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BrattyKitty
16 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 50
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Wait what!!! I had no idea this black ring thing was a thingโ€ฆ..and the toe ring ๐Ÿซฃ live and learn ๐Ÿ˜…

Quote by Str8FunMFM

Lazy and entitled. They usually have this idea that they can just walk in and pick a lady/couple from the catalogue and get serviced. The 'here for a good time, not a long time' boys. Or they're sneaking and have no intention of ever letting their wives know about this couples profile they have created, but it gets them free pics to drool over.

If your profile represents you, and it is bare and boring, then I'm inclined to think that you are too.

๐Ÿ’ฏ agree with you on this. Boring profiles = boring lovers. If one can put Effort in something like a profile then youโ€™re definitely going to put effort into everything else. I canโ€™t be bothered to reply to profiles with little or no info. Whatโ€™s the point ๐Ÿ™„

Kissing can be amazing if done well or it can be similar to a Boerbull slobbering on you if not but itโ€™s something I enjoy so much and when you kiss well and kiss in a way that makes every sane thought leave my head I can be persuaded to forget my own rules and to be a lady. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ A simple โ€œgoodbye and thanks for the dateโ€ can turn into a moment of insanity where you both forget youโ€™re in public and have eyes on you ๐Ÿคญ and thatโ€™s what makes the heart pump a little faster and breath quickens

Deliciously addictive if done well and as many have said, often more is required to satisfy my lips ๐Ÿซฆ

Soft kisses are sweet and fun but having someone get caught up in the moment with you unexpectedly and suddenly you find yourself pressed against a car and fighting for your own sanity to return is intensely passionate and all I want is more more more in those moments. ๐Ÿ”ฅ

Quote by Eye4u

I guess there are many people, with false profiles (men pretending they are females), interested in this sort of pleasure, BUT I doubt that any real females are into this. I you are the exception and really interested, contact me and we can make arrangements (online or in person).

Excuse me? Do you have a set of breasts that give you the power to generalise like that?? I am very much a woman and I fucking love watching men play.

Seems youโ€™re the only one with a voice at the moment loud enough to hear right now but take my word on it, many men here wear stockings for their own pleasure and even more wear them when told to and they are often surprised at how much they enjoy it. ๐Ÿ˜ might I suggest you Join Fetlife. Perhaps you will find your people there. Message me and Iโ€™ll give you my name there. Youโ€™ll find some on my friends list.

Youโ€™re not alone ๐Ÿ˜Š

Quote by sexysam69

okay the woman's perspective.... 

I have done it twice.  1st 5 men and 2nd 7 . 1st time was great,  but we were new and the setting and everything just worked . Made me super horny and I couldn't get enough.  2nd time around was a few years ago.  Hubby arranged it as a surprise and set the stage . While it was good one guy couldn't get it up but still tried fucking with n limp dick,  and one other kept slapping me and that got old quickly.  So eventually I just lost the mood and gave them a Marie and went to bed. 



โ€œGave them a Marie and went to bedโ€ I laughed so hard I almost burst a foofi valve. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

People donโ€™t read ๐Ÿ™„ I have a simple request in my profile and I can alway tell if someone read my profile or not by it.

1/10 read ๐Ÿ˜‚ it does make it easy to decide who to reply to though ๐Ÿ˜‰

Quote by Katznbunnies

My humble 2cents on the topic:

Its not about if a lady can or can't squirt, its about if you, as the person pleasing her, knows what you doing or not.

Pleasing a woman goes far beyond simply stimulating her physical form. The most important erogenous zone cant be touched by your hands.

A woman can have experienced squirting hundreds of times previously in her life, but if you dont know what you doing, dont make her feel safe and secure, in the right mental space, she aint squirting for you, never will.

Its an emotional, mental state, not a physical one.

Spot on and ๐Ÿ’ฏ right.

I think with something like squirting itโ€™s made better by a connection. Knowing the persons mind before knowing their body and then taking your time and getting to know all the point on her body that react to you and coupling that knowledge with using your words and hands and lips to make her forget her own name. Claim her mind and her body will follow when you lead. Youโ€™ll need to remind her to breathe if youโ€™re doing a good job.

Life is so rushed as it is, this is one of those times to slow it down. Build heat ๐Ÿ”ฅ then let it run away and hold on for dear life. Might I suggest attempting suicide by drowning or by being crushed by her thighs when the moment cums ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ great place to be.

Depending on your budget Makiti bnb is clean, neat and nice. Brookwoold trout farm is a lovely and quiet place and reasonable. But Kloofzicht is by far and away the place to go. Lots of outdoor areas if you like some fun on a trial. ๐Ÿ˜

Quote by Ryan71

It seems to be a part of playing that is not done much or is not spoken about much. Ladies are often surprised when they experience it for the first time. ๐Ÿ˜‰

That's what changed my opinions on this. Being with. Man who enjoyed it and forced me to sit and not hover and then showing me how much he enjoyed it. Still reluctant to attempt murder but if he shows me thatโ€™s itโ€™s what he wants then fuck his life may be in danger โš ๏ธ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

Quote by BeeCeeCpt

We will gladly teach you how to handle the rod with no reel on a fishing trip where the lines don't touch the water. ๐Ÿคญ

Such a sweet offer but Iโ€™m familiar with that rod and the handling of it. ๐Ÿ˜‡ it tends to be a little explosive sometimes and when you get a biteโ€ฆโ€ฆoh my well the excitement can get out of hand quickly ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‰

Quote by BeeCeeCpt

You will be surprised what you can get up to while fishing.... Believe me, catching a fish is just a bonus to the day out, definitely not the objective!

Iโ€™ve never tried that kind of fishing trip but it sounds like fun ๐Ÿ˜

Quote by prometheus

I think it can be a great experience to go fishing with a couple or a lady for a weekend. I love flyfishing and bass fishing. I usually go for about an hour in the morning and then an hour at sunset. The rest of the day is then free to do other stuff.

Now thatโ€™s the way to do it, but make it 2 hours either way ๐Ÿ˜‰

Quote by Gentlecouplefr

Year I think so, send us your details

No interested in you thanks, just curious about why youโ€™re having a rough time here. ๐Ÿฟ ๐Ÿ‘€

Have you pissed off an admin in this place that everything you say is being removed? Cause it seems every post I see of yours has been โ€˜Removed by Adminโ€™. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

Quote by Kyledaniels10

Iโ€™ve got a 12 Inch bwc

And this is why Men like Dazza attract high value women and you are picking up the table scraps of real

Men. ๐Ÿ™„

I like your advice very much. Hope you are heard. More charming Gentleman like you needed. ๐Ÿ˜˜

Quote by Katznbunnies

Why?

I have never met anyone in the lifestyle doing either. ๐Ÿ˜‚ but both could be fun ๐Ÿ˜

Judging by the number of toe sucking requests I get in my dmโ€™s its definitely a thing and thank gosh it is ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿฆถ

Move on, let go, it was not meant to be. Heal โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน

Quote by fadnad

Preach on

If you reply instantly members think it's a yes to playing

If you don't reply you are stuck up

Also agree members need to remember you have a whole life off sh and you might take a while to reply or even meet

Oh and don't get me started on the crazy msgs a guy asked me can he pee on my boobs and that was his first msg to me

But hey don't let a few rotten apples spoil your fun coz the is some really genuine and fun people on sh

Who does this shit in a first message. MEN step the fuck up and show respect for fuck sakes. Never had a message like these from a woman. This is not what we most of us donโ€™t. So maybe err on the side of caution until you at least speak to us.

Quote by My_CakeIsMoist

Back here because damn. Triggered AF. Unless it's a yes it's a no. Why do I have people hounding me for explicit no's? If it's not an explicit yes it's a no. Nos can be silent. Nos can be in action. And no is no. Why do you say you're okay with a no when actually your hounding me for a no means you're not ๐Ÿ’€

Sounds way too familiar. ๐Ÿ˜ค sorry youโ€™re having a bad day.

I just had a man message me and offer to pay me to take a dump on his chest. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜ฌ Iโ€™ll trade you the โ€˜Noโ€™sโ€™ for the day for that one. ๐Ÿ˜‚

Respect seems like a foreign concept to some.

Quote by Katznbunnies

Going to nitpick here, the point is a discussion afterall and I'm not sure 'passionate' is the right word here for type of sex referenced.

Dont need to be rough to be passionate.

One sees piston sex on porn all the time and no way thats remotely anything passionate.

Passion

By its definition, wouldnt that incl kissing and all that, isnt sensual/passionate oft a combo package?

Isnt the word/term referring to here more "hard, lustful" sex?

Ohhh I like the way you said this and I agree. Iโ€™ll take passionate over sensual any day. That feeling when your brain shuts off and your body takes over is addictive. ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

Quote by CEMGuy

Now here is an excellent compromise - I love this kind of thinking and willingness ๐Ÿ˜ "ride his face" yes please ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Hey you gotta find a way to make things work ๐Ÿ˜‰

Quote by Sofistikitty

It's definitely hot when a guy says it but the act itself is tricky. Being a big chick, you have big thighs and it's difficult to navigate. Hovering over your face isn't attractive or for the faint of heart. Plus you'll need Siya Kolisi's thigh strength to keep yourself up , it doesn't feel good or reach the places you need (for me personally)But , on my back with knees on your shoulders... I'm in.

I found a way around the balancing issue us bigger beautiful women face. If he really wants this then have him put his head towards the bottom of the bed and reverse your ass over him and sit. Depending on where his head is in the bed you can keep both feet on the floor and a little of your rump weight on his chest so youโ€™re secure. Just straighten your legs and slide down for a better and harder fit on his face. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ or some breath play and let go. I never enjoyed it much either cause I spent to much time worrying about hurting my partner ๐Ÿ˜… but try putting a small/medium sized dildo inside yourself (side mission -make him watch without touching himself as you put it in and tease him wickedly). One that fits comfortably so you can ride it while he uses his mouth. Literally ride his face hun ๐Ÿ˜ˆ. This is a power position of note, youโ€™re in control of everything. Make the most of it and him. ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜

I know many women (myself included) are worried about being convicted of murdering their partner by drowning or suffocating them with this particular kink ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Quote by Str8FunMFM

Something from a woman's perspective:

Women won't post their faces openly. We are too aware of the dangers of being stalked. So if the profile pic is a face, it's probably a scammer.

Profile descriptions also give them away sometimes. My advice would be to chill on the full face pic until you've established they are real, and be aware of what kind of info you give out.

Stay safe naughties

Alice ๐Ÿ˜˜

Fuck I just realised I look like a fake ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜….