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BrattyKitty
4 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 49
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Quote by prometheus

I think it can be a great experience to go fishing with a couple or a lady for a weekend. I love flyfishing and bass fishing. I usually go for about an hour in the morning and then an hour at sunset. The rest of the day is then free to do other stuff.

Now that’s the way to do it, but make it 2 hours either way 😉

Quote by Gentlecouplefr

Year I think so, send us your details

No interested in you thanks, just curious about why you’re having a rough time here. 🍿 👀

Have you pissed off an admin in this place that everything you say is being removed? Cause it seems every post I see of yours has been ‘Removed by Admin’. 😬

Quote by Kyledaniels10

I’ve got a 12 Inch bwc

And this is why Men like Dazza attract high value women and you are picking up the table scraps of real

Men. 🙄

I like your advice very much. Hope you are heard. More charming Gentleman like you needed. 😘

Quote by Katznbunnies

Why?

I have never met anyone in the lifestyle doing either. 😂 but both could be fun 😏

Judging by the number of toe sucking requests I get in my dm’s its definitely a thing and thank gosh it is 😏 🦶

Quote by fadnad

Preach on

If you reply instantly members think it's a yes to playing

If you don't reply you are stuck up

Also agree members need to remember you have a whole life off sh and you might take a while to reply or even meet

Oh and don't get me started on the crazy msgs a guy asked me can he pee on my boobs and that was his first msg to me

But hey don't let a few rotten apples spoil your fun coz the is some really genuine and fun people on sh

Who does this shit in a first message. MEN step the fuck up and show respect for fuck sakes. Never had a message like these from a woman. This is not what we most of us don’t. So maybe err on the side of caution until you at least speak to us.

Quote by My_CakeIsMoist

Back here because damn. Triggered AF. Unless it's a yes it's a no. Why do I have people hounding me for explicit no's? If it's not an explicit yes it's a no. Nos can be silent. Nos can be in action. And no is no. Why do you say you're okay with a no when actually your hounding me for a no means you're not 💀

Sounds way too familiar. 😤 sorry you’re having a bad day.

I just had a man message me and offer to pay me to take a dump on his chest. 🙄😬 I’ll trade you the ‘No’s’ for the day for that one. 😂

Respect seems like a foreign concept to some.

Quote by Katznbunnies

Going to nitpick here, the point is a discussion afterall and I'm not sure 'passionate' is the right word here for type of sex referenced.

Dont need to be rough to be passionate.

One sees piston sex on porn all the time and no way thats remotely anything passionate.

Passion

By its definition, wouldnt that incl kissing and all that, isnt sensual/passionate oft a combo package?

Isnt the word/term referring to here more "hard, lustful" sex?

Ohhh I like the way you said this and I agree. I’ll take passionate over sensual any day. That feeling when your brain shuts off and your body takes over is addictive. 😵‍💫😈

Quote by CEMGuy

Now here is an excellent compromise - I love this kind of thinking and willingness 😁 "ride his face" yes please 😎

Hey you gotta find a way to make things work 😉

Quote by Sofistikitty

It's definitely hot when a guy says it but the act itself is tricky. Being a big chick, you have big thighs and it's difficult to navigate. Hovering over your face isn't attractive or for the faint of heart. Plus you'll need Siya Kolisi's thigh strength to keep yourself up , it doesn't feel good or reach the places you need (for me personally)But , on my back with knees on your shoulders... I'm in.

I found a way around the balancing issue us bigger beautiful women face. If he really wants this then have him put his head towards the bottom of the bed and reverse your ass over him and sit. Depending on where his head is in the bed you can keep both feet on the floor and a little of your rump weight on his chest so you’re secure. Just straighten your legs and slide down for a better and harder fit on his face. 😈 or some breath play and let go. I never enjoyed it much either cause I spent to much time worrying about hurting my partner 😅 but try putting a small/medium sized dildo inside yourself (side mission -make him watch without touching himself as you put it in and tease him wickedly). One that fits comfortably so you can ride it while he uses his mouth. Literally ride his face hun 😈. This is a power position of note, you’re in control of everything. Make the most of it and him. 😉😏

I know many women (myself included) are worried about being convicted of murdering their partner by drowning or suffocating them with this particular kink 😂😂

Quote by Str8FunMFM

Something from a woman's perspective:

Women won't post their faces openly. We are too aware of the dangers of being stalked. So if the profile pic is a face, it's probably a scammer.

Profile descriptions also give them away sometimes. My advice would be to chill on the full face pic until you've established they are real, and be aware of what kind of info you give out.

Stay safe naughties

Alice 😘

Fuck I just realised I look like a fake 😂😂😅.

Quote by shy_couple
I can't speak for all or even any man except myself, but I for one absolutely love going down on a woman. It genuinely is the biggest turn on for me. I love the scent, and although I've only been with about 6 ladies in my time, I've never been with one that didn't smell divine. No two exactly alike either. I've always suspected a "bad smell" indicates a medical problem. I love the look of a vulva in all their shapes and sizes (and unlike most people on this site, I love them naturally hairy and not baby smooth). I love the taste and the feel of all the juicy bits in my mouth, the ultimate turn-on! And I adore the feeling of gently sucking on my wife's clitoris while also stimulating it with my tongue (and sometimes perhaps clumsily trying to use my fingers too in other areas - unless they're stimulating her nipples). I love pleasuring a lady (or for the past 11 years, specifically 1 lady) in this way and making her squirm until she eventually pushes me away unable to take any more. I've always been happy to give and not receive in return (although I have never been denied), and would happily do this several times a day if my wife desired (and if time permitted)... And I've always done it first without my partner having to ask, never because of what I wanted in return and I've never stopped until she has wanted me to. At one time I used to fantasize about being an oral only call-guy, but alas that fantasy was never realised.

Oh my 🥵 this is beautiful written and so sexy. Sir, your wife should see this because if a man spoke of me in this sensual and seductive way I would want to know he felt this and that I did this to him. I know it was awhile ago but bravo Sir BRAVO 🙌🩷

Ohhhh huge turn on 🔥but with men I know, trust and enjoy. Not strangers

A blind night.

Obviously done with someone I trust totally but I would like a night where I am blindfolded for the duration of the night and gagged so I can’t see or speak and have only my hearing, smell and sense of touch left.

What happens that night would be in the hands of my partner (hence the reason I said someone I trust) who knows my fantasies and desires and will ensure the night is all about me and my pleasure. I want to hand control of my body over to him and let myself go and know I will be safe.

Then just let go and enjoy pure sensation. Tomorrow is another day but for just one night I want to lose control and be animalistic and savage.

The next day, I want every muscle to ache, when I sit down I want to moan softly and feel tender knowing what my body endured, knowing I was well used.

I’m a control freak and don’t trust easily so this is not likely a fantasy I’d ever have but it’s one I enjoy immensely when I pontificate a while. 😏 since fantasies can be just that….i like this one. ☝️

I’m a gamer and love fishing, neither hobbies fit with this lifestyle 🤣

I like natural breasts the most, fake does nothing for me. As far as size goes, visually I like smaller breasts but when it comes to actually playing with them and enjoying them…big 💯

Big have so much flexibility and there so so many things to be done with them. When they are small there is not enough surface area to tease and play with.

So big it is 😏

Boobs for sure, love mine and they get a lot of peeks when I’m out. 😈

I only recently discovered this with a partner and I loved waking up with his fingers already in me and half way to orgasm 🥵 it was deliciously sexy and intimate.

Quote by Joz_Pao

I dont have an issue if someone see's me here ! Family friends colleagues does not matter.. The stark Reality is that if someone (Family friends or a colleague) see's me here means they art also interested in teh scene which makes it good right ?

With you here. If they are here then we share a similar interest 😏 could be fun.

I had an invite there once and I was so curious but so shy. Go do it, have fun. 😏

Quote by Ranger64

In a word - "WORDS".

They are the only tool you have on a forum.

Intelligence is highly visual. Not in a "Show me your tits" way but in a 5 dimensional space/time continuum manner. Your words need to create the picture. To describe Van Gogh, and the way a shark glides, and the depths of the Milky Way, and a drop of rain in the dust. You need to understand Mark Twain's, "I'm writing you a long letter because I didn't have time to write you a short letter" - so it's going to take lots of words.

But there's more. Intelligence lives in multi-dimensional worlds. So your words have to create the sounds, smells, movements, touch and taste of life. An olfactory orchestra of movement and touch. More words, lots more words.

And then you need to be smart. As Oscar Wild said on Arriving in America, "The only thing I have to declare is my genius". So add some wit. More words.

And empathy, and understanding, and inquisitiveness, a slightly naughty side, a long term vision and a willingness to risk it all (read "If"). And 10,000 hours - "My overnight success only took 25 years".

And more words.

Mmmmmm and the results of words can be orgasmic to say the least. 🔥 Especially when beautifully spoken in an eloquent, intense voice or written with passion. Never underestimate the power of the mind. It is the most powerful sex organ after all 😏

Quote by zodiacsa

Squirting is something both need to know about - It doesn't just happen

The woman needs to know what she needs to do to achieve a squirting orgasm

The man needs to know what / how / when and his way around the vagina in order to get her to squirt.

I've heard of too many stories where the man uses his fingers and jack hammers her pussy to get her to squirt - they watch too much porn.

I spent many hours reading up and researching how the female orgasm happens and how the pussy works.

I've yet to be with a woman who I've not been able to get to squirt, that's of course those who have wanted to squirt - it takes time and patience. The mind blowing orgasm they have is beyond anything they have experienced, but they must want to experience it and be open to allowing and trusting their partner to take them to that place where they basically lose control.

I have a very vanilla wife, she has seen squirting in porn, when i asked if she has ever squirted, she looked at me funny and said they were peeing.

During all my research i started testing learnt skills on her without her even knowing what my end goal was. I was getting her to the point where i was sure it would happen but she kept backing off telling me she was going to pee, when she went, there was no pee, very confusing, i played dumb and convinced her to let it roll let i happen and see what the result was.

When it did happen she was a bit tipsy and very horney after fairly rawkus wedding reception we had been to, I was playing with her the whole way home while driving and by the time we got to the bed she was dripping wet. the minute I started fingering her i could tell she was gonna let anything happen just to get off - 1 finger became 2 and then 3, I was stretching her and kept massaging her spot in the hope she wouldn't back off - she was getting wetter and wetter and suddenly started to orgasm and bearing down and pushing like when you give birth, i encouraged her to push harder, try push my fingers out, which she did with a loud grunt her pussy exploded, I actually got a fright, but she squirted across the bed, by now her back was arched with her ass completely off the bed, thrusting her hips with more pushing like she wanted more - she squirted 4 or 5 times and then collapsed almost passed out her whole body shuddering - she was nearly in tears (tears of joy - I promise i never hurt her) she was like WTF just happened, i said you just had your first squirting orgasm. she sat up and looked at the bed and said no way, thats pee ! - I said smell it - she did, it doesn't smell and dries very quickly on the sheets.

After this event it was normal for her to want it at least once a week. If i came to bed and found a towel, bottle of water (women get very dehydrated when squirting a lot) and lube on my pillow I knew what she wanted, no talk, I just knew i would be busy for an hour, especially if she was stressed out - she said it was like doing a heavy gym session for an hour - its very draining for the women due to the intensity but the release very satisfying, she said it was like floating on a cloud afterwards and she didn't have a care in the world.

At times I would start to remove the towel and she would be like, just leave it and give me 10 min, and we would start again.

My wife really squirted large volumes in 4 or 5 squirts or jets (if you could call it that) and could go 2 or 3 times in one night but mostly she was so drained she was done after the first round.

Unfortunately the big menopause hit her hard and we haven't done it in 10 years now, we haven't even had sex in the last 3 years - A compete fuckup But that's story for another time.

I have also learnt over time with other women i been with - you get different types if squirters - Some women just get very wet and it kind of dribbles out - Others really release a lot of fluid and it runs out with not much pressure so not really squirting, even if they push. these are the best because as long as you keep up the massaging you can roll the orgasm for as long as she wants and as long as she is cresting her juices will keep flowing. I also realized that the vagina becomes distended and open during this type of orgasm, so if you into fisting, like me, then this is the perfect time to try insert your hand and stretch her out. My wife has a fairly small pussy and certainly wont take my fist, but I've managed to go wrist deep on 2 occasions while she was squirting, which of course just added to the intensity.

A word of caution though - her squirt juices are very alkaline and have no lubrication capacity and like it dries quickly on the sheets they will also dry up her pussy - so make sure you keep using a lot of lube, or her pussy is going be raw and very sore afterwards.

Long winded post, but i hope it helps some people get to enjoy this very misunderstood form of female orgasm

happy squirting people

This was a brilliant read and the way you describe her first squirting orgasm is exactly how I experienced mine. Beautifully written and it’s wonderful you took the time to learn. 😗

Some do but most don’t. I have a long profile with a list of how I will respond to them if they message without reading first. I ignore or block. Easy.