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Straight White/Caucasian Female, 51
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 54
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Quote by Stamina
My bucket list:
1. Physically meet a female face to face at a coffee shop that is really interested in joining a couple... Even if she does not take it further.
2. Have an actual threesome with my girl and another female.
3. Die of shock and surprise that there really was a single female serious about meeting on this site!

We have met and played with from this site, we have even played with women that we met randomly on facebook, no sexual overtones to start with, one even put us onto a friend of hers when she got married............
We used to use pen friend (bonked a few in the army), acquaintance, contact, now with the advent of facebook all fall under friends. Friends used to be what you could count on one hand . Knowing people is one thing, the question is how many know you?
word play smile anyway you wernt offending anyone, those that feel offended should just go hang on a fence
Quote by nerowp
if we can only put the names up of all the fake profiles and when you meet the pics and person not the same and just before the meeting the cell is off and you will wait and wait

We have been through this debate before, it will just do damage.
We are all shopping here, the market is full of people offering what they dont have, but some are selling the real deal. So as they say in the classics , caveat emptor
Quote by Sofistikitty
Not to sure if something like this has been posted but anyhoo.
People get misled, thinking because I organise adult events that I have done and seen it all. I often get messages from couples and singles requesting that I "show them the ropes"- they assume I am experienced. Well the complete opposite is true. I am very inexperienced lol but I do have a lot I would like to try:
-Same room sex with me and my partner(need one first) and a couple.
- soft or full swap with me and my partner and a couple.
-Get with a black guy.
-get with a real Asian guy(not indian)
-Attempt to get with another white guy-first time was a fluke.
-Have a mmf.
-Join in on group sex or orgy
-My partner and I being watched(preferably by a group of people)
-watch a sensual gang bang all this with a partner,
-Oh and find a partner lol
These are a few of mine, what are yours? Or what do you wish you could do again?
**if I have offended anyone I apologise was not my intentional.

now where must a find a fence hmmmm??????????????? we not on the farm here wink
Er I'm very confused-what do you mean?
a fence offence.............
Quote by Sofistikitty
Not to sure if something like this has been posted but anyhoo.
People get misled, thinking because I organise adult events that I have done and seen it all. I often get messages from couples and singles requesting that I "show them the ropes"- they assume I am experienced. Well the complete opposite is true. I am very inexperienced lol but I do have a lot I would like to try:
-Same room sex with me and my partner(need one first) and a couple.
- soft or full swap with me and my partner and a couple.
-Get with a black guy.
-get with a real Asian guy(not indian)
-Attempt to get with another white guy-first time was a fluke.
-Have a mmf.
-Join in on group sex or orgy
-My partner and I being watched(preferably by a group of people)
-watch a sensual gang bang all this with a partner,
-Oh and find a partner lol
These are a few of mine, what are yours? Or what do you wish you could do again?
**if I have offended anyone I apologise was not my intentional.

now where must a find a fence hmmmm??????????????? we not on the farm here wink
the people on our friends list are either people that we know and are actually friends with or people that we would like to meet with the eye to playing. What is the point of having people on a friends list if you dont know them or dont intend knowing them?
Quote by Irish
bit confused , what is a friend ,
someone who exchanges messages ,chats in the chat room and exchanges emails , and then ignores all further attempts to make contact . if not interested why bother to "chat at all "

That's reality. Swinging consists in my eyes the following:
1. I fantasize.
2. Maybe I want to try.
3. I'll chat in both the Chatrooms and Forum.
4. I'll create a profile as a couple.
5. Go on cam when it's only the male pulling his todger!
6. The Chatroom and Forum being populated and posting to get one up on the next one ! ( this frustrates me )
Don't permit one scenario deter your experience here.
dont forget the odd ones out, the couples, women and men that actually are who and what they say smile or maybe they are just odd
Quote by SDMR
It always fascinates me with topics such as this one and even the likes of "Dogging" how many views the posts get. Hundreds and hundreds . . . . . with only a few replies. That in it itself, speaks volumes.

Hi SDMR, well I would be one of the "viewers" (of the post), irrespective of the subject matter (but particularly of the Dogging posts! wink ). I read every one of the forum posts routinely, and yet you know how seldom I comment or respond...
I agree with most of the posters here, that bukake is not my scene - nearly had an opportunity to be involved in one once, but it seemed to fizzle out and never happened (or else I was left out??!!)
But although I am not that keen on bukake, nor will I tell you what I do for a living, and I am not really into kink other than voyeurism and dogging, and I KNOW that there are lots of single males with really poor manners, I still like to know what's going on, and am one of the avid devourers (rather than a producer) of the written word here in these pages... Until posts get acrimonious, that is!
you misunderstand my comments Mr Redbruce . . . .
What I am highlighting (as per my own observations) is that the heading of the thread seems to determine the "number of views" The more "out there" the heading, the more views, so in my own deduction that would possibly indicate what the majority of people (who peruse the forums) are actually interested in.
The more 'out there', be it bizarre, perceived kink/degenerate, obscene, gory, bloody, horrific etc the more people will, at the very least, take a quick peek to satisfy their curiosity. A nice example is accidents, the worse it looks the more people cluster together to get a better view, the more bloody the front page photo of a news paper the higher the circulation. We have in essence not moved on much since the days of watching people fight off lions in the Colosseum.
The irony is that most people would deny looking or being curious, they will also criticize those that do (themselves without admission) but would happily and enthusiastically spam you with you tube clips of some hapless drunk falling in front of a truck/train/into a sawmill etc.
Quote by georgeous
No wait... You brought it up this time.. "Just a thought young man......."

Hey, I'll show you badgering if you call me Shaun again . . . it's Shawn, ok Seeeeen?
Bwaaaa haaaaaa haa... Makes no difference! Shawn, Shaun, Shorn, Shon... It is spelled "SEAN", all other spelling is incorrect. lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Besides, I did spell it Shawn. You just can't read my handwriting, that's all..
Hey play nice now you Shawn and you Shaun. If there is a Sean out there you too just for good measure. You forgot that Judge Lee likes to take out whips and use it on guilty parties......whip
just to be included I plead guilty your honor. lolleft out sion
swiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiing those hips
Quote by SDMR

Seem to recall a few of the energy drinks in the mid 90's having warnings to not mix with alcohol due to risks

There is very little fear of that these days, the energy drinks of today are more a cold-drink with a bit of Vit B and Caffeine, they are nothing like the original ones we could get.
People are too irresponsible so the control boards changed the standards . . .
It's the guarana that doesn't work with alcohol
Quote by Stamina
I found your post quite insightful and very entertaining (even though that was not your intention)... The pool was my place for a long time and I was loved as much as I was hated there. I have a big mouth and I use it... I realised very quick that most in the pool are "very brave behind a keyboard and monitor". In between all the debate and mud slinging that occasionally occurs, there still pops in some perve asking "any single ladies up for a lunchtime quickie today?"...
This is a far better place to be...
As for the "wankers", I also hated the video screens that were dominated by sausage pulverisers...
You ask a lady to brave it and cam, and you are kicked for directing??? At least if I overstep the line here, I simply get reprimanded in a PM and it ends as quick as it started.
There is an underlying point in your post, most of us are thinking it but many to scared to say it so I will.......... THERE ARE TOO MANY PENISES ON THIS SITE!!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo please dont start that discussion again it has been quite for a few weeks and nooooooooooooooo just nooooooo
spray and cook tastes like shit, why would you want your ice cubes to taste of it?
Quote by SuperSport32
Why so quiet people...there must be something happening in Centurion

Have you by any chance followed the dogging forum? If not, well people here just see who else is interested in it and then it goes via pm's smile good luck
Quote by redbruce
All the best, Kat!!
Not sure that everyone in RSA would know what NHS is (as we don't have such a service), but here's wishing you a speedy recovery!

Uhm beg to differ we do have an equivalent in the Dpt of Health and the clinics and hospitals that they operate (fail to operate)(no puns intended) (at no charge in theory)........ this is looking like something from maths (which we cant do either)
Quote by Mike_Pta

petrol petrol we can offer him that now that the price has gone down ;) and when burning a bridge you only need one match, however you can never have to much petrol
Ok when I was a little boy,5 or 6 it was (wasnt in one though and those days you could walk around the dorpie safely and alone at that age) I used to buy three Wilson's for a cent or one for 1/2 c, Usually bought one so got 1/2 c change. Taking that as a starting point it would now be adding my R3 worth. This leads me to my first question and second question with subsections, 1 should we adopt the Wilson Toffee standard, 2 are we a working on 50c from yonder back in the mists of time, or b on modern 50c? 3 whatever happened to adding my two cents worth (which would have been a treasure trove of 6 Wilsons, maybe even a free one for bulk included by the friendly tanie) Thus here are my six (maybe seven) Wilson toffee's worth. About the whinging and whining (minus the wine, but often inclusive of the beerboep), 1 stop looking at the cams that offend you 2 if you have a problem with it, we don't care 3 if you want to watch porn you can go to a porn site, there are even live sex sites 4 those that put on a show are exhibitionists and the show is for those that WANT to watch 5 the exhibitionists have the right to go on cam and do whatever they want (provided its legal, which with the current legislation about transmitting any naked images in Sefrica is debatable), 6 the ones watching on cam are voyeurs and by going on cam the exhibitionists give the voyeurs the right to watch them, this is not to be confused with the right to save and distribute the vids, (for that you need a release form) 7 The voyeurs are under no obligation to watch the exhibitionists, so if you dont want to watch the guy wanking on cam then dont click on his cam ffs