Quote by SDMR

Don't we all wish that sex was just a click away... The Internet makes many promises but delivers on very few. In the real world, you have to work pretty damn hard to get a leg over as a single male. It's like lotto dude: You know you have little chance of winning but you buy your ticket every week...

Quote by Mike_Pta
Well the left ring finger is for marriage, why not the right ring finger for swinging commitment or the left pinky. I'm not sure since its not a thing yet.

Quote by Stamina
Hardening of the nipples. Flushed red cheeks. Lips (mouth) go bright red. Contraction of the vaginal cavity. Stomach muscles tighten in short intervals. Toes curl. Most women tend to break eye contact at the point of climax. Extensive swallowing due to excess saliva build up in the mouth. And of course, me not being allowed to touch her clit afterwards because of sensitivity... That's my experience... am I close?

Quote by MIKE_
Consider the site to be a pub, everyone is there for a little action.
A couple walks in, their focus is firstly to meet other couples, they open to meeting single men and woman but their main objective is couples.
Inside the pub 5% are single woman, 35% couples and 60% single men (of which 80% are married and cheating). By the time they hit the bar, she's had her butt groped 15 times, been told 10 times she's too fat, too thin, her boobs are too big or small, and she's a "stuck up bitch" because she hasn't fallen an the floor with her legs in the air. 20 guys have been respectful but they all shouting at once, all saying the same thing " I'm a good guy, hung like a horse and will give you the best lay of your life," not one of then is standing out above the rest. Been crowding, insulted and feeling a little claustrophobic the couple responds with "Please leave us alone we not interested in single men".
Knowing there are some good single guys in the pub, but still focused on their main objective of finding a couple. They keep an eye out, but now they looking for that guy that walks up to the pub, orders a drink, smiles, chats and jokes to everyone around him, makes eye contact with the wife, chats to the husband, lets the sexual tension build while mentally stimulating the wife.
Guys the odds are against you, she can have her pick from 60% of the pub. You need to stand out from the crowd, stimulate the wife, even if its about the sex she still wants to feel special. Prove to the husband you not going to abuse his wife or treat her like a whore. Its the guy that makes himself available, shows he's interested yet allows the couple space to find him, that's going to win.
It might be about the sex, but its not about bed hopping. There is no difference between getting lucky on site or in a pub, you need to do the spade work before you can reap the harvest.

Quote by Mike_Pta
Personally I'm not impressed with the couples behaviour in that story. Why didn't they ask her directly for her number, she's still her own person? I've got nothing against people sharing single friends but don't treat him/her like an object. If you're interested say so to their face and then ask the couple.
I mean it's not like you to a girls parents and say can I have your daughters number say i can ask her out for dinner.

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guys
just for interest sake. what's the general rule of thumb when introducing new couples to the lifestyle?

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Quote by Raysun12
Couple months ago came across Lifestylers that where keen on meeting people so we meet up and the first meeting went well then a couple of days after the first meeting they needed cash then a week later they need more cash for a family member who was sick then they need still more cash because the male part of this certain dou lost his job. After some considerable expense they turned around and said that they where using me for my money just like I was using her for her body.
My warning to Lifestylers out there do not feel sorry for people as they will take you for a ride. This couple is still practising Lifestylers and still extorting money from people to servoir
Should you require a pic of the couple please inbox me your e- mail send a pic of the couple and the area they work in.

Quote by Stamina
Actual intercourse inbetween 20min-hour. Depending on mood, but the whole thing including foreplay etc lol looooong.
Say stamina, maybe we should hook up haha

Quote by SDMR
Firstly, let me make it clear that this is NOT a complaint in any form whatsoever.
My question is purely for my own knowledge and understanding.
Can someone please maybe tell me how come in the gallery, a picture will appear on say page 1 and then again on page 3? I have made sure that it was not a case of the profile having 2 of the same or very similar pictures. It does not happen all that often, but I am curious as to why it would.

Quote by KC_
Can I just include that couples are just as guilty, I've had half a dozen evenings of sitting at some random bar (chosen by them so they are more comfortable) for 2-3 hours waiting for an invisible couple.
Whole I'm truly sorry for your bad experience, I must say that these things happen. At least you didn't reserve a booth in the corner so you can have a nice private conversation only to sit there for 2 hours repeating the line "they should have been here by now", since then I've taken to seats at the bar counter.

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Private albums takes to much time, don't go for that

Quote by Mike_Pta
I don't think the wine was a suggestion that went with my "only for play" ruling. .. I prefer Appletizer for play

Quote by Mike_Pta
Can I just include that couples are just as guilty, I've had half a dozen evenings of sitting at some random bar (chosen by them so they are more comfortable) for 2-3 hours waiting for an invisible couple.
Whole I'm truly sorry for your bad experience, I must say that these things happen. At least you didn't reserve a booth in the corner so you can have a nice private conversation only to sit there for 2 hours repeating the line "they should have been here by now", since then I've taken to seats at the bar counter.