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Quote by Mike_Pta
Can I just include that couples are just as guilty, I've had half a dozen evenings of sitting at some random bar (chosen by them so they are more comfortable) for 2-3 hours waiting for an invisible couple.
Whole I'm truly sorry for your bad experience, I must say that these things happen. At least you didn't reserve a booth in the corner so you can have a nice private conversation only to sit there for 2 hours repeating the line "they should have been here by now", since then I've taken to seats at the bar counter.

hmmmm corner booth for privacy, now there is an idea
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playcouple
Casanova
Set strict rules, they piss off all those that wont show (no loss) and a few that will (small loss). From experience setting up a gang bang with guys that you have never met you are guaranteed for no shows (we also only had one arrive), better to arrange with guys that you already play with and know, at least you know that they exist and will pitch to play. Reason for the no shows is that most men are very very intimidated at the thought of actually partaking in a gang bang, most are even intimidated at the idea of taking part in an mmf 3sum.
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playcouple
Casanova
people make the people, the underwear is to wrap the package, some ribbons work on a bottle of wine but not on a book.............
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playcouple
Casanova
Het jy haar al gevra? Indien wel wat was haar reaksie? Dit is nie iets wat jy iemand gaan oortuig om te probeer met logika nie, dit is iets wat mense of voor keen is, vatbaar is of heeltemaal daarteen gekant en selfs dit afskuwelik vind..........
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playcouple
Casanova
Steer clear, the flowers pressies romance thingy is fine for the couple, outsiders its over stepping the mark where it gets to the emotional rather than sticking to the physical
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Casanova
Quote by Mike_Pta
I do agree BUT does their choice of underwear the you anything about the person?

Deciding someone's personality by their underwear is like using a astrological sign to choose a career. I've seen swingers in tight whities and a pro sex after marriage girl in a thong.
it tells you if they can choose underwear that suits then or not smile
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Casanova
Quote by SDMR
Guys , also remember that this was my first time. I was nervous, hesitant, excited, and a few other emotions at the same time. I spent a lot of time checking other people out for a few reasons. I wanted to see if there was anyone there that msy know me, I wanted to see if I was the ugliest/fattest/most out of shape/smallest dick etc etc in the place . I spoke to exactly 4 people the couple above, the doorperson and the bartender and thst was only to order a drink!
I spent the rest of the time "people-watching" - pretty much what PiB does but with the eyes of a newbie!

Welcome and congrats on taking the dive, :P wishing you lots of juicy pleasure smile
Personally I think most people would notice if they are the only one in an environment, I know I would and from past experience at functions in Tokoza etc. I did feel like a sore thumb until someone broke the ice for me. Just like I noticed that I was the only one in the whole street dressed up like a chicken as a teenager doing promotional work.
Ok, but was one of your first actions after this / these experiences, to go on line and tell other people?
Online didn't exist and and there are no common interest forums that I know of for the Thokoza etc functions, if there are I am not a member of any, so answer is no, however if I were I probably would.
I did post a pic on facebook though of the one, does that count?
I suppose it does. Did you also add a caption regarding the race ratio's? Not 100% sure the people of Thokoza would be all that impressed if you did, but who knows.
I think the pic made the race ratio quite clear, as they say a picture paints 1000 words.
As for them not being impressed, usually at these things they do make a thing of it, in the positive sense as in 'wow, welcome, you took the trouble, thank you....' etc. no comments of 'what the hell are you doing here variety.....'
P.S. I'm not in the habit of putting captions to photos
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Quote by SDMR
Guys , also remember that this was my first time. I was nervous, hesitant, excited, and a few other emotions at the same time. I spent a lot of time checking other people out for a few reasons. I wanted to see if there was anyone there that msy know me, I wanted to see if I was the ugliest/fattest/most out of shape/smallest dick etc etc in the place . I spoke to exactly 4 people the couple above, the doorperson and the bartender and thst was only to order a drink!
I spent the rest of the time "people-watching" - pretty much what PiB does but with the eyes of a newbie!

Welcome and congrats on taking the dive, :P wishing you lots of juicy pleasure smile
Personally I think most people would notice if they are the only one in an environment, I know I would and from past experience at functions in Tokoza etc. I did feel like a sore thumb until someone broke the ice for me. Just like I noticed that I was the only one in the whole street dressed up like a chicken as a teenager doing promotional work.
Ok, but was one of your first actions after this / these experiences, to go on line and tell other people?
Online didn't exist and and there are no common interest forums that I know of for the Thokoza etc functions, if there are I am not a member of any, so answer is no, however if I were I probably would.
I did post a pic on facebook though of the one, does that count?
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Casanova
Quote by MaverRick
Guys , also remember that this was my first time. I was nervous, hesitant, excited, and a few other emotions at the same time. I spent a lot of time checking other people out for a few reasons. I wanted to see if there was anyone there that msy know me, I wanted to see if I was the ugliest/fattest/most out of shape/smallest dick etc etc in the place . I spoke to exactly 4 people the couple above, the doorperson and the bartender and thst was only to order a drink!
I spent the rest of the time "people-watching" - pretty much what PiB does but with the eyes of a newbie!

Welcome and congrats on taking the dive, :P wishing you lots of juicy pleasure smile
Personally I think most people would notice if they are the only one in an environment, I know I would and from past experience at functions in Tokoza etc. I did feel like a sore thumb until someone broke the ice for me. Just like I noticed that I was the only one in the whole street dressed up like a chicken as a teenager doing promotional work.
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