complain a little more and thus feel a little better, and so the cycle goes on and on and on.
We (and I include myself here) do not do anything about anything other than to say "THINGS NEED TO CHANGE" . . . .
OH, and I am also only 30 (I just happen to have 14 years experience) 
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While everything that was said in the above post has merit, and especially the part about sending pics before being asked, one thing that immediately jumped out at me was the fact that on a site such as this one ie: swinging / sex related site, if the woman on the receiving end was not so interested in dick and more concerned with the list as presented, then that particular lady is probably looking for a dating site and not a swinging / sex related site.
But yes guy's, remember, everyone knows that TV remotes come in condensed versions these days
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Quote by Stamina
My bucket list:
1. Physically meet a female face to face at a coffee shop that is really interested in joining a couple... Even if she does not take it further.
2. Have an actual threesome with my girl and another female.
3. Die of shock and surprise that there really was a single female serious about meeting on this site!
Just a thought young Stamina . . . .
the more you vent "publicly" the more people may just think . . . . . . . . . .
ok, I'll drop it. But I think you now have a little food for thought.
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Quote by Stamina
There are only three options: 1. A lady joins and get to experience someone else with her consent and in her presence. 2. I cheat with someone else without her knowing and get to experience someone new because that someone will find joining a couple weird. 3. I leave her and experience some one else as often as I want and she does not get hurt...
Or maybe it's time for a fourth option:
Change your immediate goals . . . . you say more than once that it is for both of you. So, look for a guy for threesome, look for a couple for soft swap / full swap. Look for a couple you can just watch, hell, look for a couple who will just watch you.
All things come in time, sexual excitement comes in many forms, maybe enjoy what is easiest come by and you may actually learn something that leads to making your original goal a reality.
Oh, and before someone else gets the opportunity to knock you for certain comments, maybe just change the tone of the way you express your frustration with your regular piece of A...S . . . sounds more like you have relationship issues than unsuccessful swinger searching issues.
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Quote by wolfman
And as for popularity on the fora:
Spend as much time as possible writing irrelevant horseshit (like me) until the green stripe under your avatar gets to 'godlike'.
Here is some more horseshit from me . . . . (just in case the little green stripe under my avatar changes colour)
Take it from a "Green Striper" the amount of Irrelevant Horse-shit you write has zero to do with popularity, in fact, the more one writes, the less popular they are likely to become . . .
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Quote by oceanlovers
try this
go into the chatroom and do nothing ,just sit there and see how many people want to talk to you ,
dont send any messages ,winks or album invites for a couple of days . just view profiles and see who makes contact .
this will tell how popular you are and if anyone realises you have gone quiet .
steve
I think I understand where you are coming from on this Steve, and while I do not spend time in the chat-room, we have had a similar thing once or twice here in the forums, where on the very very rare occasion someone would ask, hey, where is so and so these days?
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I do not see how your post could have offended anyone in anyway Sofistikitty? Maybe it was something you wrote before you "edited" it.
But Anyway, people take things strangely sometimes.
I myself have done 95% of my own bucketlist, the other 5% I will not speak of publicly. There is of course so much of the ticked off items that I would enjoy doing again and in different / better ways.
There is of course so much of the ticked off items that I would enjoy doing again and in different / better ways. 
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Quote by lekkerspyker
Never thought of measuring my cock untill you mentioned it on this site. My cock is 120mm long and 55mm thick when limp. 280mm long and 80mm thick when erect.
So, before anybody gets the chance to say below the belt things about your post (did you see what I done there?) I thought I would bring the following to your attention:
280mm is the best part of 11+ inches and
80mm thick could be interpreted in two ways: 1) 80mm thick across (which would make your member too big for any kind of penetrative intercourse) or 2) 80mm circumference (giving you a girth of a little over 3 inches) world average on the "low" side is something like 4.7 inches I think))
I assume it is a simple typo when posting this thread. BUT . . . .
If that is in fact your measurements, then I have to be honest and say that I would like to see pictures of that, because it is not likely that there is ever going to be another opportunity to see such a dick.
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Quote by Ian_McHerbe
Kim K ... a pornstar?
Regardless.....I love Pornhub!
Yes, she would be enough to turn me off porn.
but now I need to know how they got to some of the reported statistics.
Easy enough on the majority I guess, but how on earth do they establish that 32% were women viewers?
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Quote by playcouple
The more 'out there', be it bizarre, perceived kink/degenerate, obscene, gory, bloody, horrific etc the more people will, at the very least, take a quick peek to satisfy their curiosity. A nice example is accidents, the worse it looks the more people cluster together to get a better view, the more bloody the front page photo of a news paper the higher the circulation. We have in essence not moved on much since the days of watching people fight off lions in the Colosseum.
The irony is that most people would deny looking or being curious, they will also criticize those that do (themselves without admission) but would happily and enthusiastically spam you with you tube clips of some hapless drunk falling in front of a truck/train/into a sawmill etc.
Indeed, and in my observations . . .. oh wait, giving your own observations in frowned upon.
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Quote by SDMR
Eastern Cape hands down. I was in Grahamstown recently, November to be more specific. What nice friendly people. Shop staff, students, even just passers by in the street. All ready to great and smile.
And yes Lee, My customer down there knows you, he he he... It's a very small town. Don't worry though, never discussed the site or the lifestyle, I simply mentioned I know a couple in the area from way back when. Mentioned Matt and Lee and he said he knows (or knows of a couple by those names). He owns a driving school in GT, do you know who I am talking about? I was unfortunately too busy and had an almost impossible deadline so work took up 15 hours a day, and I still ran a day over schedule... otherwise I would have made contact and you would have met the Stam in the flesh!!
Stamina, read the instructions again . . . . . this is not about people who "gave you the time of day" young man . . . .
Sorry Stamina, I withdraw my previous post.
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Quote by redbruce
It always fascinates me with topics such as this one and even the likes of "Dogging" how many views the posts get. Hundreds and hundreds . . . . . with only a few replies. That in it itself, speaks volumes.
Hi SDMR, well I would be one of the "viewers" (of the post), irrespective of the subject matter (but particularly of the Dogging posts!
). I read every one of the forum posts routinely, and yet you know how seldom I comment or respond...I agree with most of the posters here, that bukake is not my scene - nearly had an opportunity to be involved in one once, but it seemed to fizzle out and never happened (or else I was left out??!!)
But although I am not that keen on bukake, nor will I tell you what I do for a living, and I am not really into kink other than voyeurism and dogging, and I KNOW that there are lots of single males with really poor manners, I still like to know what's going on, and am one of the avid devourers (rather than a producer) of the written word here in these pages... Until posts get acrimonious, that is!
you misunderstand my comments Mr Redbruce . . . .
What I am highlighting (as per my own observations) is that the heading of the thread seems to determine the "number of views" The more "out there" the heading, the more views, so in my own deduction that would possibly indicate what the majority of people (who peruse the forums) are actually interested in.
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Quote by Stamina
Eastern Cape hands down. I was in Grahamstown recently, November to be more specific. What nice friendly people. Shop staff, students, even just passers by in the street. All ready to great and smile.
And yes Lee, My customer down there knows you, he he he... It's a very small town. Don't worry though, never discussed the site or the lifestyle, I simply mentioned I know a couple in the area from way back when. Mentioned Matt and Lee and he said he knows (or knows of a couple by those names). He owns a driving school in GT, do you know who I am talking about? I was unfortunately too busy and had an almost impossible deadline so work took up 15 hours a day, and I still ran a day over schedule... otherwise I would have made contact and you would have met the Stam in the flesh!!
Stamina, read the instructions again . . . . . this is not about people who "gave you the time of day" young man . . . .
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So, I have always wondered about which area (Province) was the friendliest.
Cape Town has always been a "happy hunting ground" for me. People just seem to know what they want down there.
Mpumalanga where I live . . . not so much (with the possible exception of Nelspruit)
Everyone is just too busy in KZN, and good old Gauteng . . . well, let's just say that for the smallest area which has the most members, they do not seem too keen on the actual concept.
I was very recently pleasantly surprised by the nice people in the Eastern Cape, and I am really looking forward to going down there again soon.
What about you? What have you found?
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Quote by Dean981
Hi is there any places in sabie or close by where they have dogging or clubs or places to meet up?
@Dean981, it is highly unlikely you will find a club anywhere in the Mpumalanga Province, especially in the smaller towns like Sabie. As far as Dogging goes, chances are probably even slimmer.
