As a representative of the male of the species, I hang my head in shame.
It's fascinating how the men and women in this "lifestyle" all experience very similar situations when it comes to the actual meeting up. After reading what Mrs E & Sofistikitty have written, my immediate reaction was that the men they had spoken to were in fact not real. (as in, they claimed to be what they were not) which is a real shame, because Mrs. E & Sofistikitty are very real.
It's good that this is highlighted (however often) so that other people get to see the trend of false people.
I suppose at first, it was all about getting "back into" something I really enjoyed some years back (with my then wife)
Meeting people in a public setting (pubs / clubs) is all good and well, but you have a number of drawbacks with that (we get too old to be in clubs and pubs all the time) there is always the chance that anyone willing to meet and shed clothing, is probably likely to give you something else too and not only an orgasm.
There are other sites that claim to cater for this need, and after paying membership fees, you get contacted by computers, and people who live thousands of kilometers away from you.
I found this site, gave it a try and found out rather quickly that being a "single member" was not ideal, however, the amount of couples looking for a third person for a threesome is quite staggering. Yes, success rate is obviously not ideal (will it ever be though?) BUT, I landed up staying here because of the other benefits, such as reading the forum topics and getting a way better understanding of how the rest of society views sex. The things I have learned about peoples views have helped me with other people (by simply letting me think something other than my own way)
I have made a number of good "writing" friends on this site, and even if I land in a situation of only meeting up with people once every few months, the other reasons are worth staying here.
Single girls should not even consider going to an event such as Dogging by themselves (this is my opinion) from what I understand, Dogging is about watching people have sex (couple) now in it's 'original form" Dogging may have been about a random meeting (couple) who then proceeded to have sex and others watched, but it seems to be more a case of a couple decided they wanted to be watched.
We live in a place called "the world" and as PIB said, the male of the species is more often than not, a pig. He will go out of his way to find such an activity, even moan about not finding anything or actually arranging something, but then proceed to say immature and derogatory things . . . .
The frequent comment of "will there be any woman there" or "come on girls" . . . . think about it fellow males, WOMEN hold almost all the cards in the game of sex, they can (and do) arrange for just about anything they desire in the sexual department, males are the reason they keep the kind of things males are all looking for, for only a select few to enjoy
Why is it that so few women as (opposed to men) are into the dogging scene / experience?
I know very little about Dogging, but it seems that it is a common thing that the men say "will there be any women there?"
I asked once before in the forums if there was actually any Dogging that goes on, and now I'm wondering again. The Dogging section in the forum is fairly busy (probably second busiest of all forums) so why is it that almost nothing seems to happen.
Well done guy's, this should spark a decent forum response.
I myself am going to give this some thought before responding. :thumbup:
