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joyrider
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 53
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 53
0 km · KwaZulu Natal
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okay here is a question.
I am sure this has happened to someone. And then how to you respond?
You walking in a shop you see a good looking lady and you can not stop looking because you like what you see. Now do you walk up to her and give her a compliment on how hot she looks or not.
You see there is 3 things that can go wrong. First he/she is with he/her partner and when you give the compliment he/she looses his/her cool and there the shit hits the fan or you give him/her a compliment and he/she thinks you are asking her to go to bed with you, which is not the case. Or your own partner gets upset with you because you are giving another person a compliment.
Or the person you give the compliment gives you a very nasty answer back.
So do you keep you compliments to yourself or not?
Joyrider
Now I am at a loss of words
"I stopped to buy something at a shopping mall on my way there,and when I reversed , I slammed into a wall, I was not hurt but my poor little car was severely bumped and tail lights all over the place."
Now I have just quoted PIB with what she said. And here it goes to show WOMEN can not drive
Joyrider
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: I just noticed something of myself. What I tend to do.
I always look who is on line. By looking who's on line a person can see sometimes a profile pic. And I tend to only look at profiles with pic's. Some pics draw my attention and some don't.
And man I must compliment some of the men and ladies. Guys, some of you know how to take a real hot pic And ladies although a person can not see your faces. Man ladies all I can say about some of your pic you look HOT, very hot. And I am not referring to some of the pic where you can see what you have down there.
Some of you HOT ladies have cloths on be it see throw or not.
Unicorn Ladies (single ladies) and married ladies keep the nice pic camming.
Joyrider
Like to Look at beauty and to think what if :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Well I like to think of myself as a connoisseur, but not a connoisseur of wine but a connoisseur of beauty. Meaning I like to look at beautiful women. Now is it right to look at other women if you are married or in a relationship? Now the same question can be asked I may women look at other men if they are married or in a relationship?
Then if you are the man in the relationship and another man is looking at you lady do you feel proud or jealous. Same question for the women if another lady is looking at your man, how do you feel, proud or jealous?
Joyrider
Enjoying real beauty 
Well when we go to meet people we are always on time clean and neat.
But during the meet with the people the question always cames up what work do you do. And every time I laugh and lie about my work. I tell the people I work as a communication specialist. Then they think I work for Vodacom or some think like that.
But if I want the meet to end every quick then I tell them I am a Debt Collector/brake peoples legs for a living. O boy then you dont hear from those people again. And I can find that so funny sometimes.
Joyrider
A little white lie now and then helps. :lol:
:lol: Have any one watched animals that graze on a farm or in a field. All thought the farmer wants them all to eat grass in the same field, which they do. But the sheep will stand by one another and eat grass and the cows will stand by one another. they dont mix. Even if you have just cows the Bahmann cows will not share the same area as the Switser cows.
You will how ever get the odd sheep that will graze between the cows like wise with the Brahmann and Switser.
So the same is in life. So live with it as the farmer must live with his cattle.
Joyrider
Respecting another persons requests and rules is part of life.
This one is for the ladies to answer and for the men that think they know the answer.
We men think we know how to make women go WOW during sex and after sex. We think we know all the moves and the correct way of giving a muff.
Now ladies please give us MEN some insight in how to get you to go WOW.
Joyrider
Always willing to learn.
PIB
all the tools are here one the site we as members must just learn how to use it. we have the image verification which who does the verification i dont know.
then we have the member image verification which plain members can verifiy each other.
and then you have the FRIEND FEED where a person can also leave a message on.
we as members MUST just learn how to use it the right way. the only problem we have found is it we verify a member and leave a nice comment on their friend feed then the other members steel our friends :lol: :lol:
Joyrider
What a ride
:lol: :lol:
Joyrider
What a ride Apartheid has been abolished????????
NEVER where do you came with that statement. It is now apartheid in reverse. That is why my son can not find a job.
Or am I in the wrong country, or am I lost, as the other day I was trying to look in the Gauteng map how to go to Pretoria. And I could not find Pretoria as the name has changed. So I must be lost.
Joyrider
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Well of course what is good the the goose is good for the gander. I dont shave, but I use a battery operated hair trimmer. and that cuts the hair nice and short. There is hair but just about none left. The nice thing about useing the hair trimmer is when the hair grows back it does not itch.
So you get to enjoy having just about no hair with out the itch.
Joyrider
What a smooth ride with out the itch and ugly red spots :lol:
:lol: Okay question.
Do women like to shave down there. and how many women do shave and what age group shaves?
Reason for the question is the following: When walking with Joy in town and a lady walks passed me with a tight pans. Then I find my self looking at her P----Y wondering if she shave or not. Sometime a person can see the bush outline and sometimes not.
So the question is:
Do women like to shave down there?
And how many women do shave?
And what age group shaves?
Joyrider
Hope curiosity does not kill the cat
Well now It is time for me to show my real colour's.
Well if I have to get a mail saying lets fuck i will just delete it, because that person has NO respect and 9 times out of 10 that person will not treat you right or respect the rule and boundary's which was set in place before hand. They think that they are doing you a favour and that they are gods gift to man/women.
Plain straight I think it is rude to send a mail like that and it is just wrong, man. Then again I have been brought up in a different way I think. Maybe tooooooo old for the new generation. I know I can be an asshole sometimes with my comments I make on the forum. But ask it people that has mailed me in private and that I have mailed in private. I approach the people with respect. And the only reason for this is I want the people to respect me as I respect them
Joyrider
Respect is what you give and earn.
Upmarket
Here I am going to throw a curve ball. Have a look at the photos of the people say upmarket. Them are 9 times out of 10 referring to a persons build. Meaning they have models bodies and they are looking for the same or they are looking for people that has only model shape now in Joys words not mine ''Those that use the word upmarket go on as snobs.'' And we don't even waist time in looking at those profiles as we like to think of our self's as down to earth and not snobs.
Joyrider
''Remember it is not what you have and how much you have. It is how you treat other people.''
Well now that I have read the last few comments.
LET ME BE THE FIRST MAN TO APOLOGIZE TO THE LADIES ON THE SITE.
Sorry for been so small minded, but I always thought it was the ladies looking at the size of a mans penis.
Sorry Lee, KC and Mrs P and any other ladies that I offended.
But now the truth has came out!!!!!
Joyrider
:giveup:
True
That is why so many people ask when chatting to send you a pic of your manhood next to a 500 ml coke bottle so they know exactly how big it is.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Now the next question is why do people want to compare the size of a persons penis to a 500ml coke bottle. If the ladies ALWAYS says size DOES not matter? And when asking this question is it the ladies that want to know or the men?
Joyrider
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Now the next question is why do people want to compare the size of a persons penis to a 500ml coke bottle. If the ladies ALWAYS says size DOES not matter? And when asking this question is it the ladies that want to know or the men?
Joyrider Well this is a heavy one to answer, but let me start at our begining
We both started off talking about our own fantasy. Mine been MMF (believe it or not) and Joys been FFM.
Well me been the gentelman I am (again believe it or not) gave in to my wife fantasy. We went for the FFM thing. It did not work for us Joy got very cross as the other lady tried to cut her out. And yes we did have the secret word which had to be given if something went wrong. Joy gave the secret word and I stopped. And walked out. Well needless to say we never saw the lady again.
So Joy and I sat down spoke about, Joy said the lady let her feel as if she (Joy) was a third wheel and that she was just a third wheel. So then we decided to go the MMF. My fantasy well.
Well I enjoyed it all the way, but at a point the guy did just what the lady did he cut me out. Which to me was not a problem. It gave me time to recover. But Joy hit the roof. And said it is not right that the guy cut me out. On matter what I said she would not lesson.
Needles to say that was the end of 3soms for a long while. Then the subject came up again I asked her if we can try it again. And again we had a FFM needles to say desastor hit again. Then tried MMF and again Joy got upset. That is why we go for cpls. We find if each one of us has something to do then it is great. Maybe now and then she will let me invite a man in for a 3som.
well that is our story
Joyrider
PS; it was great with FFM for me i could see how long i could hold out and see if i could pleasure both of them. which i could (jakkals prys sy eie stert)
