So this has been bothering me for some time now...
Why do people have profiles with the bare minimum, no profile pic, no public media, not even a well constructed bio?
And active accounts that have joined many years ago, still stating "Hi we are new to this". What's up with that?
That and the profiles that don't show area / distance . . . .
Remember some people like to be very private. The person around them (friends and work place) does not always agree with the LS. I have seen a couple and lady interacting with each other in a bar and some (most) persons pushed the a side. Now wen they visit the pub people does not interact (speak) with them. It's a very Grey area.....
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Remember some people like to be very private. The person around them (friends and work place) does not always agree with the LS. I have seen a couple and lady interacting with each other in a bar and some (most) persons pushed the a side. Now wen they visit the pub people does not interact (speak) with them. It's a very Grey area.....
You don't need to show face on site, if you just show a little bit of your self, no one will know. And if someone does recognise you, they are also on the site, so who they going to tell? Who knows you might just make new friends with benefits...
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You don't need to show face on site, if you just show a little bit of your self, no one will know. And if someone does recognise you, they are also on the site, so who they going to tell? Who knows you might just make new friends with benefits...
So true...I will remember it thanks...
It means a lot.
In most cases it turns out to be a single guy behind that account.
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So this has been bothering me for some time now...
Why do people have profiles with the bare minimum, no profile pic, no public media, not even a well constructed bio?
And active accounts that have joined many years ago, still stating "Hi we are new to this". What's up with that?
Totally agree! Those are also normally the ones who want your private pictures first.
Ai jai jai.
Lazy and entitled. They usually have this idea that they can just walk in and pick a lady/couple from the catalogue and get serviced. The 'here for a good time, not a long time' boys. Or they're sneaking and have no intention of ever letting their wives know about this couples profile they have created, but it gets them free pics to drool over.
If your profile represents you, and it is bare and boring, then I'm inclined to think that you are too.
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Lazy and entitled. They usually have this idea that they can just walk in and pick a lady/couple from the catalogue and get serviced. The 'here for a good time, not a long time' boys. Or they're sneaking and have no intention of ever letting their wives know about this couples profile they have created, but it gets them free pics to drool over.
If your profile represents you, and it is bare and boring, then I'm inclined to think that you are too.
💯 agree with you on this. Boring profiles = boring lovers. If one can put Effort in something like a profile then you’re definitely going to put effort into everything else. I can’t be bothered to reply to profiles with little or no info. What’s the point 🙄
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I suppose when it comes to public media,in todays times there are alot of people on the site who are pic collectors and on the site to see whos in the lifestyle so some prefer to keep it private by not putting any pics
But then at least have a decent profile description!
Its truly an issue these days. And not just with blank profiles, unfortunately there are a lot of profiles that are actually well detailed and filled in yet never bother to live out the lifestyle. honestly dont know why people even bother to be on the site to start off with if they never plan to meet or actually try to live out the lifestyle, like its a sexual lifestyle that you should logically think about before even bothering to join it. Yes personal lives are a thing, work and kids and busy weekends are a thing, totally understandable but jeez if you are more than 6 months on the site and havent done anything, no meetups, no vouches, basically just a "bot" profile...whats the point? Like the site should have a time limit or something which says you cannot be on the site for longer than a period of time if you havent actually done anything to meet people.
The obvious first step would be to not respond to any messages. . . . Second step? Well . . . People like that should be helped understand they are overstepping
I would think that the vast majority of people have very open eyes.
Even after saying the other profile was deleted, you are still here typing agreesive words towards them, seems like their initial statement about you was not far off.
Move on already.
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I would think that the vast majority of people have very open eyes.
Even after saying the other profile was deleted, you are still here typing agreesive words towards them, seems like their initial statement about you was not far off.
Move on already.
You clearly dont know all the facts, i did not even message them, did not even bother to view the profile, its because that person saw me in the community pool room after re-creating their profile and thougt it would be funny to name and shame for nothing. Funny how you find it aggressive when its simply just words. That other profile was definitely a scammer, go and find out from the mods for yourself, and also i have moved on... you are the one thats replying when you are not even part of the problem 🤷♂️ i am allowed to stand up for myself and protect myself whether it be aggressive or polite. Like i said here i am and the other one is gone, go ask the site admin sarah yourself and you will see. They are already planning to block the IP because they found the name of that profile, if you dont know all the facts, why bother to reply?
Move on already 😉 you replying as if that "lady" promised you a blowy? do you honestly believe all people are innocent just because they are female? Seriously man. Have a good day.
🤣🤣 case and point
Okidoki😂👍 no point arguing with someone that cannot educate themselves with facts.
Let's not harass a member that is already being harassed by a scammer that keeps opening a profile just to harass this member and then deleting it. This has happened a few times before and we keep deleting the posts.
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Let's not harass a member that is already being harassed by a scammer that keeps opening a profile just to harass this member and then deleting it. This has happened a few times before and we keep deleting the posts.
Thank you, truly appreciate the help!🙏❤️
The "empty profiles" are also most likely to message you with that panty-dropping introduction... "Hi". Some are well-educated and will add "Nice profile". How many of those do they send out each night?
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So this has been bothering me for some time now...
Why do people have profiles with the bare minimum, no profile pic, no public media, not even a well constructed bio?
And active accounts that have joined many years ago, still stating "Hi we are new to this". What's up with that?
Yes that and profile without pic then they dm you and after some chats exchange wu numbers and once they send you some nudes you also send nudes and then they want to blackmail you.
Good Evening/ Morning Everyone, I have to say that I have recently been also feeling very suspicious about the new Members, especially the Female Members, if you have a look at the new members and filter by Sex , All the Female Members that have recently joined, Usernames are typed in a very similar style and they have numbers at End. One that I befriended last night, wanted photos of specific body parts, this disturbed me as I respect all members but this was uncomfortable.
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Good Evening/ Morning Everyone, I have to say that I have recently been also feeling very suspicious about the new Members, especially the Female Members, if you have a look at the new members and filter by Sex , All the Female Members that have recently joined, Usernames are typed in a very similar style and they have numbers at End. One that I befriended last night, wanted photos of specific body parts, this disturbed me as I respect all members but this was uncomfortable.
Its so bad that i dont even bother to click on the "new" profiles anymore. All it takes is 1 little interaction with them and boom, they try their best to scam you or make things very difficult for a person. And unfortunately this site is not so secure like others. By the time you report it that profile is gone or has already done the damage. Moral of the story is dont bother clicking on new profiles until that person has completed their profile and has a vouch from someone that has been in the lifestyle for a long time now. Also check if they are verified, some people usually dont go through all that effort and the ones that do are normally here for genuine meetups. But yeah in general just dont bother clicking on the new profiles. Waste of time
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Yes that and profile without pic then they dm you and after some chats exchange wu numbers and once they send you some nudes you also send nudes and then they want to blackmail you.
Morning…. That’s why I stick to my rules. I won’t send you any pics or anything until we meet for a coffee at a public place or something. It’s safer and you can walk away if you don’t like what you see. Yes it flippen tempting when a lady has some interest in your profile but trust me. It’s not worth it. They blackmail you very quickly. Been there before. That’s why my profile says that I don’t do the 3 million messages. We meet and then we can do the messages as many as you like. It’s really difficult to meet someone with rules but trust me there is a lot of couples and girls that feels the same way. There are guys pretending to be girls or even a couple. There was “Couple” that I met up with at there house. Full of promises and when I got there the guy said his wife is on her way. After an hour I told him I am leaving. He offered me cash if he could just suck my dick. Only to realise the guy is full on gay and that’s how he catch some of the guys. Almost got anal .. The thing is… Couples talk to each other and same with the ladies. They know who you can trust on here and who is a no go.
Just my 2c of how I feel about this.
