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joyrider
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 53
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 53
0 km · KwaZulu Natal
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Ja Nee, here we go again only certain people may raise their opinion and say what they want and be as rude as they want. Or launch a scaling attack against a person when that person says something in general to keep the forum alive and healthy with opinions
Joyrider
:sad: :sad: :sad: :sad:
1. Sleep
Libido is just one of many areas affected by poor sleep. Without quality sleep, energy will suffer and the body is forced to ration its energy. For those needing a good night's sleep and a libido lift, start a gentle exercise program in the evening. Explore yoga or tai chi which don't exhaust the body, and provide a nice sense of relaxation for the mind.
Now this explains a lot I thought there was something wrong with me
Joyrider
Now going to try and sleep more
KC I never thought the day would came that i agree with you. But for us there is more.
We my lovely wife and I decided to swing for the following reason. Making real friends with the added bonus of sex. It is not always about sex. It is about the real friends a person meets here.
But the real definition is:
Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub. 3. a. Sexually promiscuous. b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.
Joyrider
Hoping to get another nice rider like my wife
Stamina
I agree with what you say.
The guys/cpls that pull the wool over the single ladies eyes and cpls. They................... never mind
The ones that get straight to the point get shot down most of the time. Because they are to direct. This is why I have taken the following aproch myself. We talk with respect to people that aproch us and when we aproch them. but we keep the mails and sms short and to the point. Now this is my reason for doing it this way.
I am not here to look for another wife, I have one. I am not here to steel another mans wife. I think the saying goes like this dont need to change 1 problem for another.
So why would I then want to sweet talk another lady. It all goes about respect and NSA sex.
To me if a lady or cpl want to be sweet talked then there is something wrong. If it is a single lady then she is looking for a husband if it is a cpl then this is to the lady of the cpl he you are married. Your hubby can sweet talk you.
Joyrider
And there I did it again. Been to honest and too direct for some ladies on SH
Mrs P
Let me try and answer you from a mans view and pls this is my view don't know about other men.
We men are born with the instince to suck on a tit. Then as a teen you find out if you kiss the lady (girl) in the neck she tends to give in and you can move down to the tits. We latter on in time learn that a ladies (girls) likes to have a muff to. So you land up trying to do that too. Although must atmit a person does not know what you are doing and if you are doing it right, while giving the muff. But we men or should I say I keep on trying and experimenting till we/I think we/I got it right. The main thing is we men keep on experimenting. We never stop!!!! Because our goal is to try on be better then the next man 
:lol: :lol: Well this is how I think and feel about it.
Now on the other hand. Why would the LADIES even think of doing any think else than just sucking a mans cock, because they are just worried about their own pleasure and not the mans. They think the following way. They think we just think with our DICKS and nothing more. So by just suck a mans cock and then letting him F@@@ her. This according to most women is good enough. They do not even think of trying to experimenting any feather. Sometimes they do experiment and sometime they dont even think of experimenting. I mean why must they think of the mans pleasure they are getting all the pleasure and we are doing all the work.
So yes to find a LADY like you MRS P is like finding a Unicorn
Joyrider
Trying to give some tips to the ladies!
:lol: :lol: Well this is how I think and feel about it.
Now on the other hand. Why would the LADIES even think of doing any think else than just sucking a mans cock, because they are just worried about their own pleasure and not the mans. They think the following way. They think we just think with our DICKS and nothing more. So by just suck a mans cock and then letting him F@@@ her. This according to most women is good enough. They do not even think of trying to experimenting any feather. Sometimes they do experiment and sometime they dont even think of experimenting. I mean why must they think of the mans pleasure they are getting all the pleasure and we are doing all the work.
So yes to find a LADY like you MRS P is like finding a Unicorn
Joyrider
Trying to give some tips to the ladies! Well, well, well
Let me first start by saying you are right with what you are saying. I have been a few times in the chat section and there are people "MEN" that start to chat to me then after a few minutes they want to see my wife and know what she is doing. So that put me off of the chat room!
Then when a person goes in to the chat room at other time and see the every day people there chatting. And a person says HI they just ignore a person. They don't even have the manners to greet back. They just ignore a person flat out. Except if you are a lady chatting then everyone wants to chat to you.
Joyrider
From my disappointing view of the chat room.
well smalltoy
From what I "felt inside me." If the guy is not long and big then he is wasting my time. I cannot feel him inside me and if you can't feel the guy then how must a person enjoy it or even cum. Maybe it is after 24 years of been married with the same loving man which is hung like a horse. So according to me size is very important.
Joy
Sorry if I crushed the small ............ But I did answer from my point of view.
