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okay the woman's perspective.... 

I have done it twice.  1st 5 men and 2nd 7 . 1st time was great,  but we were new and the setting and everything just worked . Made me super horny and I couldn't get enough.  2nd time around was a few years ago.  Hubby arranged it as a surprise and set the stage . While it was good one guy couldn't get it up but still tried fucking with n limp dick,  and one other kept slapping me and that got old quickly.  So eventually I just lost the mood and gave them a Marie and went to bed. 

“Gave them a Marie and went to bed” I laughed so hard I almost burst a foofi valve. 🤣🤣

People don’t read 🙄 I have a simple request in my profile and I can alway tell if someone read my profile or not by it.

1/10 read 😂 it does make it easy to decide who to reply to though 😉

Quote by Katznbunnies

My humble 2cents on the topic:

Its not about if a lady can or can't squirt, its about if you, as the person pleasing her, knows what you doing or not.

Pleasing a woman goes far beyond simply stimulating her physical form. The most important erogenous zone cant be touched by your hands.

A woman can have experienced squirting hundreds of times previously in her life, but if you dont know what you doing, dont make her feel safe and secure, in the right mental space, she aint squirting for you, never will.

Its an emotional, mental state, not a physical one.

Spot on and 💯 right.

I think with something like squirting it’s made better by a connection. Knowing the persons mind before knowing their body and then taking your time and getting to know all the point on her body that react to you and coupling that knowledge with using your words and hands and lips to make her forget her own name. Claim her mind and her body will follow when you lead. You’ll need to remind her to breathe if you’re doing a good job.

Life is so rushed as it is, this is one of those times to slow it down. Build heat 🔥 then let it run away and hold on for dear life. Might I suggest attempting suicide by drowning or by being crushed by her thighs when the moment cums 💦😈 great place to be.

All in the Cradle of Mankind.

Depending on your budget Makiti bnb is clean, neat and nice. Brookwoold trout farm is a lovely and quiet place and reasonable. But Kloofzicht is by far and away the place to go. Lots of outdoor areas if you like some fun on a trial. 😏

Quote by Ryan71

It seems to be a part of playing that is not done much or is not spoken about much. Ladies are often surprised when they experience it for the first time. 😉

That's what changed my opinions on this. Being with. Man who enjoyed it and forced me to sit and not hover and then showing me how much he enjoyed it. Still reluctant to attempt murder but if he shows me that’s it’s what he wants then fuck his life may be in danger ⚠️💦😈

Quote by BeeCeeCpt

We will gladly teach you how to handle the rod with no reel on a fishing trip where the lines don't touch the water. 🤭

Such a sweet offer but I’m familiar with that rod and the handling of it. 😇 it tends to be a little explosive sometimes and when you get a bite……oh my well the excitement can get out of hand quickly 😅😂😉

Quote by BeeCeeCpt

You will be surprised what you can get up to while fishing.... Believe me, catching a fish is just a bonus to the day out, definitely not the objective!

I’ve never tried that kind of fishing trip but it sounds like fun 😏

Quote by prometheus

I think it can be a great experience to go fishing with a couple or a lady for a weekend. I love flyfishing and bass fishing. I usually go for about an hour in the morning and then an hour at sunset. The rest of the day is then free to do other stuff.

Now that’s the way to do it, but make it 2 hours either way 😉

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Year I think so, send us your details

No interested in you thanks, just curious about why you’re having a rough time here. 🍿 👀

Have you pissed off an admin in this place that everything you say is being removed? Cause it seems every post I see of yours has been ‘Removed by Admin’. 😬

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I’ve got a 12 Inch bwc

And this is why Men like Dazza attract high value women and you are picking up the table scraps of real

Men. 🙄

I like your advice very much. Hope you are heard. More charming Gentleman like you needed. 😘

Quote by Katznbunnies

Why?

I have never met anyone in the lifestyle doing either. 😂 but both could be fun 😏

Judging by the number of toe sucking requests I get in my dm’s its definitely a thing and thank gosh it is 😏 🦶

Move on, let go, it was not meant to be. Heal ❤️‍🩹

Quote by fadnad

Preach on

If you reply instantly members think it's a yes to playing

If you don't reply you are stuck up

Also agree members need to remember you have a whole life off sh and you might take a while to reply or even meet

Oh and don't get me started on the crazy msgs a guy asked me can he pee on my boobs and that was his first msg to me

But hey don't let a few rotten apples spoil your fun coz the is some really genuine and fun people on sh

Who does this shit in a first message. MEN step the fuck up and show respect for fuck sakes. Never had a message like these from a woman. This is not what we most of us don’t. So maybe err on the side of caution until you at least speak to us.

Quote by My_CakeIsMoist

Back here because damn. Triggered AF. Unless it's a yes it's a no. Why do I have people hounding me for explicit no's? If it's not an explicit yes it's a no. Nos can be silent. Nos can be in action. And no is no. Why do you say you're okay with a no when actually your hounding me for a no means you're not 💀

Sounds way too familiar. 😤 sorry you’re having a bad day.

I just had a man message me and offer to pay me to take a dump on his chest. 🙄😬 I’ll trade you the ‘No’s’ for the day for that one. 😂

Respect seems like a foreign concept to some.

Quote by Katznbunnies

Going to nitpick here, the point is a discussion afterall and I'm not sure 'passionate' is the right word here for type of sex referenced.

Dont need to be rough to be passionate.

One sees piston sex on porn all the time and no way thats remotely anything passionate.

Passion

By its definition, wouldnt that incl kissing and all that, isnt sensual/passionate oft a combo package?

Isnt the word/term referring to here more "hard, lustful" sex?

Ohhh I like the way you said this and I agree. I’ll take passionate over sensual any day. That feeling when your brain shuts off and your body takes over is addictive. 😵‍💫😈

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Now here is an excellent compromise - I love this kind of thinking and willingness 😁 "ride his face" yes please 😎

Hey you gotta find a way to make things work 😉

Quote by Sofistikitty

It's definitely hot when a guy says it but the act itself is tricky. Being a big chick, you have big thighs and it's difficult to navigate. Hovering over your face isn't attractive or for the faint of heart. Plus you'll need Siya Kolisi's thigh strength to keep yourself up , it doesn't feel good or reach the places you need (for me personally)But , on my back with knees on your shoulders... I'm in.

I found a way around the balancing issue us bigger beautiful women face. If he really wants this then have him put his head towards the bottom of the bed and reverse your ass over him and sit. Depending on where his head is in the bed you can keep both feet on the floor and a little of your rump weight on his chest so you’re secure. Just straighten your legs and slide down for a better and harder fit on his face. 😈 or some breath play and let go. I never enjoyed it much either cause I spent to much time worrying about hurting my partner 😅 but try putting a small/medium sized dildo inside yourself (side mission -make him watch without touching himself as you put it in and tease him wickedly). One that fits comfortably so you can ride it while he uses his mouth. Literally ride his face hun 😈. This is a power position of note, you’re in control of everything. Make the most of it and him. 😉😏

I know many women (myself included) are worried about being convicted of murdering their partner by drowning or suffocating them with this particular kink 😂😂

Quote by Str8FunMFM

Something from a woman's perspective:

Women won't post their faces openly. We are too aware of the dangers of being stalked. So if the profile pic is a face, it's probably a scammer.

Profile descriptions also give them away sometimes. My advice would be to chill on the full face pic until you've established they are real, and be aware of what kind of info you give out.

Stay safe naughties

Alice 😘

Fuck I just realised I look like a fake 😂😂😅.

‘Daddy I’d Like to fuck’ 😈

Quote by shy_couple
I can't speak for all or even any man except myself, but I for one absolutely love going down on a woman. It genuinely is the biggest turn on for me. I love the scent, and although I've only been with about 6 ladies in my time, I've never been with one that didn't smell divine. No two exactly alike either. I've always suspected a "bad smell" indicates a medical problem. I love the look of a vulva in all their shapes and sizes (and unlike most people on this site, I love them naturally hairy and not baby smooth). I love the taste and the feel of all the juicy bits in my mouth, the ultimate turn-on! And I adore the feeling of gently sucking on my wife's clitoris while also stimulating it with my tongue (and sometimes perhaps clumsily trying to use my fingers too in other areas - unless they're stimulating her nipples). I love pleasuring a lady (or for the past 11 years, specifically 1 lady) in this way and making her squirm until she eventually pushes me away unable to take any more. I've always been happy to give and not receive in return (although I have never been denied), and would happily do this several times a day if my wife desired (and if time permitted)... And I've always done it first without my partner having to ask, never because of what I wanted in return and I've never stopped until she has wanted me to. At one time I used to fantasize about being an oral only call-guy, but alas that fantasy was never realised.

Oh my 🥵 this is beautiful written and so sexy. Sir, your wife should see this because if a man spoke of me in this sensual and seductive way I would want to know he felt this and that I did this to him. I know it was awhile ago but bravo Sir BRAVO 🙌🩷

Ohhhh huge turn on 🔥but with men I know, trust and enjoy. Not strangers

DILF’s are delicious 🤤 and ate definitely a ‘thing’. 😈

A blind night.

Obviously done with someone I trust totally but I would like a night where I am blindfolded for the duration of the night and gagged so I can’t see or speak and have only my hearing, smell and sense of touch left.

What happens that night would be in the hands of my partner (hence the reason I said someone I trust) who knows my fantasies and desires and will ensure the night is all about me and my pleasure. I want to hand control of my body over to him and let myself go and know I will be safe.

Then just let go and enjoy pure sensation. Tomorrow is another day but for just one night I want to lose control and be animalistic and savage.

The next day, I want every muscle to ache, when I sit down I want to moan softly and feel tender knowing what my body endured, knowing I was well used.

I’m a control freak and don’t trust easily so this is not likely a fantasy I’d ever have but it’s one I enjoy immensely when I pontificate a while. 😏 since fantasies can be just that….i like this one. ☝️

I’m a gamer and love fishing, neither hobbies fit with this lifestyle 🤣

I like natural breasts the most, fake does nothing for me. As far as size goes, visually I like smaller breasts but when it comes to actually playing with them and enjoying them…big 💯

Big have so much flexibility and there so so many things to be done with them. When they are small there is not enough surface area to tease and play with.

So big it is 😏