Identify swingers in public

How can you recognize swingers in a restaurant or bar? Is the upside down pineapple and black ring on righthand still a thing?

We wear our black rings...had a couple of looks and smiles but then M loves dressing very sexy...so it might be that, not sure. No approaches yet!

We should spread the word. Don't think many knows this

I would also like to know. Didn't have any luck wearing a black ring.

We also wear black rings, and nothing so far.

Black rings seem to have become a fashionable thing with the public in general and can no longer be considered as credible identification of Swingers. Somehow we need to come up with something new that is unique, discreet and which easily blends into everyday life.

Swingers will recognize other swingers in a bar/restaurant wearing black rings. There will be some engagement like staring, smiles, etc… I just think there are not so many people in the lifestyle as we swingers think

The black rings is a fashion statement now so it's difficult to spot if dey swingers or wearing it for fashion but also alot of people are discreet and don't want other people to know

Oh the is a necklace that you can buy from a swinger website but not seen anyone in SA wearing it

Black rings on which hand, and which finger 🤘

Right hand any finger

Black rings are way to common, I know the toe ring for females use to be where you could tell if the couples are swingers as well... Not sure if that's still a thing.

Wait what!!! I had no idea this black ring thing was a thing…..and the toe ring 🫣 live and learn 😅

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Wait what!!! I had no idea this black ring thing was a thing…..and the toe ring 🫣 live and learn 😅

maybe a nipple ring

Maybe when in public holding ones hand in this pose could be used as a sign. 👌

We also didn't know anything about the black rings. It can be nice if there can be a secret way of recognising each in public space.

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maybe a nipple ring

Little hard to see though 😂the clothing

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Little hard to see though 😂the clothing

Lol.... But would be a good idea 😋

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We also didn't know anything about the black rings. It can be nice if there can be a secret way of recognising each in public space.

Whenever in Cpt ..do what us Capetonians do... Wear black rings 😈 again.... Lol

Pineapple is actually more the swingers sign. Perhaps a necklace, keyring, on your handbag somewhere, etc..

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Pineapple is actually more the swingers sign. Perhaps a necklace, keyring, on your handbag somewhere, etc..

A colleague brought a lunch box covered in pineapples to work the other day, but didn't catch on when I asked her if any of them were upside down.

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Pineapple is actually more the swingers sign. Perhaps a necklace, keyring, on your handbag somewhere, etc..

Yeah i asked all my friends if they knew what it meant and none of them were able to identify that it means "swinging", i guess any normal person wouldn't really know what it means, there must be easier ways to show and identify.