Decades of telling people to challenge authority is now showing "fruit" . . . . 

Amethyst,

Whatever I said or did not say in previous years that influenced you to stop contributing to the forum, I assure you was not intentional, and was as you said above, my own personal views

And I apologize in advance to the mods for what follows:

However, the reason for my suggestion that this be closed is exactly that, I CANNOT express my views and or experiences in this particular topic because comments like "previous government" and "the way we were raised" are simply bullshit. People (me included) make our own choices. I like many others have been on both sides of the issues in this country related to race. 

I like most others gave varying opinions on varying things, preferences on various things . . .  yet the only one I constantly get challenged on is the one in this forum. 

The other day in the Gym I was talking to a couple of guys (yes their complexion was different to mine) and one guy said, "I am sick of the transformation story all the time, he added, one cannot expect transformation until one is transformed themselves. 

Just because some people don't want to have sex with people of a different skin tone , does not make them prejudiced, racist, close minded, stupid or anything else that they get accused of!  

Forums may be a platform to discuss topics, but only a select few can say what they feel or have experienced. 

The underlying suggestion that members who choose to to interact with the same ethnicity as themslevs are racist is in itself offensive. 

Mr Redbruce Sir, 

I hereby request this thread gets locked. 

 Much like the "single" profile option, the "Wink" button is an option provided by the operators of this site.

When one creates a profile, one has to accept the sites terms and conditions . . . . 

Maybe its time people stopped bloody complaining about things they accepted , . , . , . , 

 From your TV Screens .. . 

my guess would be that those single members partners dont give them enough alone time go take pictures with a more suitable backdrop.

I don't have an entertaining story  . . . . its simply my initials . apparently I lack imagination 8)

Secret handshakes in public places? I'm curious how that would remain secret . . . . . 

hmmmm

Argue / get cross / get excited about whatever is posted . . . . that kind of sums up why this once very active forum took such a big fall. 

Some contributors would simply not accept that different contributors had different views . . . 

for those that "cant resist" might I suggest simply showing the other person/people your own black ring, and then make any decision about moving forward based on said person / peoples reaction to seeing your black ring

ok, guilty as charged. . .my apologies. I will sort myself out (no, I do not mean masturbate) . .

I have gone 7 days without porn / pics now . . . . I am starting to loose vision in my left nostril

 Challenge accepted ;)

nd I may even write about the experience . . .

Couch? Rack? . . yes please 

Challenge accepted 

Yes, I am well versed on googlelitis . . :grin:

I think that sums up what I was also trying to say 'not a text book definition" . . . . the same google search throws up a few other explanations (definitions) so once again it appears "choice" is raising its unpopular hand. . . 

mmmm? Excuse me . . . . 

Where is all this kink???? 

Waiting in great anticipation . . . 

I thought I would put a little effort in to try and "understand" things better . . . one of the interpretations that Google throws out when you search "what does open minded mean sexually" is as follows . .  .

A sexually open minded person can be bisexual, but a sexually open minded person may also be heterosexual or homosexual only. A sexually open minded person means they are willing to explore and experiment within the boundaries of what they deem as comfortable for them. . . . 

Just the same as Sexysam69 . . . I am also struggling to keep myself quiet. . . . 

Almost everyone is saying "I respect everyone's right to choice" . . . so then I must ask, why is everyone's right to choose being questioned and or challenged ???? 

mmmmmmm,

I think I should check if I have this thing you call "sex addiction" . . . . . . 

And if I do not, well then, I NEED to get me some  . . 

OK, OK, OK . . . seriously, I am in agreement with the "choose what you are" suggestion made by PIB . . . but there are those who need a little guidance when it cones to choosing . . . always the possibility of one "trying" to be a certain way. 

FOR EXAMPLE:

Some would say if you are involved in a mmf then you are gay, some would say you are bi, some would say you are a pervert . . . I would say, YES !!! 

PIB, penis presentation available in person anytime . . . and yes, happy to help with any bucket list item of yours

puts his hand up . . .

If you (pronounced anyone) expect others to "respect" and "comply" with your "preferences" as laid out in your profile . . . then where do you get off having anything to say about anyone else's "preferences" ? 

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He finished his term, and Obama was elected in...so he is not thought of anymore. ;)

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confident and nervous are also worlds apart.

as are views . . . .

Couples only 7% more than single females? Now there's a talking point . . . . .  

funny thing is, a number of the old forum regular's were expecting a forum revival after the departure of a certain lady from the East. But maybe the damage was already to extreme?

I am fully aware that I for one could contribute more, and yes, I actually want to.