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joyrider
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 54
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 54
0 km · KwaZulu Natal
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Ash
That what you are talking about at the bottom right hand side of the profile is known as the FRIENDS FEED. what my wife and i do now is make comments on peoples friend feed. like this person never answers mails or once we have meet up with a cpl the we say, this cpl is a nice cpl and they are for real. On this way if we do go into a persons profile we can see if we are wasting our time by sending mails or what. The best part of doing this is everyone can see the comment and they can always contact the person that left the comment to vett the info
Joyrider
What a informative ride
You know what even gets to a person more is when the people do not fill in the profile all the way. One this way a person can see if the lady is for real or not. and what i mean by this is they most of the time do not have a pic or they dont even fill in the part of their ethnics
Joyrider
Thank you. I like reading the MOD, Adim and all the other parties involved, feedback it shows that they are looking after us as members and that they do listen when we as members bitch and moan
Thanks guys and girls that is doing the job. We do appreciate the time and effort you put in on the site.
Keep up the good work
Joyrider
Enjoying this sites ride
Mmmmmmmmm Lady now you have brought up something which has been on our minds as a cpl!!
Well on the safety side of things. Do you buy sucker (lolly pop the sweets) and suck it with the wrapper still on? I think not! I think it is irresponsible and disrespectful of any cpl that think they can have oral with another cpl and they have not washed themselves properly before hand. If you do not wash yourself then how must a person have oral? Dam ladies there is wet wipes. That is what they are there for. And men have some respect go to the bathroom and wash it before the fun starts.
Ladies now I might be wrong with the idea of oral, but is the idea that only the man must do the sucking and not the ladies too. In the last 4 encounters we have had not once did the lady even suck me. All they wanted to do is lay on their backs and be treated, that is not right. Ladies just as much as what you get you must give back, be fair!! I pride myself by been very clean down there. I do not want to hear via the grapevine I was smelly.
O, guys well, well, well. You all have such big mouths saying you will suck the lady into the 7th heaven. Don't talk the kind of shit when you only suck not even 2 to 3 minutes and then you want to get on and ride the lady. In our last 4 encounters the men could not wait to get on and ride. Guys the ladies want oral that is why they say yes to the meet. It does not go about suck and f____. It goes about the pleasure given during the oral. As most men out there can not last even 10min once they put it in and I am talking on the experience we have so far. So men when you do the oral do it right. Don't f____ it up for the rest of us!!!!! O and another thing men, when another lady is giving you a blow job don't just cum in her mouth it is just wrong and disrespectful, ask if it is okay before you shoot your load. Don't think of just yourself think of the lady, will she mind if you shoot your load in her mouth or not.
Oops, I did it again, I have just pissed a hole lot of people off AGAIN
Joyrider
Getting rid of my frustrations.
Well Well Well
Let me start by saying we a cpl did not have much. Because been your own boss is not easy. You work longer hours and you put in more effort than usual and to make matters worse the work I do scares the living shits out of every one.
So we as a cpl spoke about it and we thought it would be fun trying to make friends this way. Friends with benefits How nice. Well it has not worked out that way so far.
Reason for that is the following. When meeting another cpl it always comes up. What work do you do. And once i tell them that is the last a person sees that cpl. Example we went to meet a cpl over the weekend once they heard what work I do well that was it. They could not leave fast enough.
In the last 5 years we have been in the game we have only meet 1 cpl that has not run away because of my work. In fact the lady of that cpl says she understands my job as she executes warrant of arrests on men that do not pay their maintenance. She also said once people hear what she does they also run like hell.
Our wish is to meet people became friends have sex and still stay friends. Which sad to say is difficult once they hear what work I do.
Joyrider
Enjoying the ride
PS: a person can do as much theory research as you want, but nothing can prepair you for the practical here.
Phil
Our profile says no single men but yet they still try their luck and every time a person has to try and be polite in saying no we only deal with married cpls or the miss guider single lady that comes our way.
not just do the single guys just try and have an affair behind the husbands back, but they become very nasty if the lady says NO not behind her husbands back. they also think they can handle the lady like a whore and handle her rough with NO respect
JOYRIDER
This was not a good ride
Multi tasking meaning performing more than 1 task at the same time.
Usually women like to say they can multi task. And they believe they are the only once that can do it.
O boy and can they. Take for example.
They can drive a car, talk on the cell phone and show the next driver a f____ sign too, as she thinks she was in the right when she did not look in her mirrors before she changed lanes, but she can multi task!
Or am I just typical male and believe they cannot multi task and think a women belongs bare foot, pregnant and in the kitchen. Or where does this saying came from
Joyrider
Going to enjoy this ride
i dont know i was very young back then. when i ask them these days they just look at me and walk away not saying a word. (i think they get shy as i am much older now and fully grown) 
that is why i wanted the ladies on the site to tell me if the measurement thing works for them and maybe the men too.
i find the method of the index finger is quite accurate :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Joyrider
Waiting for the next ride
that is why i wanted the ladies on the site to tell me if the measurement thing works for them and maybe the men too.
i find the method of the index finger is quite accurate :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Joyrider
Waiting for the next ride Well guys this is my feed back
Someone said just be straight forward and ask. Well tried that with another lady anand she gave me a smack.
I also tried giving a huge and while giving the huge tried to sample the goods under cover style, Well that got me a smack and nearly locked up.
So i will just stay shy.
Joyrider
Trying to enjoy every ride
Pim
Now you are killing me. I was getting happy that there is some one that feels the same as we feel. If the people read it wrong and want to get unhappy, so be it. A person can NOT call a glass (the one a person drinks water out of) a container, it is a glass and end of story. According to me you only stated facts and nothing more.
Now i am going to quote what a lady told me one day when i told her i do not like what she is saying.
"BUILD A BRIDGE AND GET OVER IT"
JOYRIDER
Enjoying every moment of the ride
you know what. the front page of the profile at the bottom a person can leave a quick comment. once we meet a cpl or person that is real we post a note there that the person or cpl is for real. if any one has any question on that person or cpl then that person can contact the person how left the comment.
hope this idea will help route out the fakes
Joyrider
Enjoying the ride
