that is not a strange fantasy at all . . . . .
it would appear that Horwoods farm is mentioned purely because it is a wide open space. If you read a lot of the previous postings, Horwoods farm is always mentioned and there are a few trustworthy sources who always come back and say "been there, nothing going on"
So, the upmarket debate . . . .
If one looks at the greater meaning of the word ""The dictionary says.... high-quality, notable, renowned, prestige, eminent, reputable professional people"" well then everybody is exactly all those things in their own ways. The problem is, people all have their own interpretation of what makes others upmarket . . . . (mmmm, me thinks this sounds a bit like the race issue confusion)
What one person would regard as an "upmarket" quality, another might regard as being 'the norm" . . . . as I said in the previous version of this topic, I have two degree's, but that does not make me any more fu@k@ble than someone who does not, yes, the chances are that conversation may be more ideal, but then there are people who do not have a degree that are capable of holding a way more intelligent and competent conversation. It also does not change 'class" . . . maybe financially it may change the class according to the way upper, middle & lower class are classified, but if I am a fat pig of a slob, I am a fat pig of a slob regardless of my education, worldly possessions and or financial status.
If people are looking for suitable playmates on this type of site, they should be specific about certain things, like male / female straight / gay / bi and maybe even distance away from themselves. If people were not so hung up on petty issues (race, class etc) and just cleared up the basic requirements, I am almost certain they would have enjoyed way more contact with people. Remembering that it is simple to say "thank you but no thank you" when the person contacting you is not what you dee ideal in a playmate, perhaps doing it this way would open their own minds and views and they would also gain experience on how to communicate with strangers via this media.
I often wonder how many opportunities have been missed because one did not take the time to chat for a little while.
Morning all . . . .
This is the second time (that I am aware of) that this topic has come up in recent weeks, SO . . . . . . let's work it to death, let's give it full and exhaustive treatment (that includes everyone, even those that think we are click) oh, I'm so funny . . . .
oh, I'm so bluddy hilarious
Watersports although, to be completely honest, is a "yes, no, maybe, perhaps, never, anytime, ok, footsac" area for me.
If faced with the situation, I honestly don't know how I would react or what I would do
