Hmm I’m Bi (although my profile says straight to slow down the number of men that message me for threesomes which I detest) and as a Bi woman, if I meet or get approached by a woman who says she is Bi curious, I run the other direction. I’m not sure if what my bestie told me is correct but when she switched from Straight to Bi after doing a Podcast on all this stuff, she came out to me as Bi curious. The description she gave me was this. “She likes women, but not enough to want to do anything more the possibly kiss them. They however could play with her and eat her and fuck her and satisfy her and she would be fine with all of that. But there is no way she would ever reciprocate because the idea revolted her.”

As a Bi woman that loves to give and get, so that’s a hard no for me and while I love her to bits I find this opinion sexually selfish and lazy and there is no way I’ll go near a Bi curious women. It’s having your cake and not eating it. 🍰 a waste.

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7 times with 7 partners? Or 7 times with the same partner?

Yeah I also wanna know ??

You’re so sweet ❤️‍🔥 but you know very well I’m the kind that break your heart and you still can’t help wanting me. So hardly gentle 😔

Now stop flirting with me 😜 before I fall in love again.

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or someone who has experienced this to tell others or the return of such

Just did sweet man 😈💋

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so true what you say, one must be spontaneous, one must elude the other in seduction and create that what cant easily be replaced by another. I know as i had a experience last year June / July with a lady. the experience and lust desired from our encounters was enormously huge for me. to find another as such will be near impossible or even close to gain. love lost , hearts , well life is hard without such of which one desires, nothing or no one will ever be able to replace her in any way possible.

but.....within the same breath it too goes both ways, I've seen and experienced ladies who, well lick and flick and try there utmost best to get him to blow his load. look if you not willing to put the time and effort in for the lady or guy and arouse them to the fullest, then rather leave this lifestyle, no one wants a thog who just wants to make another notch on there lists

You should be giving lessons to the men😈 and showing the ladies in here the difference between boys and a man 🫦💋

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@Bratty, Some guys actually know how to please a women with just their mouth :-)

😜

Very few sadly, pleasing us goes so much deeper than just licking and sucking, that’s easy. Ensuring we can’t stand up for 20min without passing out 😼😼 well now that’s a skill I’ve only found with one man in the lifestyle.

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Does the pineapple have to be on pizza? That is a bridge too far for me... Just teasing!

🤣🤣🤣 no pizza necessary. Especially one with garlic 😉

If you know you’re going down on someone or someone’s going down on you, eat pineapple. 🍍 lots of it. Makes everything taste and smell better. Avoid onions, curry and asparagus 😬

You men that enjoy it need to teach those that don’t the ropes. The balance is way off on this one. One of the most amazing forms of pleasure and most men spend their time lapping at a clit thinking that’s all there is to it. 🙄 or worse sucking on a lip thinking it’s a clit.

I went on a girls night out with my besties to Amsterdam last year and a woman lay across the back of my couch while we were chatting. She spread her legs and a man got between them and started eating her. I looked and moved back to the conversation with my friends. I looked back every now again out of curiosity and once she was cleaning her nails, another time she rolled her eyes and smiled at me and 30min later I heard a soft snore in my ear and looked back to find her sleeping while he ate.

Wtf!!!! MEN she she is not squirming all over the bed/floor/couch or moaning like a banshee or trying to blind you by squirting in your eyes …..YOU are not doing it right. Go watch some lesbian porn and learn about other areas far more interesting then a clit and how to use mouth, fingers, hand and fucking toys if you have too. But learn for fuck sakes.

Dutchess I rather like your idea of giving what you get. I think I’ll start doing that too. Cause fuck it suck’s going all in and sucking the life force from a man only to have him flap a tongue like a puppy and ask “did you cum yet?” 🙄🙄

Don’t be that guy!!! Please.

Now why don’t these things happen for real? Naked cuddle parties don’t exist but they should. 🥰

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Will it be naked cuddles or not?

The best kind always are 😌😏

Ohhhh your venue is perfect for dogging🤩 what a great idea. Hmm would not have minded a peek 👀 to when I was there 😏Nice idea this hope you find some keen friends.

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waiting for the next cuddle has taken so long....was kinda hoping to reunite ...but now i accept all cuddles around. lol as they say a half a cuddle is better than no cuddle at all

You made it clear reuniting was not an option for you. Plus probably would fuck us both up again. But I do miss those cuddles.

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maybe a nipple ring

Little hard to see though 😂the clothing

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i think i give the greatest cuddles....

You definitely did 🥰

Wait what!!! I had no idea this black ring thing was a thing…..and the toe ring 🫣 live and learn 😅

Not sure if that’s a cuddle but that sounds awesome 🤗

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Lazy and entitled. They usually have this idea that they can just walk in and pick a lady/couple from the catalogue and get serviced. The 'here for a good time, not a long time' boys. Or they're sneaking and have no intention of ever letting their wives know about this couples profile they have created, but it gets them free pics to drool over.

If your profile represents you, and it is bare and boring, then I'm inclined to think that you are too.

💯 agree with you on this. Boring profiles = boring lovers. If one can put Effort in something like a profile then you’re definitely going to put effort into everything else. I can’t be bothered to reply to profiles with little or no info. What’s the point 🙄

Kissing can be amazing if done well or it can be similar to a Boerbull slobbering on you if not but it’s something I enjoy so much and when you kiss well and kiss in a way that makes every sane thought leave my head I can be persuaded to forget my own rules and to be a lady. 😈 A simple “goodbye and thanks for the date” can turn into a moment of insanity where you both forget you’re in public and have eyes on you 🤭 and that’s what makes the heart pump a little faster and breath quickens

Deliciously addictive if done well and as many have said, often more is required to satisfy my lips 🫦

Soft kisses are sweet and fun but having someone get caught up in the moment with you unexpectedly and suddenly you find yourself pressed against a car and fighting for your own sanity to return is intensely passionate and all I want is more more more in those moments. 🔥

Fuck no, never. 👎🏻

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I guess there are many people, with false profiles (men pretending they are females), interested in this sort of pleasure, BUT I doubt that any real females are into this. I you are the exception and really interested, contact me and we can make arrangements (online or in person).

Excuse me? Do you have a set of breasts that give you the power to generalise like that?? I am very much a woman and I fucking love watching men play.

Seems you’re the only one with a voice at the moment loud enough to hear right now but take my word on it, many men here wear stockings for their own pleasure and even more wear them when told to and they are often surprised at how much they enjoy it. 😏 might I suggest you Join Fetlife. Perhaps you will find your people there. Message me and I’ll give you my name there. You’ll find some on my friends list.

You’re not alone 😊

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okay the woman's perspective.... 

I have done it twice.  1st 5 men and 2nd 7 . 1st time was great,  but we were new and the setting and everything just worked . Made me super horny and I couldn't get enough.  2nd time around was a few years ago.  Hubby arranged it as a surprise and set the stage . While it was good one guy couldn't get it up but still tried fucking with n limp dick,  and one other kept slapping me and that got old quickly.  So eventually I just lost the mood and gave them a Marie and went to bed. 

“Gave them a Marie and went to bed” I laughed so hard I almost burst a foofi valve. 🤣🤣

People don’t read 🙄 I have a simple request in my profile and I can alway tell if someone read my profile or not by it.

1/10 read 😂 it does make it easy to decide who to reply to though 😉

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My humble 2cents on the topic:

Its not about if a lady can or can't squirt, its about if you, as the person pleasing her, knows what you doing or not.

Pleasing a woman goes far beyond simply stimulating her physical form. The most important erogenous zone cant be touched by your hands.

A woman can have experienced squirting hundreds of times previously in her life, but if you dont know what you doing, dont make her feel safe and secure, in the right mental space, she aint squirting for you, never will.

Its an emotional, mental state, not a physical one.

Spot on and 💯 right.

I think with something like squirting it’s made better by a connection. Knowing the persons mind before knowing their body and then taking your time and getting to know all the point on her body that react to you and coupling that knowledge with using your words and hands and lips to make her forget her own name. Claim her mind and her body will follow when you lead. You’ll need to remind her to breathe if you’re doing a good job.

Life is so rushed as it is, this is one of those times to slow it down. Build heat 🔥 then let it run away and hold on for dear life. Might I suggest attempting suicide by drowning or by being crushed by her thighs when the moment cums 💦😈 great place to be.

All in the Cradle of Mankind.

Depending on your budget Makiti bnb is clean, neat and nice. Brookwoold trout farm is a lovely and quiet place and reasonable. But Kloofzicht is by far and away the place to go. Lots of outdoor areas if you like some fun on a trial. 😏

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It seems to be a part of playing that is not done much or is not spoken about much. Ladies are often surprised when they experience it for the first time. 😉

That's what changed my opinions on this. Being with. Man who enjoyed it and forced me to sit and not hover and then showing me how much he enjoyed it. Still reluctant to attempt murder but if he shows me that’s it’s what he wants then fuck his life may be in danger ⚠️💦😈

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We will gladly teach you how to handle the rod with no reel on a fishing trip where the lines don't touch the water. 🤭

Such a sweet offer but I’m familiar with that rod and the handling of it. 😇 it tends to be a little explosive sometimes and when you get a bite……oh my well the excitement can get out of hand quickly 😅😂😉

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You will be surprised what you can get up to while fishing.... Believe me, catching a fish is just a bonus to the day out, definitely not the objective!

I’ve never tried that kind of fishing trip but it sounds like fun 😏