Quote by Vegasx69
Sod off
Hang about . . . . . how did we go from "get off" to "sod off"????
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Quote by Voyer1105
Seems the subject is unkown ?
Most probably because the world we live in seems to mostly only really look down upon things that the male of the species does.
A lady would probably be referred to as "empowering" herself in this particular subject.
But, to answer yor question, NO never come across such an arrangement (of course, where the legals were left out, have seen aplenty) and good on them as far as I am concerned))
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Quote by JHB_Couple
are there any ways to show that you're interested in dogging?
some kind of symbol or something?
maybe a cloth or ribbon tied somewhere to the car?
I am sure someone will tell you shortly about a red cloth or something of the sorts tied to your rear view mirror.
I do however have to wonder how effective this can be at night at a dark secluded spot? (this is actually me asking a question in an effort to learn something)
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Quote by LeeEC
I have often looked at the names in the same way.
Myself, I went for the simple using my initials (which are actually SDM) however, for some dumb reason, when I was filling the info out, I hit the additional R . . . . . . and from what I understand, if I want to change it, I have to make some or other payment in the currency of Pounds Sterling . . . so, needless to say, the R stays!
Oh no, that's just a silly left over thing from the template that was used to make this version of the site - just make a support ticket request and they do it for you - no charge.
:thumbup:
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I have often looked at the names in the same way.
Myself, I went for the simple using my initials (which are actually SDM) however, for some dumb reason, when I was filling the info out, I hit the additional R . . . . . . and from what I understand, if I want to change it, I have to make some or other payment in the currency of Pounds Sterling . . . so, needless to say, the R stays!
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Quote by jimjam
Now if my memory serves correctly prostitution is illegal.
And carries a jail sentance if convicted.. Even though the S.A. Justice system is pathetic!
The Police do not bother (for various reasons) . . . . . .
However,
if I was brought before a court of law charged with prostitution, my first comment to the Judge would be: "how can it be illegal if the state provides a health care service and condom supply specifically for prostitutes?"
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Quote by jtrdbn
Saw this on a profile:
"Absolutely NO blacks, we don't do interracial shit..."
Still feel its preference related?
This is the problem with this particular "issue" in this country:
A single persons view / comment / action etc is made out to be as if the whole race is the same.
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90% of profile views are via the gallery. (this is my own opinion and not something that has been researched)
Also, and this is just a thought, and just my opinion based on my own view. The two pics in your gallery give the immediate impression of being of two different bodies.
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Quote by playcouple
Maybe I'm stupid, I know that I'm very slow in understanding things, but are you saying that whites should only be forced to have interracial experiences in the swinging lifestyle? Then by the same token you should be forced to have interaction with bi sexual males only in the swinging context (or couples with bi sexual males, keep in mind that just because a guy is bisexual does not mean that he is going to want to have a go with you just because you are having a go with his wife)
Nou heir kom kak . . . . . hahahahahahaha well said!
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Quote by Bosman
I asked a question about the soccerball site and even contacted some people directly and askes them some questions but got absolutely no reply! Guess what....was planning on taking a REAL female somewhere, let her put on a bit of a show and even perhaps allow someone to join...but I'm put off by people ignoring my very real queries about the site.....so you (nelspruit) has lost the interest of a very real pair of playmates.
While I am obviously not 100% certain, I would however think that the majority of people reading "ads" on a site like this, would immediately think it's a fake when it's placed by a guy who says he has a female who is a willing participant.
maybe let the female do the communication, and see if that gets a better response
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Quote by Adonis
Sorry but that why the forum died a quick death, please Admin its time for you to stop this type of treads, we are fed up to here the refrain of racist
No, I do not think the forum "died a quick death" due to the constant insistence that all whites are racist.
More like it died, because a group of members did not like it when people expressed their personal views which varied from theirs, and / or injected humour into the forum.
But hey, what do I know, I just read the forum everyday and make my own deductions.
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Quote by amethyst
You my friend, you need to climb out of your cocoon.
We dont live in a perfect country by any means. however you need to examine where all of this started. My comment was not a broad based one or a political one but one that pertains to swinging.
Im not going to lower mysrlf to get into this because a forum actually lacks the platform for an actual debate.
But the paramedic, fireman analogy hits the nail on the head.
The profiles on this very site, where the members are non white, and they themselves have the words "we do not cross the colour barrier" or "looking for blacks only" in their profiles, never get any flack.
Yes, there may very well be a minimal amount of those profiles, but if you want uniformity, then it has to be on a level playing field.
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Quote by amethyst
You know my issue is not so much that its there, rather than not giving somebody the opportunity purely based on the colour of skin.
Your opening sentence is such a contradiction to the way of life in this very country we all live in.
If opportunity is "expected" then surely it should apply across the board, and not just to a certain group?
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Quote by LeeEC
So another thought came to mind when reading the updates on this post:
What is the difference between "Single" and "Divorced"
Surely if you are single, you are single, and if you are divorced, you are also single?
No idea - seems rather irrelevant actually.
Much like how the majority of views expressed in the forum are viewed?
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Quote by Graham_Elliot
I'd be interested to know if there is anyplace in OR Tambo airport where we can get it on? With all those hosties and stews before or between flights there have to be some sexy, horny ones!
You have more chance of spending the rest of your day in a cell.
cameras all over the place, hero, Rambo type SAP, and of course we should not forget the ever important JMPD, who think it is their duty to do what ever the hell they please.
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Quote by Hotguy4couples
So...... About 20min ago I receive a message from a couple saying that they like my pictures and are interested in my profile.
This is the confusing part. The ask if I have ever crossed the race barrier. Now to me this is an odd question, but not for the reasons most would assume. You can see clearly from my pictures what I my self am not white and I say so on my profile.
The couple then says, "sorry, you have been with other races and that's a no go for us"
So essentially what I can deduct is that this couple wants to invite a single guy to play, who is not white, but has an issue with the fact that the guy has been with other races. I've never been more confused
So.......... Why is it that a singl guy get blasted for not reading profiles throughly but couples (not all couples, just a minority) feel that they need not be as through as what they expect.
Or, perhaps their problem was the fact that you have played with people not the same race as yourself? The so called race barrier does not always have to mean whites playing with non whites . . . . .
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If you send a message to a profile that clearly states they are not open to communication from which ever category you yourself fall into, then not getting a response is your own fault.
But, I fully agree with Flamebouy that when you have taken the time to make sure you do fit into what the profile is looking for, and you do not get a response, it is rude.
More often than not, I am sure it is because the profile owner does not understand that ticking the "straight male" box or 'straight female" box , means they are open to contact from members that are not a couple.
Having said that, one needs to remember we are operating in the digital world here, and this is where people are themselves, this is where people allow their true identities to come out.
Perhaps those members with a couple profile, who only want contact from couples, and believe that there is no place for others, should either petition the site owners to make the site a couples only site, or they should tick the looking for boxes a little more carefully.
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This particular question / topic tends to get raised from time to time, although usually by single males.
I myself am in a "smaller town" which ultimately means less members, yet as I have said before, I do in fact have a fairly good "success rate".
Added to that, every-time I visit the Cape (Eastern or Western) I never have a trip that I did not at least have drinks with someone. In fact, Cape Town has been very good to me over the years.
I would like to give you some advice and or suggestions, but obviously I cannot, seeing as I have a different type of profile than you do. Perhaps it is the content of your initial message?
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Quote by MIKE_
As has been previously mentioned the Mod's had a discussion with Admin regarding this. Admin provided an explanation and maintained their decision to implement this change.
Admin has already provided their point of view on the subject, in the forum post "F Like share - what is this"
http://www.swingingheaven.za.com/59FXMoB0Dk4xQLyk
there you have it Kitty, Admin has already provided their response to what happened to you.
16 Days before it happened.
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Quote by Adonis
Thats my feeling to that they agree or to scare to differ with admin. This would never happened overseas because there the members have a input.
Must rather held my opinion for my self because i threaded to be ban
Even if the majority of the mods agree with it, they should at least be interacting with the thread.
